Decoding the Sexual Secrets of the Gemini Man

If you’ve already read through the other books in this series all about the Gemini man, by now, you should have a pretty good idea of what these guys are all about. The one thing we haven’t gotten the chance to look at in great depth yet, however, is that little three letter word that we’re all thinking about-Sex.

Well, just for you, I’ve dedicated this book entirely to decoding the secrets to understanding the sextrology of your Gemini man. The information here will equip you with all you need to really make an impression on that sexy Gemini in your life!

What is “Sextrology”?

You’ve probably guessed it by now, but Sextrology is a unique branch of astrology that helps you learn about more than just someone’s basic personality traits. With Sextrology you can uncover the secret desires of your partner by looking at some very specific points in their chart, which we will be learning about in the pages to come.

We’ve all had those moments where you realize you’re getting close to getting it on with someone new and suddenly wish you knew a little more about what they liked, how they liked it, when they liked it, and so on. Lucky for you, I’ve outlined pretty much everything you could ever want to know about your Gemini guy's sexual makeup. And I must say, this has been a really fun and interesting book to write!

Before we get into all the juicy details, I want to take a moment to explain how sexual astrology works. We’ve already explored the basics of astrology, the ways you can use the stars to map out your relationship success, learn how to communicate with your Gemini man, and how to tell how compatible the two of you are based on your Sun signs.

We’ve gone over the basic rules of synastry readings and even how well Gemini men relate to each individual sign in the Zodiac, making you something of a Gemini man expert by now. I won’t go into all of those details again here, but if you haven’t yet read the other parts of this series on the Gemini man, you may want to look over that later.

Sextrology is very much the same as regular astrology; we're just looking at some different points in your, or your Gemini man’s, chart to gather the info that we need to get a little deeper into his headspace.

The primary focus in Sextrology are the planets and other celestial energies that govern our passions, desires, sexual drives and our deepest needs.

To determine this we pay close attention to Mars, Venus, Pluto, and the asteroid Eros, as well as the 5th, 7th and 8th houses in the chart we’re exploring. There are, of course, other things to consider, but these are the most applicable to what we’re learning about today.

A Bit of History on How Sexual Astrology Came About

So what can all of these things show us about a person’s sexual desires and preferences? Well, I’ll tell you:

Mars And Venus-Love And Passion

First off, Mars is a fiery planet that we associate with passion, virility, sexual drive, lust, and desire. Where Mars is located in your chart shows how you go about pursuing your passions and what really lights your fires, so to speak.

In Roman mythology Mars was the Roman god of war, so naturally the sign placement of Mars in your chart tells a lot about your disposition for expressing fiery passion, your competitive side and in what ways you get out your aggression, but that doesn’t really apply here-unless, of course, you are into that kinda thing. Which, actually, your astrology chart can show! ...And you thought all those things were secret.

Anyway, second we look at the lovely Venus. Venus was known as the ancient Roman goddess of beauty, love, fertility, seduction, pleasure and Victory. This is the softer side of our sexual appetite and her placement in your chart shows how you love, how you seduce, what types of lovers you attract, and who you are attracted to. Venus is also linked to the Greek goddess Aphrodite, who shared the same attributes in Greek history. If you get into the Greek and Roman backgrounds of astrology, you’ll find that there are a lot of similarities between the different gods and goddesses that we connect with the modern astrological archetypes used to describe the planets used.

According to Roman mythology, Mars and Venus shared a passionate, yet tumultuous, love affair, from which Eros, the god of erotic passion and love, was born.

-Exploring the mythological basis for modern day astrological archetypes is really very enlightening, and offers great depth of understanding of how everything works together. If you have the time to explore some of the histories of astrology I highly recommend doing so-

Once you know how to interpret and blend these two energies together, based on their placement in your Gemini man’s chart, it becomes easier to decode his sexual drives and desires. And believe me, he’s got a lot going on in this area! The sign these planets are in reveals his attitude toward sex and how he fulfills his desires, and can even give insight as to how you can improve all of your sexual experiences.

We’ll get into how you can appeal to your Gemini man’s particular Mars, Venus, and Eros placements later in this book.

Pluto

Pluto’s role in how you embrace your sexuality is more revealing of your darker side. This isn’t really surprising considering Pluto is the modern ruler of Scorpio, the sign we most closely associate with secret desires and taboo topics. Once you realize what kind of connection Pluto has with sexuality the pieces of the puzzle that is your Gemini man all start to fall into place.

When we look at Pluto, we find where you are the most primal in your sexual appetite. Pluto works to help you transform yourself, often referred to as a representation of the phoenix rising from the ashes. Pluto plays many roles in astrology, aside from just the sexual connotations, and is an indication of where you place the most importance when it comes to discovery and growth, in general.

Pluto is associated with life and death, birth and regrowth, and can show where you draw your sexual power from. Connections between Pluto and Venus or Pluto and Mars can be very powerful indications of a sexual bond that transcends basic desire and takes your sexual experiences to a place of spiritual connection.

Eros

Another important point to investigate in your chart is Eros. Eros is not a planet per se, but an asteroid that lies between Venus and Mars in your natal chart. The reason that Eros is so important is that this asteroid reveals your most primal, desires. Some say Eros shows the true erotic desires of our soul, so you can see how being privy to where Eros is in your partner’s chart can be an integral key to taking things to a whole new level of intimacy.

In mythology, Eros is the Greek god of erotic love, and his placement in the natal chart reveals your soul’s erotic desires. Some say that he was born of chaos, while others state him to be a son of Aphrodite (Venus) and Mars.

Unlike the usual planets in a chart, which can have different specific meanings based upon their degree of placement, Eros is depicted only as to what sign in your chart he is found. More than just offering insight into how you experience intensified passion and “get there,” this little asteroid can actually help you to become a better lover when you investigate its whereabouts in your partner’s chart. We’ll explore this further in just a bit.

When you get a Sextrology reading for you and your partner, whether you cast the chart yourself or confer with an astrologer like me, you can quite literally walk away with an instruction guide to giving your partner what his or her soul is yearning for.

Not only that, but you can also find the best way to reveal and share the things that drive you wild. Trust me, once your Gemini man sees what you can do with your newfound knowledge he'll be more than happy to try whatever suggestions you bring to the table.

Aspects made to other planets and the houses where your Mars and Venus fall act as an indication of where these energies are most prevalent in your life and where you can make the very most of them.

For example, the houses I mentioned earlier, the 5th, 7th, and 8th, are the most important to look at when you are going through your Sextrology chart. These are the areas in your stars that show where you love, flirt, have fun, what kind of partner you are best suited to link up with, and at what points in your life you approach sex and those primal urges that can’t be denied.

So, when you take all this info and combine yours and your Gemini man’s charts, you can easily explore the areas in your stars that show what you both need to achieve the highest levels of satisfaction. You’ll be armed with enough knowledge to almost guarantee you will hit the big “O” and have a sexual experience you’ll never forget.

Some Helpful Things to Know and Understand About the Sexual Side of the Gemini Man

Now that you have some basic knowledge of how you can use astrology to improve your sex life, let’s look more specifically at the sexual side of the Gemini man.

Born between May 21st and June 20th, Gemini is the most sexually curious sign in the zodiac. As with everything else in his life, he seeks out variety and isn’t afraid to try new things with his partner. When it comes to sex, he can take it or leave it. He’s not your typical horn-dog kind of guy, and actually, it’s easier to turn him on by using your wits and your mind than it is to turn him on by showing some skin.

As I’ve just explained, there are certain planetary placements in his birth chart that will determine specific aspects of your Gemini man’s sexuality. Don’t worry; we'll take a more in-depth look at these later on in the book. Before we go too far into the specifics, though, let’s explore the general demeanor of the Gemini man and what types of things turn him on.

If your guy is like most Gemini men he probably has multiple sides of his personality, and none of them share the same opinions on sex.

On the one hand you get the side of him that places little to no importance on sex. When it happens it happens, and that’s just the way it is.

