How My Story Can Help You Win His Love
Hi there! Seeing that you’ve taken the time to grab yourself a copy of my book on how to attract and keep that special Aquarian man in your life, I want to take a brief moment to let you get to know who I am and why I’ve written this book.
Some of you are probably still a little skeptical of astrology, and I totally understand. Believe it or not, I, too, was once a skeptic and couldn’t see the value in gaining a better understanding of people based upon their stars. This all changed after a really rough patch with the man I consider to be the love of my life.
It took going through the heartache of not knowing where I stood with my own Taurus man before it really all clicked that by understanding more about him astrologically, I could learn so much about not just who he was, but how I could relate to him and keep him forever. Honestly, I have my mother and aunt to thank, as well as their strong sense of heritage and staying true to who you are for jumpstarting my journey into becoming an astrologer.
One year my mother suggested that I get to know my heritage a bit better by traveling to Romania, just outside of Bucharest, to spend some time with my aunt. Unbeknownst to me, my aunt was, and is, a very well known astrologer in her close knit circle of friends and clients.
It was on this trip that her incredible knowledge of what was going on in my love life, all from me telling her what his Zodiac sign was, that really piqued my interest in astrology. It was on this trip that I decided I, too, must learn the things that she knew.
It was incredible the things that my aunt just seemed to know, all based on very little information from me. She had been a practicing astrologer to some pretty high end clientele for several decades and really knew how to get to the heart of things just by asking a few questions about when someone was born. Once I gave her all of the info she said she needed to draft my guy’s chart, she really blew my mind with the things she knew about our situation.
You see, I once was in a relationship with this amazing man, and I still am, actually, who pushed me away and right into the art of astrology. If not for that visit with my aunt I don’t think that our love would have lasted this long and be so strong. Not because we didn’t love one another, but because we didn’t understand one another.
It is for this reason that I have written this series books on how to better understand the different Zodiac signs and really connect on a level that will help you in building that relationship that may seem just outside your reach. Now, after years of working with charts, stars and my personal clients, I’ve been able to glean a great deal of knowledge about each sign and how they relate in relationships and my goal is to share this with you.
As you already know, this book is focused around the Aquarian man and how you can, not only understand him, but also how you can build a long lasting bond and show him just how amazing you truly are. What I want to share with you now is the story of how my best friend made it through a situation similar to what I went through with her partner. She was lost and confused about where the relationship was headed, yet absolutely head over heels for this guy-her Aquarian man.
Thanks to the wealth of knowledge I’d gained form my aunt, as well as studying the craft on my own, I was able to really help her to understand why he did the things he did and she learned how to handle things that were, at that time, a huge stumbling block for their relationship.
Aquarian men are brilliant creatures. You probably already know this, but it doesn’t hurt to state the facts. What comes with their truly unique sense of brilliance, though, is a whole lot of chaos. I like to refer to Aquarian men as having the most brilliantly chaotic minds out there. Now, myself being a Gemini and fellow Air sign, it was easier for me to get into the headspace of her Aquarian boyfriend, but after a few conversations and reading this guys chart, she learned how to connect with him on a cerebral level. This is what had been missing from their connection the whole time.
My friend’s Aquarian man wanted more than just a relationship, he wanted a companion and friend. She wanted this too, of course, but they had very different ways of expressing their needs and desires. She, a Virgo, wanted to know what was going on. She wanted some kind of reassurance that the relationship was headed in the right direction. I mean, she is a Virgo, so she wanted to be able to make plans for the future with her dream guy and to know that she wasn’t wasting her time. He would shut her down when she hinted at needing confirmation, yet was still a magnetic presence that didn’t want to leave her life...to her this was cruel.
Luckily for my friend and her Aquarian man, they both wanted the same thing, they just went about it in completely different ways. She found him to be aloof and kind of an enigma, while he just couldn’t see the value in planing every little thing down to the minute. Once we looked through his chart, I showed her who their planets worked together and pointed out some areas where she really needed to lay off and just let things happen. This was a game changer for their relationship.
Long story short, my Virgo friend learned to let her Aquarian man just be who he was, and once he realized that she did understand his inner workings like nobody else, he appreciated it enough to actually commit. If you know anything about Aquarian men, you know what a huge deal it is for one to totally commit too a relationship. Things were’t perfect, but what in life is?
I love knowing that I was able to be a part of their happy union coming together on a deeper, spiritual level, as well as on an intensely passionate level. Now, it wasn’t just ME that made the difference, but astrology. By understanding his chart, she was able to understand her Aquarian man and they now are married with a beautiful daughter and couldn’t be happier. She still comes to me from time to time when he is being particularly perplexing and nine times out of ten she will call a few days or weeks after we talk and tell me of the changes that occur all thanks to them being able to relate without anger and really “get” one another.
I could tell you countless stories of how astrology has allowed me to help couples find true happiness, but I think it is more valuable to share my knowledge with you so that you, too, can benefit from the magic held in the stars. People are always saying how it is too bad life doesn’t come with an instruction manual, but what most people don’t understand is that it does! Astrology is like your own personal guidebook to life, and when applied to romance and love it can be the difference between your relationship working and reaching new heights of intimacy or fizzling out, all due to misunderstandings.
As you flip through the pages of this book, you will learn not only how to attract an Aquarian man, but also how to understand his inner workings. You’ll be equipped to develop a real relationship that will last and perhaps even start your own journey through learning all about astrology. So, now, let’s get started and get into the headspace of your Aquarian man so that you may find what you are looking for and successfully go after it. I wish you all the best of luck!