On the other hand he’s got this different side of his personality that’s always up for a quick thrill. The more you get to know him, and the more time you spend with him, the more you’ll come to realize that the key to having great sex with your Gemini is to meet him on an intellectual level. Start with his head and work your way down, stimulating his mind before you try to stimulate anything else.

The Gemini man doesn’t need intimacy or love to have a satisfying sexual experience with his partner. In fact, too much intimacy makes him uncomfortable and injecting too much emotion into your sexual encounters with him can be a real turn off for your Gemini.

He likes to keep things light and fun, and once it’s done, he won’t be the one to hang around and linger in bed for snuggles and discussing your feelings.

Gemini men are very giving lovers who enjoy pleasing their partners almost as much as they love being pleased themselves. Sex with him is always an adventure, and you never know what you’re going to get when the clothes come off.

Trying out new, different positions is important when you’re having sex with your Gemini because, let’s face it, doing it the same old way every time will eventually become boring and he will find other activities that seem better matched to his desires.

To be honest, Gemini men are some of the most irresistibly sexy guys out there. You probably have already noticed what a way with words he has, and that he can charm the pants off of just about anyone, to include you!

The most appealing thing about him is that he isn’t even trying to be sexy, there's just something about him that makes him seem fascinating and makes you want to be with him in the worst way. To him, this is kind of a blessing and a curse. Sex isn’t always his main goal, a lot of the time he’d be just as happy if the two of youwent out on an adventure or had a pleasant conversation. He’s definitely not your typical man, but that’s what’s so great about him.

Now, don’t get me wrong, your Gemini is just about as dirty minded as they come.

He has fantasies that would probably make you blush, but he keeps a lot of these things to himself until he’s found a partner he can openly share these things with. He’ll try anything once, and the older he gets, the more likely it is that he probably has.

As I said, Geminis take a mental approach to love and sex, and you won’t get far with him unless you establish this kind of connection. Communication and mental stimulation really get him going.

You’ll notice that the more he’s enjoying your conversation and the more you can meet him on the same wavelength, the more enchanted with you he becomes. There’s something about having a partner with a brilliant mind that really gets him going and that he really can’t resist. Achieve this, and he will be putty in your hands.

This need for mental stimuli comes from your Gemini being ruled by Mercury, the quickest and most cerebral of all the planets. Witty banter back and forth and flirty exchanges through communication are his specialties. The very best way to determine what kinds of things he finds most mentally stimulating and attractive is to look at the Mercurial connections in your personal synastry compatibility reading. I highly suggest this even when things are going great in your relationship because the more you know about what one another like, the better your relationship can be.

He has a kinky side, and this side of him can be surprisingly dark considering how light and airy he typically is. BDSM, bondage, and sexual domination are things that he’s envisioned trying and given the opportunity he won’t pass up an opportunity to satisfy his curiosities.

It may be a sudden desire that he’ll get over once he’s tried it, or it could become something he continues to fantasize about. How dark his dark side goes and how frequently he indulges his shadow self will depend on the planetary influences in his natal chart.

Now that you have a little more insight into how the Gemini man perceives sex, let’s explore some of the things you can do to ensure that he’s as pleased as you are between the sheets.

How to Please Your Gemini Man in Bed

Gemini men see sex as a game that he knows he’s going to win, and he needs a naughty playmate who’s up for a little adventure in the bedroom to be totally satisfied. Once he’s found someone who he feels a mental connection with and who he’s got a strong physical attraction to, the sky’s the limit as to the pleasures you’ll experience together.

If you’ve never gotten wild and crazy in the bedroom, buckle up because you’re about to. When getting your freak on with your Gemini man don’t be afraid to experiment.

There’s nothing worse to him than his partner becoming a prude. This will definitely drive him away and into the arms of someone who's a little more adventuresome. So keep it light, and decide where your boundaries lie before you get too far into the moment. If you want to know how to please your Gemini man, just let your freak flag fly.

Geminis love, love, love foreplay. The longer you can stretch it out and extend your enjoyment of the sexual experience, the better. Gentle massages, kissing one another all over, tickling, teasing and making him want you so bad he can’t stand it will make an impression on your man and keep him coming back for more.

You may not even actually end up having sex every time. Often times with these guys it’s more about the experience and the anticipation than anything else. Your rendezvous leaves him on cloud nine and makes your encounter something that he just can’t seem to get off his mind. Don’t rush into the act or the sex will be quick and once you’ve been together he may decide to move on to someone new (depending on your relationship status together).

Sexy role-play is another thing that will intrigue your Gemini man. He’s got one of the most active imaginations you’ll ever come across, and using this during sex will make things fun for both of you.

Role-playing lets you bring fantasy and imagination to your love making , so go all out and be that sexual goddess you know lives inside of you. He’s sure to be pleased, and you’ll both have an amazing time.

What’s great about role-playing, too, is that you can take it to either end of the spectrum depending on the energy between the two of you at that moment. You can be a naughty nurse caring for your “patient,” a dominatrix with a very dark side, or even some variant of your favorite superhero. Have fun with it and really let yourself get into the role you take on, he certainly will.

Having sex with the lights on is another way to make sure your Gemini man gets to enjoy every bit of your experience together.

He wants to see you and how you respond to the things he does. He’s very perceptive as well as being a very giving lover, so when he picks up on you enjoying one thing more than another he’ll quickly attune his technique with what’s most pleasurable for you.

He wants to make sure you are having as good of a time as he is. Watching your reactions and the way your body moves and responds to his touch is something he gets off on. You can take things even further with mutual masturbation, something your Gemini man secretly desires but doesn’t know how to tell you.

Having sex in places other than the bedroom is something else that your Gemini man will love. Got a few minutes before you need to board your plane? Slip off to a bathroom (or maybe somewhere a little less gross) and have a quickie before you hit the skies. Taking a road trip and suddenly realize how amazingly hot he is when he’s driving? Pull over and give him a little roadside assistance (making sure, of course, that you aren’t on a busy highway or anything like that).

Wherever you are, you can use your imagination and find some way to please your Gemini man. The excitement factor in this is what really gets him going. You both know you could get caught, so your adrenaline is pumping, and that only adds to the intensity of climax. Just do your very best not to get caught because that could really kind of spoil your naughty plans.

Being the masterful communicator that your Gemini guy is, he’s probably into talking dirty to one another and sharing fantasies. This doesn't necessarily have to even lead to sex. Sometimes just talking about what you want to do is enough.

That being said, you can bet you’ll get the opportunity to fulfill those fantasies when the time is right. This is another form of foreplay that really drives him wild, and the best part is you can live out your fantasies together without having to get actually acting them out. Some may think this just doesn't offer enough action but trust me when I say your Gemini is not one of those people.

Talk dirty to him while having sex. Maybe you aren’t comfortable with the idea of actually having a threesome, but the idea really turns you on. Explain in detail what you’d do to your third party in that scenario while having sex with him, and you’ll see just how receptive he is to your naughty ideas. And, you kind of get to live this fantasy out while being physically stimulated without actually having to share your man with anyone else. I know this may sound a little weird, but your guy will love it.

Watching porn together is one thing that a lot of people aren’t totally down with, but your Gemini man will love. It can be a little awkward at first, especially if you’re picky about who or what you want to watch, but the added visual stimulation mixed with the physical stimulation really gets him going.

Don’t rush through it, take your time and maybe even discuss what you like about whatever you’re watching. Leave the volume up too, and the sounds from what’s on the screen will act as an auditory stimulus. You’ll be able to stimulate more of his senses this way, and your Gemini man will be beyond pleased.

Things to Avoid When Making Love to a Gemini Man

Being overly emotional while getting it on is one thing that your Gemini man won’t be all that receptive to. Geminis don’t associate sex with great depths of emotion, in fact, this can make them kind of uncomfortable and ruin the moment.

Sure, there may be times when you’re both just so in love that the sex turns into much more than just the physical act you’re enjoying together, but if you start to be clingy and needy in bed, he may lose his sense of desire and not know how to respond.

As I mentioned earlier, prudish behavior is not something Geminis look for in a sexual partner. If you aren’t into it or if you insist on missionary only with the lights off and most of your clothes on, passion and excitement kind of right out the window, followed closely by your Gemini man. Embrace your desires and let yourself enjoy being with him, otherwise, he might find someone else who will.

Gemini men are known for their love of beauty and things that are aesthetically pleasing, so not taking care of yourself is one thing that’s a huge turn-off for them. Proper grooming is important in general, but especially if you are going to be sharing your body with a Gemini man. This probably goes without saying, but it seems to be worth mentioning due to how important this is to the success of your sexual relationship with your Gemini guy.

You don’t want to be too demanding of him when it comes to when you have sex. He won't respond well to a partner who calls all the shots or schedules sex for 9:00 sharp every Thursday night. Now, there are some instances where letting him know you want to be with him ahead of time will work because you’re building up anticipation, but if you’re doing it because you think you own him or that you should schedule sex in advance to fit it into your day, his reaction isn't likely to be what you were expecting.

Honestly, if he feels like you are trying to take ownership of him and take the fun out of sex by making it something that’s regimented he will probably be nowhere to be found when 9:00 rolls around. Be spontaneous and avoid trying to pre-plan your sexual encounters together.

Never criticize your Gemini man on his performance between the sheets. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, and pointing out things that you think he could do better at in this area will only make him feel weird and kind of bad. The opposite of what you were going for. He may not be perfect, but neither are you, and constant nitpicking or criticism tend to just ruin the mood.

On that note, you definitely deserve to enjoy your sexual experiences just as much as he does, so it’s not to say that you can’t find ways to nudge him toward doing something differently or maybe to stop doing something altogether.

As with most things in life, there is a right way and a wrong way to go about doing this. Saying something like, “You should really get better at doing that,” is definitely NOT the way to approach this kind of issue. Instead, say something like, “Let’s try doing it this way, I think I’d really like that!” is a much better, kinder way to let him know if you aren’t happy with how he does it. Truthfully, there aren’t many Gemini men who are bad in bed, so this isn’t likely to be a problem you’ll ever encounter.

Never divulge everything about yourself or your intentions to a Gemini. Part of what he loves about you, and what draws him in, is the fact that you maintain an air of mystery about you. It piques his curiosity and keeps him coming back for more. Once you’ve given up all of your secrets and there's nothing new left for him to figure out about you, he may lose interest.

Once the excitement is gone your sex life will go from exciting and sexually charged to predictable and ho-hum. Always leave something to his imagination, even if it’s something small, or even something imaginary...if it’s a mystery, he’ll never know unless you tell him!

Seduction Techniques Sure to Drive Him Wild

Now that you know how to please your Gemini man, I’ll share with you some secrets to successfully seducing him.

To be honest, it doesn’t take much to seduce a Gemini man, especially if you’ve already established a mental connection or if he has a thing for you to begin with. As with everyone, there are some things that your Gemini man simply can't to resist, things that we’re about to discuss in this section. When you implement these secret Gemini seduction techniques you’d better be ready, because he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you. Use with caution!

Don’t give in to him on his first try

To him, seduction is a game to be played between two people building up desire and anticipation that makes your sexual experience something incredible. It’s also one of the most basic ways he communicates. He likes the whole cat and mouse game, and playing hard to get is one way to keep him on your line. You’ll want to keep up flirting with him so he doesn’t see something shiny and get distracted, but acting just interested enough without letting him win on the first try is something Geminis find irresistible. This does back to the whole staying mysterious thing and is a sure way to seduce that Gemini you’ve got your eyes on.

Call him up for a late night booty call at your place

Whether you’re in an established relationship or you just recently met your sexy Gemini, calling him up and inviting him over is one way to seduce the pants right off of him. Geminis love phone calls. They love any form of communication, really, and texting will work here too. Whatever mode of communication you have at your disposal is fine. Maybe you saw him earlier in the day, and you haven’t been able to get him off of your mind. Waiting until the rest of the world has settled in and inviting him out for some raunchy fun just might be an enticing enough offer to get him up and out the door and heading in your direction.

Once he gets to your place you can have some candles lit and just be casual about it. Casual sex is something Gemini men are down for because there’s no pressure or emotional obligation to muck things up. Just two people enjoying one another. This will depend on things like whether or not he has another partner, and, of course, whether or not there’s an attraction or chemistry between the two of you.

But, if the stars align, and this works out the way you plan, it could be a very rewarding experience that leaves a big smile on both of your faces. Don’t expect for him to stick around for breakfast, though. This sort of one-night stand booty call is reminiscent of a Cinderella story. Once all is said and done, he’ll want to get home before he turns into a pumpkin.

Sexting and Snapchat are the newest ways to let him know you want him

Nowadays everyone seems to be glued to their phones, so you may as well use that to your advantage. Your Gemini loves to communicate. Texts, phone calls, emails, Skype, and Snapchat are all options that are available and at your fingertips 24/7. You can bet that when your Gemini sees your naughty little message, he will become quickly interested in what else you’ve got to say. You can drag it out for days or weeks, or you can get right down to the point of what you want-With what you want being him. You can send him suggestive pictures (if you’re comfortable with doing so) and messages that will put his mind in the gutter, right where you want it.

You can also send him little messages that involve a play on words to get his attention. A short message like “Hey, what’s the plural form of fax? Would that be fux?” or “I’m at the grocery store and was wondering what you’d like to have for breakfast in the morning?” He’ll quickly pick up on your subtle hints, and things can progress from that point. Moving forward you’ll have no problem getting the attention you’re wanting from him. Just know, though, that these one night stands and booty calls are highly, highly unlikely to turn into anything more that sex, so if you are trying to seduce him into a relationship you’ll want to dial it back a bit.

Make an effort to look your best when in his company

Gemini men are sometimes thought of as being superficial, but really they just have a great appreciation for beautiful things and beautiful people. If every time he lays eyes on you, he finds something different and pleasing to his tastes, you’re sure to have his attention in more ways than one. It doesn’t hurt if you smell great too. Gemini men love to be around intoxicating scents that are pleasing to their senses. It’s just one more way to stimulate his senses in a positive manner.

If he compliments you, accept this graciously and comment on how you were actually running late this morning and didn’t even have time to finish getting ready. He’ll be impressed that even after running late you still look that good. Getting into his head with your looks is just a seduction starting point, however. You’ll still have to make a mental connection with him and show him you’re more than just a beautiful face. If you can then keep up with conversation and make his realize how smart you are, as well, he’ll become more and more interested. When the moment is right you can make your move; that is, if he doesn’t make one first.

Give him a sexy striptease

You won’t find many guys out there who don’t like a good striptease, and this goes double for the Gemini man. Set the scene and offer him a show that will leave him thinking of nothing other than you and how badly he wants you. Avoid wearing anything too complicated. Simplicity is the key here.

Choose something sheer that accentuates your best features and slowly begin to move your body to some soulful music as you start to remove your attire. As each piece of clothing comes off, your Gemini man will become more and more aroused. To change things up a bit from the typical striptease, and once you’ve got nothing left to remove, invite him to come and dance with you. By the time the music stops neither of you will have any clothes and, well, you know what happens next.

Ways To Find Out Your Guy’s Complete Birth Info Without Seeming Weird

It can be a challenge to find out when and where your man was born, especially if astrology isn't something in which he believes. Sometimes it's easy, and you have no trouble at all just coming out and asking him, but some situations make it exceedingly difficult to gather this knowledge without seeming like a stalker or without creating an awkward situation. I've heard just about every story out there for how my clients in the past have gone about determining their crush's birth info, and trust me when I say some of these are incredibly creative and take a lot of effort. I, personally, can really appreciate the dedication here!

So, you've met this guy, and you think he's just great. Charming, funny, talkative, handsome, downright sexy even, and you want to see how the two of you match up astrologically before you invest too much of your time in getting to know him. What do you do? Turn to social media, of course.

In this day and age it's pretty easy to come up with insider intel on just about anyone you come across. Between Facebook, various dating sites and the simple fact that many people are totally willing to put all of their information out there for the world to see, it usually just takes a little detective work to secure your guy's birth date. Getting the birthday is the simple part. You can ask him when his birthday is without it seeming suspicious; it's when you get to the time and location that intel gathering becomes tricky.

Depending on how well you know him, you usually don't want to come out and tell your crush that you're planning on getting an astrological compatibility report on the two of you when he doesn't even know your name yet. So what can you do?

One way to find out the details of when and where he came into this world, you can always start by casually mentioning it to his friends. Seems simple enough, right? Well, it is, which is probably why this method isn't all that often effective.

If you are already friends with him, you could use an opportunity when you are at his house, or otherwise in the company of one of his parents, to use your super sneaky spy abilities to get it out of one of them.

One client related to me that she was able to find out her guy's birth info from his mom after she started up a conversation about her sister's recent delivery. She was able to relate to his mom's soft spot for her baby boy by sharing her story of how the day went for her sister, at which time her man's mom went right into the story of the day he was born. I don't think my client even had a sister. What she did have was the ability to connect with and relate to just about anyone she came across; a skill that came in handy in this particular situation.

I've also had clients tell me that they resorted to ordering a copy of their guy's birth certificate. Getting your hands on a copy without him knowing can be difficult if you get hung up by the paperwork and red tape, but if you're lucky and you know at least what state he was born in, this could be a viable option. Of course, you never want to reveal to him that you have a copy of his birth certificate, and actually, I'd recommend shredding it immediately after you've secured the information you came after. Remember, it's never okay to violate someone's privacy, and when it comes to ordering birth certificate copies, you'll want to check the local and state laws on whether or not you are legally allowed to take this route before you proceed.

Another inventive method of getting him to tell you the details of his birth is to turn it into a game. If you have situations where you might play a game that your Gemini man is a part of, such as if you are a part of the same group of friends or something like this, you can create a "getting to know everyone better" game.

One client related to me that she put questions written on paper and folded up into a bowl for each person to take the turn pulling questions out to answer. Well, she wanted to make sure that she got her info, so she made every paper in the bowl the same then had her crush go first. Once she got the answers she was looking for, she "accidentally" spilled a drink down into the bowl, thus destroying any evidence of her mildly deceptive game.

Another method of acquiring this extensive knowledge about the day your guy was born is to bring up your recent experiences exploring your own natal chart and sharing with him how amazingly accurate your chart or reading was. If you can get him interested in astrology without having to make up any stories to get the info you need, all the better.

This is a situation where pulling up one of the free chart resources online can come in very handy. If you've already got the website pulled up and your guy wants to see what his stars say, just watch and see what he types in for his birth info and your mission is complete!

If none of these things will work in your individual situation, or if you just don't know him well enough to approach him at all, remember that it is possible for me to create your compatibility analysis report using only his birthday (month, day, and year). Using this method, we get what's called a solar chart, meaning we use the Sun as our starting point of reference. These reports are just as accurate but are a little less detailed than if we knew the date, time and location of your guy's birth.

The same applies to your birth details. If you simply can't find out the place and time, don't stress it. A compatibility report created using solar charts is better than no report at all! And actually, I have many, many clients who choose to use this method for one reason or another.

Once you've got all of your details, or as many as you can come up with, you'll be ready to move forward with your compatibility report.

With an extensive, in-depth analysis of how you and your man relate to one another, you'll learn how to speak his language and communicate with him in a manner that he understands and that will garner a positive response. You'll know what things are a turn on for your particular Gemini man, and you'll be better equipped and prepared to pave the path that leads to the two of you having a positive, mutually beneficial relationship with one another.

What Mars and Venus Can Show You About Your Love and Sexuality

Now that we’ve gone through some of his likes and dislikes, as well as several proven seduction methods, let’s look a little deeper into the different Mars, Venus and Eros placements and what they can tell you about how to best approach him.

If you know when and where your Gemini man was born you can easily pull up his natal chart online by visiting a site such as alabe.com, cafeastrology.com, or any of the other free websites out there that offer this service. These sites make it easy to generate free natal charts on the spot by simply filling in the requested information-date, time and location of birth-at no cost to you.

With free online charts you’ll usually get only a limited, generic interpretation of what the chart shows. Even so, this will get you started and show you where your guy’s planets reside within his natal chart so that, with the tips that follow, you can better understand what drives your Gemini man’s passions. Consulting a real astrologer will always result in a much more in-depth interpretation, of course, but it’s good to know what options are available.

Because you’ve bought this book series, you can even book a personal consultation with me if you’d like, and together we can explore the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship along with actions you can take to make things better with him. At this time I will also address any specific questions you have about your Gemini man.

Whatever you choose to do, once you’ve got your charts you will want to locate Venus and Mars and make a note of what sign they are in. There are other things to consider like aspects to different planets or points in the chart, but for now we are just looking at how the planets of love and passion express themselves in each sign.

As we’ve discussed, Mars rules our passionate side and is the main determining factor driving those feelings of lust and desire. Venus rules the softer side of our desires and is the driving force behind our feelings of love and can show a lot about what we find attractive, as well as who we attract. In this next section I’ll explain how you can use the knowledge you’ve gained by finding out where his Venus and Mars are placed to seduce your Gemini man and make him yours.

How To Appeal To Your Gemini Man’s Passionate Side -Mars In The Signs

His Mars is in Aries:

If you find your guy’s Mars is in Aries, you automatically know that he is a straight forward kind of lover who isn’t afraid to go after what, or who, he wants. He’s assertive when it comes to passion and he likes to be the one who initiates things and gets things going.

Your Gemini man may be a bit overzealous at times, especially when his passions are ignited. This Mars placement is that of the manly man, powerful and oh, so sexy, in that way that only a warrior can be. He’s intense and your sexual encounters with him will never lack in passion or excitement.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Aries, you should show him your fearless side when it comes to the relationship. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and be a bit more daring than perhaps you have been in the past.

With Mars in Aries, your man loves the pursuit os passion almost a much as he loves the passionate act itself, so if it is he who is pursuing you, you’ll want to avoid making it too easy for him.

Play hard to get with this one. Mars in Aries makes your man especially physical when it comes to sexual adventures, so make sure you eat your Wheaties if you plan on getting down and dirty with one of these sexually adventurous guys!

His Mars in Taurus:

If you find that your guy has his Mars in Taurus, you know that he is a very sensual lover who knows how to please his partner. He has a primal sort of energy about him, and he places a great deal of importance on fully experiencing all of the pleasures of sex.

Despite having this enormous amount of passion stirring within him, your man with Mars in Taurus likes to let his passion burn slowly rather than come out in one big explosion. He can go all night, and you’ll be glad of that because, well, he’s really quite amazing between the sheets.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Taurus, show him how sensual and passionate you can be, but do so in a very tasteful manner. He's not one for wild or crazy sexual escapades, at least not as a general rule.

Touching and caressing drives him wild and you can get his gears turning by simply brushing up against him with just enough pressure to let him know it wasn’t an accident, but just enough subtlety that anyone else around you at the time won’t be aware of how heavily you are flirting with him. He can be a bit selfish in bed, so don’t be afraid to remind him that this experience is about you, as well.

His Mars in Gemini:

As you are already aware, Gemini is a sign full of curiosity and passion for life, and having his Mars in here lends these qualities to the way your man goes about fulfilling his passionate needs and desires.

With his Mars in Gemini, your man wants to experience all that he can in the way of erotic pleasures. He wants and needs sex to be fun, and having a partner who’s dull or not willing to experiment just doesn’t cut it. These guys aren’t as filled to the brim with passionate desires as some, in fact, he can go without sex if things start to become too emotional or complicated.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Gemini, you’ve got to develop that all-important mental connection we’ve been talking about. He’s turned on by good conversation and a partner who can keep up and keep him engaged and entertained to a certain degree.

If your man’s Mars is in Gemini, you’ll want to avoid making sex seem too serious or attaching too much meaning to the act itself.

He likes variety and it’s not uncommon for these guys to have more than one lover on his hook at one time, maybe even at the same time.

With these guys you absolutely have to start at the head and work your way down, but once you get there you’ll be amazed at how much fun your sexual adventures can be. He’ll show you things you’ve never tried, likely from his varied sexual history.

His Mars in Cancer:

If you find that your man has his Mars in Cancer, you know that sex is more than just sex to him. The act of sex itself carries more emotional weight than you’d expect from a Gemini, which sometimes makes this Mars placement a tough one for Gemini men to handle.

On the surface he’s fun and carefree, ducking and dodging emotional commitments at every turn, but what drives his passionate desires is a need to connect with a partner who can offer some sort of security or a connection that extends beyond the physical.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Cancer, you’ve got to show him the side of you that is most nurturing and caring, not just the side of you that likes to get wild and crazy. He doesn’t just have sex, he makes love, and this is a very important part of what drives his passion.

With Mars in Cancer, your Gemini man needs both the mental and the emotional connection, but without being overly emotionally involved right off the bat.

Like I said, this can be a tricky Mars placement for such an airy sign, and it will require maintaining a delicate balance of love and lust if you really want to get him going. He can be insecure about his sexuality, so reassurance is also an important element of a relationship with one of these guys.

His Mars in Leo:

If you find that your man has his Mars in Leo, you’re in for a real treat! He takes sex and passion to the next level, making every encounter a show of his manliness and his expert lovemaking skills. He is a high energy lover with a flare creative lovemaking. Sex will never be boring, but he may tend toward making the experience all about him.

He dominates in the bedroom and he will do his best to maintain control of the situation. For him, sex is an opportunity to show off his skills, of which he has many, but his methods of making love to you also exude warmth and caring. He’s genuine in his desires and he will do whatever it takes to show you just how much he wants to be with you.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Leo, you’ve got to stroke his ego a bit. He likes to be the star of the show, and in this case his private stage is the bed you share. Submit to his desire to take control, but do so in a way that makes him feel like you find him so sexy and irresistible that you just can’t stand another moment without him all over you.

Tell him you want him to take control, but make sure there are times when you take the reins and change things up-if not, he will think that he is always in charge, and that’s no good for the future of your sex life. Finding creative ways to express your passionate desires for one another is a necessity for these guys, so do your best to keep things lively and unpredictable.

His Mars in Virgo:

If you find that your man has his Mars in Virgo, you know he takes a focused and direct approach to fulfilling his sexual desires. He’s quite passionate once in the heat of the moment, but the moments leading up to your sexual encounter can sometimes feel premeditated. He wants to know that he is good at sex, all the better if he feels like he’s the best you’ve ever had.

He strives for perfection in every pursuit he takes on, and this definitely extends into the bedroom. You won’t find him venturing too far outside of the bedroom though, in fact, this Mars placement makes for the least adventuresome Gemini lovers, but what he lacks in being adventurous he makes up for in his thoroughness and a desire to please his partner above all else.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Virgo, you’ve got to first demonstrate to him that you’ve got a good head on your shoulders and that you aren’t just in it for the sexy fun times. Sloppy sex is not something that he likes, not one bit, and personal hygiene of his partner is of the utmost importance. If the sex is sloppy the first time, he won’t come back for another round. He’s turned on most by someone who has a healthy physique and who takes care of themselves.

Not much gets past him when he’s evaluating a partner to see if there is a passionate connection, and although he’s rather picky about who he will share his body with, all the neurosis is worth it once you’ve mad the cut. Deep down he really digs life’s erotic pleasures, so don’t be afraid to suggest new things for you to try together, just so long as you avoid things that are messy (like chocolate syrup and whip cream) you can have lots of lusty fun together.

His Mars in Libra:

If you find that your man has Mars in Libra, you’ve probably already noticed how charming he is and that he has a preference for making love over war. With Mars in Libra, his sexual drive and libido isn’t as high as some other men you’ve encountered, but his ability to draw out your erotic desires is on point.

He makes you want him, then he waits for you to make a move. Your guy likes to be the one who is being pursued more so than he likes doing the pursuing himself. Things that seem vulgar or disrespectful are a real turn off for him, and as such he prefers a partner who is both tasteful and classy in their methods of seduction.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Libra, you’ve got to be willing to take control and also develop a mental connection with him. He needs a partner to feel fulfilled, but he can be confusing with the signals he sends, or doesn't send. On some level he expects for you to be able to read his mind and know what he wants or likes.

One thing that he responds well to is romance, and you can draw out his passionate side with romantic displays and genuine affection. A candlelit dinner will very likely turn into much more, just remember that you will likely have to nudge him a bit to get him going. Don’t be afraid to come out and tell him what you want, and don’t forget to offer a bit of praise when he provides you with such.

His Mars in Scorpio:

If you find that your man’s Mars is in Scorpio, you can probably just feel the sexual power oozing out of his very essence. He’s not your typical man, he’s a powerhouse of raw sexual energy and he takes sexual relationships very seriously. You’ll very likely find that your lighthearted Gemini has a dark side you weren’t expecting with his Mars in Scorpio.

He may seem, at times, consumed by sexual thoughts and desires, probably because he is. He demands power and control in the relationship and can be a very jealous lover, not wanting to share any parts of you with anyone else for any reason. He has a sort of magnetism about himself that makes him hard to resist.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Scorpio, you’ve got to be willing to give 100% of yourself to the relationship, as he has to know he can trust you. He is an intense lover who will push you to your limits just to see how far you’ll go as you explore the depths of your sexuality with him. Kinky, taboo, erotic pleasures are his thing and he needs a partner daring enough to engage in these things with him.

If you aren’t afraid to explore the darker side of yourself you’ll do just fine with this guy. His passions run deep and his sexual appetite is insatiable. Superficiality is a turnoff for him. You can’t fake chemistry with him. It’s either there or it’s not, and you’ll know if it is. Trust me.

His Mars in Sagittarius:

If you find that your man’s Mars is in Sagittarius, you know that he’s an energetic, passionate, free spirited and adventurous lover. He needs to experience life to the fullest, and this extends to his sexual experiences.

He’s all about sex in weird places, on a train, in a dressing room, in one of those little airport sleep pods, wherever he can get it, really. Not to say that he’s promiscuous, he just believes in the idea of free love and he likes to have some element of excitement injected into his sexual experiences.

He needs to sew his wild oats before he ever settles down, and he will do whatever he can to avoid being pinned down. To him, being in a committed relationship is not a requirement for starting a sexual relationship. He just wants to have fun.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Sagittarius, you’ve got to be spontaneous and energetic in how you go about getting his attention. Avoid putting stress or strain on the relationship. Just keep things light and casual without trying to pin him into a relationship. He values friendships above all else, and you’d do better starting out in a “friends with benefits” kind of situation. It could evolve into a committed relationship, but don’t bet on it.

With Mars in Sagittarius your man could prove to be less than faithful, but he will always be honest about his actions. A man with his Sun in Gemini and Mars in Sagittarius isn’t easy to develop a solid relationship with, but you’ll have loads of fun with him! Just don’t get too emotionally invested until you know he feels the same.

His Mars in Capricorn:

If you find that your man’s Mars is in Capricorn, you may have a hard time getting him to expose the side of himself that feels and desires things that extend beyond the material possessions he’s earned. He’s very success oriented and isn’t really one to engage in anything that doesn’t appeal to his sense of responsibility and his desires to succeed in life.

There is an erotic and seductive side to him, however, and once you reach that point with him you won’t be disappointed. He is a methodical kind of lover who is actually quite sexy when he wants to be. Before he is comfortable engaging in a sexual relationship he needs to develop a sense of security with his partner.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Capricorn, you must first demonstrate to him that you have a good sense of personal responsibility and goals in life. He needs someone who is well grounded, so being overly extravagant or eccentric in how you act and carry yourself will be a huge turn off.

Never kiss and tell after being with him as this is seen as a huge violation of trust between the two of you. He is reserved and can seem shy most of the time, but when the mood strikes he can be very seductive and he has amazing stamina. He takes his time building up to a sexual relationship, and will only do so with a partner he can see himself being able to build something real with.

His Mars in Aquarius:

If you find that your man has his Mars in Aquarius, you know right off the bat that he is a forward thinking and progressive kind of lover. However, it’s important to note that sex is not what drives these guys.

In fact, Mars in Aquarius is the least sexually motivated sign in the zodiac, placing more importance on idealistic and intellectual pursuits and rather than physical ones. This is not to say he never engages in sexual exploits, it’s just not his main driving force.

Men with Mars in Aquarius like to experiment and try new things. He’ll try anything at least once, and he has a creative approach to exploring his sexuality. He needs a partner who’s willing to give him the benefit of the doubt, even when his ideas sound kind of crazy.

Sex on top of the space needle-Why not? Inside a Mardi Gras Float during a parade? You only live once! Phone sex even though you’re both in the same house? Well, you get the idea. Mars in Aquarius gives a touch of eccentric weirdness to your sex life that is unmatched by any other Mars sign.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Aquarius, you’ve got to have an open mind and you’ve GOT to be his friend first. Friendship is a main driving force in relationships for those who have this Mars placement, so developing and maintaining a friendship is of the utmost importance when it comes to this guy. If you can stimulate his mind and connect with him on a cerebral level you’ll be that much closer to seducing him.

Extravagant displays of affection are a big turnoff for him, so you’ll want to avoid this at all costs. Your guy with Mars in Aquarius can be rather emotionally detached, and being a Gemini this trait is even more emphasized. Love is not a prerequisite for sex, so don’t confuse the two. He loves technology and things like phone sex, video sex, or sexting are all turn ons for your man with this Mars placement, and are things you should consider as a starting point to help get you to the real deal human embrace.

His Mars in Pisces:

If you’ve found that your man has his Mars in Pisces, you’ve probably noticed by now that he has some serious emotional depth attached to just about everything he does. It’s not that he’s a drama queen or anything, it’s just that he’s driven by his emotions more than you would expect from a Gemini man.

He is a romantic at heart, and has a sensitive side that comes out when you connect intimately. He can be super affectionate, and an attentive lover, but his emotional needs tend to be a bit more expansive than his physical needs.

Sex is a game that he plays well, and he has this seductive nature that can suck you in and make you believe whatever he says. He’s got an incredible imagination, and he uses this imaginative way of thinking to create romantic situations that make you feel like you’re in some kind of a fantasy world. He needs emotional security to feel safe and comfortable, but has trouble maintaining his safe, secure connections.

To appeal to your man’s Mars in Pisces, you need to be able to offer him a feeling of emotional security and stability. Also, it doesn't hurt to share with him your fantasies, and be willing to live them out should he, once privy to them, present you with the opportunity. Developing a connection with him that goes beyond the physical is also very important.

He’s got an almost psychic kind of sixth sense, and if you can connect with this part of his psyche you’ll definitely have his attention. He needs a lover who is attentive and affectionate, but your Gemini’s duality will only allow for one side of him to be this emotionally dependent and needy, so you’ll need to be able to read your man and see when he wants copious amounts of affection and when he doesn’t. This is a skill you’ll pick up and strengthen the more time you spend around your Gemini man.

How You Can Appeal To Your Gemini Man’s Softer Side-Venus In The Signs

Now we'll look at how the different Venus placements in your Gemini man's chart can influence his natural tendency toward love and sex.

Here I'll explain little things you can do to appeal to his particular Venus influence to give you even more of an upper hand as you work toward getting closer to him and making your way into his heart.

Venus is never more than 48 degrees from the Sun at any given time, which means there are only five signs that your man's Venus can be influenced by; Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, or Leo. This helps to ensure that his approach to intimate relationships isn't too far off from what you'd expect from his Sun sign.

His Venus in Aries:

With his Venus in Aries, your Gemini man needs passion and excitement to really feel the romance. He gets turned on by forceful displays of passion and he will typically be the one to initiate the relationship. He likes the chase, and he will pursue the one he wants until his objectives are met. He takes the lead in romantic situations and is easily aroused by a partner who’s willing to go all out to make a romantic connection.

A romance with him may start in a whirlwind, and he may try to create conflict or tense situations to rile you up. He is on an eternal hunt for excitement in the relationship and is attracted to someone who can help him keep the energy flowing. He can be inpatient in love and has a tendency toward making impulse decisions just to get your attention once you’ve caught his eye.

He tends to attract, and is attracted to, partners who share his same level of intensity, so you’ll need to be able to do this if you want to create sparks with your Gemini man who’s Venus is in Aries. He has a selfish side, so don’t be afraid to call him on it. This can actually be a turn on for him because it displays your more aggressive, assertive side.

His Venus in Taurus:

With his Venus in Taurus, your Gemini man is a natural when it comes to seduction. He is stable and steady, and he’s very giving to the right lover or partner. He has a great appreciation for, and is attracted to, things that possess great beauty, and can be possessive over his partners. He has a jealous streak, and once in a relationship becomes very protective over his parter.

He needs security and stability in his romantic relationships, and he can’t stand to worry over feelings of insecurity. If given any reason to think there is anything deceptive going on behind his back, he can become very unpleasant and untrusting. He loves love, and falls in love easily. Once in a relationship he will be fiercely loyal and would never do anything to give you reason to think otherwise.

He tends to attract, and is attracted to, classy partners who is well put together, both physically and materialistically. Stability and in a partner is a turn on and a big thing that attracts him because these are things that tell him you are someone he can grow with on all important levels. He will give his love and devotion, but expects the same in return. He loves to touch and be touched, and offering him a massage is a proven seduction method for guys with this Venus placement.

His Venus in Gemini:

With his Venus in Gemini, the need for variety in your Gemini man’s love life is emphasized even more. Eventually he will settle down with the right person, but will experience true love at least twice in his lifetime. His need for developing a strong mental connection with his partner is even more emphasized when your Gemini man has his Venus in the same sign. He likely won’t even consider furthering a relationship of any kind if he doesn’t feel there is potential for a strong mental connection to develop and grow.

He tends to shy away from deep emotional commitments and prefers to keep relationships light. It can take some time to get close enough to a Gemini man with his Venus in Gemini simply because of his free spirited nature and his matched outlook on romantic relationship and partnerships. He wants a partner who can be his friend and lover at the asme time, and someone who knows how to handle his intense duality without passing judgement.

He tends to attract and be attracted to partners who are high energy, lively, and positive, so it’s important to remember this when you’re trying to get that sexy Gemini man to look your way. Injecting variety into the things you do together is another way to get him to see you in a romantic light. Stay away from boring routine activities with him and keep a part of your own personality tucked behind the shadows, leaving him something to think about and work to figure out about you. The more intrigued he is by “figuring you out,” the more opportunities you'll be given to capture his heart.

His Venus in Cancer:

With his Venus in Cancer, your Gemini man has an especially difficult time really opening up and letting anyone in when it comes to romance and relationships. He needs a certain level of security in his life, and if he is going to offer up emotional vulnerability he’s got to feel a sense of comfort and trustability in his partner. He genuinely cares about those who are close to him, and he would do just about anything to make sure his family and lover are taken care of.

He can be rather demanding in relationships. He carries a lot of personal insecurities, which is more often than not the root of partners within his relationships. Any Gemini man with his Venus placement will seem more in touch with his emotional side than you may think of Gemini being, Don’t let this fool you though, even with his Venus in Cancer the idea of settling down for good can produce feelings of anxiety and panic.

To attract the interests of your Gemini man who’s Venus is in Cancer, you’ll need to show off your strong side. He’s drawn to someone he knows can handle life without constant intervention from someone who knows more that you do. Also, being nurturing and genuine with your intentions can get him to shift his gaze in your direction. Above the Gemini need for a mental connection, Venus in Cancer adds on the requirement for a strong emotional connection, so if your Gemini man has this in his chart make sure you don’t overlook this element of your relationship.

His Venus in Leo:

With his Venus in Leo, your Gemini man is a warm hearted and loving kind of partner who puts a lot of energy and effort into his relationship. His generous nature and ability to make his partner feel like a queen makes him an irresistible guy who, with little real effort, could have just about anyone he sets his sites on. He will do whatever it takes to win your love once he has decided the two of you are a good match for one another.

He genuinely adores the complements you bestow upon him, but he may not reciprocate this as much as he should. Happiness with his partner is at the top of his list of important elements to a relationship, but he does possess the ability to make dramatic scenes when things go awry. His flirtatious and fun-loving nature makes you feel right at home when in his presence, which is exactly what he set out to accomplish.

To attract the interests of your Gemini man who’s Venus is in Leo, you’ll want to let him know just how amazing you think he is. He can’t help but to be attracted to your appreciation and acknowledgement of all he does, so this is a huge part of getting into his heart. Show him your fun loving side and avoid making too big of a deal about where the relationship is headed. Let things unfold naturally with him.

How You Can Appeal To Your Gemini Man’s Most Erotic Desires-Eros In The Signs

Now that you know how to decode the influence Mars and Venus have in your Sextrology chart, we’re going to delve into Eros and what this naughty little asteroid can reveal of our deepest, most erotic needs and desires. The following interpretations will give you the edge you need to become the best lover your Gemini man has ever had, while also explaining how you can have the most amazing sexual experience you’ve ever dreamed possible.

As I explained at the beginning of this book, Eros is the Greek god of erotic love and the son of Mars and Venus. This small but powerful celestial body is found nestled somewhere between Mars and Venus in the natal chart. Most standard natal charts don’t show Eros, but you can find your Eros placement with a little research or by consulting a professional astrologer like myself for a personal reading that goes much deeper than only explaining these three celestial bodies.

Unlike the traditional planets, Eros descriptions refer to which zodiac sign in the chart this asteroid is in rather than the exact degree. So, if you see that in your searching, don't worry. Also, be sure not to confuse Eros with Eris, as these two are completely different and have very different meanings.

Eros Meanings in the Signs

His Eros in Aries:

With his Eros is in Aries, he requires a lot of sexual experiences to feel totally fulfilled in later relationships. His sex life can be chaotic at times, but his passion is intense and always seems to be in high gear. If his partner can’t keep up, he may start to lose interest in the relationship and choose to move on to someone more sexually driven.

He likes the cat and mouse game that comes along with pursuing a romantic relationship. When his prospective partner declines his advances, he perceives that as a challenge rather than an actual dismissal of his request. In a way, this is like foreplay and it prepares your man for the impending relationship, of which he has no doubt will be forthcoming once he's broken down the walls constructed by the one he's chasing after.

His Eros in Taurus:

With his Eros is in Taurus, he is happiest when he has a steady, healthy relationship in his life, but he is apt to be extra possessive and perceive his partner as more of a possession than as an equal. For his, sex is more than just something that he does; it is a part of who he is. He experiences sexual experiences very intensely and, in fact; his sexual relationship is tied closely to his current level of well-being.

Love is not a definite requirement for his to engage in sexual activity with a compatible partner, but it makes things more enjoyable. When he is unable to be with a partner, rather than go without the release, he has no problem handling business alone. For his, this is something that must be done, but he won't get the same level of satisfaction as when he can pair up with a loving partner. He's naturally a very gifted lover and his partners are never disappointed.

His Eros in Gemini:

With his Eros in Gemini, he maintains a very open mind when it comes to sexual encounters and his approach to the most erotic side of life. He needs a partner who can turn him on with words, and who will be receptive to sharing with them his deepest darkest desires and erotic fantasies. Due in part to the influence of the twins, those with Eros in Gemini have the capacity to engage in sexual adventures with more than one person at the same time and sees these encounters as more of an experience than an emotionally binding contract with one person.

This is not to say that he lacks the ability to be faithful to the one he loves, there just has to be love there for him to be faithful. Intellectual compatibility is a requirement for the love and fidelity to develop and grow, and in fact, those with Eros in Gemini seem to get off on things that are spoken or written. He probably enjoys things such as erotic novels and dirty talk a little more than the next guy, but it satisfies a deeply felt need and desire.

His Eros in Cancer:

With his Eros in Cancer, he may have a hard time separating emotional ties from sexual interactions. He perceives sex as a deeply personal experience, and he bonds instantly to whomever he gets intimately close to. He doesn't, however, go around sleeping with strangers and then becoming attached, the attachment begins before he ever gets into bed with this other person. He is a very nurturing lover but can sometimes make his partner feel as though he is smothering them with all of his concern and care.

He sometimes uses sex as a means to validate whatever particular mood he's in. If he's feeling down on himself, he may use a sexual partner as an object to make himself feel better. When he is in good spirits, and his confidence levels are high, he is a loving and nurturing partner who sees beauty in your sexual union. He likely has an affinity for breasts, and some with this Eros placement have a bit of an oral fixation. He loves to celebrate the female body and can become quite jealous, should anything start to come between the two of you.

His Eros in Leo:

With his Eros in Leo, he gets the most erotic enjoyment and feels the most pleased with his partner when that partner expresses great appreciation for his physique, sexual prowess, or whatever else you want to complement him on.

As long as he knows that you are enjoying yourself and you are completely enamored with him and his sexual talents, he's a happy man. Should this adoration begin to fade, however, he may lose interest and move on to another partner who worships him as you once did. Those with Eros in Leo are warm and inviting souls who make their partners feel loved and cared for, until, of course, the adoration stops and they get kicked to the curb.

He is likely to be a big flirt but may spend quite a bit of time engaging in autoerotic behaviors, from which he gets lots of pleasure. He's known to be excellent in bed, as well as being a very generous lover. The only hitch to that is the fact that he expects his partner to reciprocate in kind.

His Eros in Virgo:

With his Eros in Virgo, he has a discerning attitude toward sexual exploration, yet he sees sex as a healthy function of the body we were all born with. He may worry more than some others about his ability to perform and can be overly critical and analytical of himself at times.

He's methodical when it comes to getting it on, and he sort of rates himself on how he did once all is said and done. What really gets him there is making certain that every aspect of his sexual adventure is perfect, down to the smallest details. When he can achieve “perfect” sex, this sends him right over the edge.

He is very smart, and much like those with Eros in Gemini he needs to intellectual stimulation before he feels ready to take it to the next level. Although the Virgin symbolizes Virgo, he is anything but.

He has an earthy sensuality about feels that through the act of sexual exploration he can renew certain parts of himself. He may go through celibate periods, while other times he is most certainly not. His connection to nature finds him following different cycles as they feel appropriate for his health and personal evolution. He wants to ensure that his partner is satisfied, and will go to great lengths to not disappoint in bed. Despite the sense of purity connected with the sign of Virgo, he has moments where he explores the taboo, kinky side of his personality-And he loves every minute of it.

Eros in Libra:

With his Eros in Libra, he may be the one in sexual relationships that gives more than they get. He is naturally charming and nearly irresistible to those in his company, but because he works so hard to keep his partner happy and satisfied, his desires and needs can fall between the cracks. He loves it, and it's a huge turn on when he's able to go out and display his beautiful partner like a trophy or eye candy. This is never in the vein of being disrespectful; he just get so much enjoyment out of beauty and to know that this person is his and nobody else really gets him going.

He's in love with love, every aspect of it. He is someone who truly needs a partner to share his life with. If made to go it alone there is virtually no satisfaction or happiness found in anything that he does. Over time it is not uncommon for those with Eros in Libra to become resentful of their partner, due to the imbalance in the give and take of who is the one experiencing more pleasure because of the efforts of the other person. He works so had at balancing his environment and keeping everyone happy; he would do well to work on this issue, should it come up, before he begins to resent the one he loves the most.

His Eros in Scorpio:

With his Eros in Scorpio, he is a highly sexually charged individual who puts a lot of time, thought and effort into creating a sexual experience that transcends all else. He's magnetic and irresistible, and some are intimidated by the power that just seems to ooze out of his pores. He demands his partner either be all in or all out. He isn't interested in a halfway kind of sexual relationship. He asks a lot of his partner, but he gives a lot in return. He tends to meld and become one with his sexual partner, body, and soul until all that is left is the combined energy of the two of you intertwined. He is extremely loyal and would never do anything to hurt his partner, as long as they have done nothing to hurt him. Those with Eros in Scorpio always get revenge when wronged, so the best course of action is simply to not betray the trust of an Eros in Scorpio person.

Sexual encounters are thrilling to him, and he gets pleasure and enjoyment out of every facet of the experience. From the act of sex itself to the closeness of two bodies, to the level of vulnerability that each person is exposed to for a short time, he needs this in his life. Without the intimately erotic side of his relationship, he would have a hard time finding happiness.

Eros in Sagittarius:

With his Eros in Sagittarius, he has a lighthearted outlook on sexuality and the act of sex itself. He loves sex, absolutely loves doing it. He needs to be with a partner with whom he can relate on a spiritual level, as well; otherwise, the quality of the experience decreases dramatically. He's a seeker of knowledge and he wants to learn as much as he can about as many things as he can. Someone who can facilitate that acquisition of knowledge turns him on like nobody’s business. He craves good conversation, laughs and gathering bits of wisdom as he goes along his journey, and the sexual experiences in life are like a great bonus.

He likes for sex to be fun and he's likely a pretty competitive lover. He likes to make a game or sport out of the act, and this is how he reaches his highest points of ecstasy and pleasure. Things that make the sex adventuresome, such as doing it in a hidden public place or outside gets him going and adds layers of fun to the whole experience. He likes the idea of free love, and he isn’t one to become terribly attached to every lover he takes, but he does require his partners to be completely honest with him, just as he is with them. He doesn't do clingy; this is a turnoff for those with Eros in Sagittarius. When he does settle down, it will be with someone he loves and appreciates for their mind, not just their sexual prowess. He needs to explore your body in his youth as to not have regrets when he does settle down for good.

His Eros in Capricorn:

With his Eros in Capricorn, he doesn't often allow himself to open up to the possibilities of exploring his erotic side to the degree that all of the other signs do. He tends to be more reserved, and he rarely ever rushes into a romantic or erotic situation without thinking it through thoroughly. All this thinking often deters him from ever getting to that point, but not every time. There are things that are a turn on to your guy; he's just cautious and selective.

He' so used to being in control in day to day life that when he let's loose, and when in the right company, he may choose to relinquish control of the situation completely. Those who have Eros in Capricorn are found to be into things that some see as being taboo. BDSM, sadomasochistic behavior, and other things that allow him to let go of control and let someone else take the reins is often just the thing his to fulfill his most erotic desires. By allowing his partner to assume total control, he's able to briefly escape his mind and leave his normal reality behind for a time and just enjoy something that's his little secret. This is actually a very empowering situation for him, but he can only be certain about indulging in this type of erotic pleasure when he's found someone and created a stable relationship where he knows he can trust his partner. Trust is key.

His Eros in Aquarius:

With his Eros in Aquarius, he likes to experiment with a wide variety of erotic pleasures. Things that are considered “normal” just don't seem to quench his thirst, but when he steps outside of his comfort zone a little and sees what all is out there, he comes to realize there's a myriad of different things that light his fires. Eros in Aquarius creates a definite need for your guy to be able to freely explore his sexuality and find what works for him and what is pleasurable to his senses. This doesn’t mean that he isn't loyal, it just shows that anyone who has Eros here should consider allowing themselves to try different things before settling down. At least then he can say that he did explore and he found things he likes and things he doesn't.

One area of eroticism that those with Eros in Aquarius seem to fancy is engaging in sexual encounters involving more than two people. It may not be your thing, I mean, it’s not for everyone, but it if seems like something you’d enjoy, you can bet your man will be down for some sexual exploration. There are some with this Eros placement who find sharing these sexual experiences with friends they already know can be very rewarding.

His Eros in Pisces:

With Eros in Pisces, he experiences this erotic love and pleasure that the soul craves when being intimate with someone he feels connected to as a true lover. He needs that connection, and casual sex is just not his thing. He meanders through life searching for a soul mate, and when he finds them, he'll do his best to stay as close to his partner as he possibly can. Unfortunately for those with Eros in Pisces, he often winds up feeling disappointed if things don’t continually work out. Usually, this is attributed to his perception that this soulmate connection will be with someone who he needs to make him complete.

The only way to resolve this is for him to stop searching for someone to make him happy, but rather someone to share his happiness with. If he can manage to wrap his head around this concept, he will have a better chance of experiencing those moments ecstasy that are a part of his soul’s overall mission. This Eros placement magnifies his sense of compassion for his partner. He feels so connected to this other person that he's able to offer up exactly what they need, which is another part of this scenario where your man finds erotic fulfillment. Eros in Pisces can bring amazing, unforgettable experiences, just so long as he doesn't lose himself in the process.

When reading through all of this, keep in mind that what we’re looking at when it comes to Eros is a side that a lot of people never allow themselves to experience. By embracing your soul's erotic desires, and the erotic desires of your Gemini man, you not only get to know yourself better, but you can also experience pleasures that might otherwise be forever outside your reach. And, when you use this knowledge to fulfill his deepest, darkest fantasies, ones he may not have even considered yet, he'll seriously never want to let you go!

A Few Things To Remember

The Gemini man makes for a great partner and lover and is one of the most genuine guys you’ll ever meet. His unique charm and outgoing personality make him irresistible to just about everyone, but not everyone is a perfect match for his dual personality.

He’s not someone who will ever be completely understood 100%, but with a little effort and a lot of communication you can come to know a lot about who he is and how his mind works. Understanding his sexuality is just one of the pieces of the puzzle that is the Gemini man, and after reading through these pages, you should be well on your way.

There are three main things to remember that will help your relationship, both sexual and otherwise, fulfill both his needs and yours.

•You can’t fully establish a real relationship, sexual or otherwise, with a Gemini man until you’ve established a mental connection with him. When trying to get together with one of these guys start with their head and his mind rather than by trying to appeal strictly to his physical desires.

•Always keep him guessing and adding variety to your relationship. He gets bored quickly when things become too routine, but a good dose of variety in the life you share will keep him happy and engaged.

•Your ability to communicate with him openly will either make or break your relationship. Even things like sharing your secret fantasies together are important parts of your communication and help to keep your connection strong.

Using the information about the Gemini man contained this book, you should have a better understanding of how to connect with him on his level. You’ll be able to decode his deepest secret desires quickly and give him a night he'll never forget by appealing to the side of himself that he rarely lets out. By grabbing yourself a copy of both his natal chart and yours, finding Venus, Mars, and Eros in each, and then referring to the previous sections of this book for interpretation, you'll be primed and ready to explore your relationship even further with an extensive synastry compatibility reading.

Keep in mind that all the things you’ve learned today still just brush on the surface of what all can be can be determined with Sextrology. Once we have all of the birth info for you and for your Gemini man, we can gain so much more insight into things by looking at aspects between all of the other planets we didn’t go over today, as well as how your charts work together as a whole.

Now, what are you waiting for? Get out there and have some sexy fun with your Gemini Man!

May the stars be on your side,

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

MJSEO TEAM

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