Understanding the Basics
Aquarius is the 11th sign of the Zodiac and is referred to as being the water bearer. This actually causes a lot of people to have the misconception that Aquarius is a water sign, when in actuality we’re talking about an Air sign. The whole Water bearer thing comes from the idea that Aquarians share their wisdom and knowledge with all of humanity and this will usher in a new era. After all, the Aquarian mindset is all about forward movement and improvement upon that which is old and no longer of use.
Each sign has certain things that we associate with it, Aquarius is no different. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and is a Fixed sign with the element of Air. Aquarius’ season is winter, and as you might imagine is closely linked to that amazing aqua blue color that can remind us of both water and air. Each sign also has a part of the body that it associates most closely with; for Aquarius this is the lower body, the legs, calves, and circulatory system.
So what does all this tell you about your Aquarian man? Well, not a whole lot just yet, unless you are already well versed in astrology. As we go through all of the parts of a horoscope and delve into the brilliant mind of Aquarius you’ll start to really be ale to piece it all together and gain a better, deeper understanding of not just how to relate to him, but also how to get him to relate to you. There are many facets to each and every horoscope and birth chart. To start off with, we’ll begin with what gives us our vitality and the very life force that drives us; the Sun.
The Sun in Astrology
To get a general grasp of anyone’s horoscope and general astrological disposition, we start with looking at where the Sun lies in their chart. Now, there is a lot more to someone than just their Sun sign, but this is essentially the driving force from where all other astrological information is derived. Just as we look at the solar system as being a heliocentric system of planets revolving around the sun, your astrology chart takes this same precedent. This term actually comes from the Greek terminology with “helios” translating to “Sun.”
In astrology the placement of your natal Sun is an indication of your conscious thoughts and your core personality. This is the face that you show to the rest of the world. If you want to look at in an a Freudian sense, the Sun is your Ego in the whole id and ego theory. You’ll learn as we go through all of the aspects of an astrology chart that there are, indeed, quite a lot of theoretical references that are used and specific terminology that you will become more familiar with as we move through this book.
Now, there is, as I have said, much more to your horoscope than simply where the Sun is located. You may have your Sun in Gemini but your Mercury (Gemini’s ruling planet) in another sign; we’ll say an Earth sign. This will give you the duality of a Gemini Sun on the surface, but a more earthy feel to how you communicate. Think of the Sun as the foundation of who you are; it is the core of your personality.
You may be wondering why I’m going into all the technical aspects of astrology just to find out how to attract an Aquarian. This is because to be able to fully grasp the whole picture of your Aquarian guy you must also be able to understand and kind of decode the remainder of his personality. Think of the old adage of not judging a book by its cover. Least of all the signs, you do not want to simply think you understand an Aquarian personality based upon where his Sun lies.
Together we will now go through the parts of the astrological chart. Pay attention to this part, as we are building the basis for how you will better grasp the whole of his personality and also give you the tools to help you in using astrology to build and grow a better, happier life for yourself. Trust me when I say that you can definitely learn to use astrology to build the best life possible.
The Natal Chart
Whenever you hear someone referring to having their chart done or casting a natal chart, this is referring to a sort of cosmic snapshot of where the planets lie in relation to one another at the exact time of their birth. To create an accurate natal chart we use the date, time and location of your birth. Not everyone knows the exact time of their birth, and that is ok. It isn’t preferable, but it is ok. In the event that you cannot come up with the exact time of birth we would simply create what is known as a solar chart, using your Sun as the starting point.
All astrological charts are comprised of a 360 degree circle with the 10 planets and the 12 houses of the Zodiac. You are thinking “But there are only 9 planets...and is Pluto still a planet, even?” Well, you are right, there are only 9 technical planets and for arguments sake, I personally will always include Pluto. We say there are 10 planets in an astrological chart because the Moon also plays a very important role in the natal chart.
Getting a bit deeper into how a natal chart is created, you will see that there are not only signs and planets, but also what we call houses. Visualize a wheel inside of a wheel, a double wheel if you will. Around the outer rim of your natal chart, or of your Aquarian man’s chart, we see the signs, but inside of this we find the planets within the different houses.The Planets show us the what, the signs that our planets fall into show us the how and the houses of the chart show us the where.
Fixed, Cardinal and Mutable signs
As I mentioned earlier, your Aquarian man is one of what we call the fixed signs. You know him to be one who isn’t easily shaken from his point of views in life, a characteristic you’ll actually find in all of the fixed signs. There are also mutable signs and cardinal signs. They are all different, allowing for a sense of balance within the Zodiac.
Your Aquarian man being a fixed Air sign will remain true to his own sense of who he is. Some may even see him as being stubborn, yet rather flippant in how he acts. Stability and loyalty are just a couple of the characteristics of a fixed sign that you will find in him, even though he may seem argumentative and standoffish at times, at his core he will never falter in his loyalty to a friend or to a cause without good reason.
The Air signs are all quite good at communicating with others and are more cerebral than most. Aquarius is actually a sign that we see to represent brilliance. Aquarius was once thought to be ruled by Saturn, a very karmic and almost stodgy planet, yet unwavering in the personal belief system set in place by its influence. Now we see that Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, mythologically speaking, Saturn’s son.
Other “fixed” signs include Leo, Taurus and Scorpio. Fixed houses refer to the 2nd, 5th, 8th and 11th, but we won’t go too much further into this, as you don’t really need to get into the depths of understanding astrology to come to an understanding of your Aquarius man. Just remember that in any given chart, the planets found in these houses or signs will carry more “fixed” traits than if they were in any of the cardinal or mutable signs or houses.
The fixed signs, although quite different at times, are all very steadfast in their attainment of goals. Yes, the goals may be different, but the approach to reaching them will be much the same. Persistency and an unwavering attitude of “I will do this” is found in all of the fixed signs and none will be easily swayed in a differing direction than the course they have set upon. I bet you are starting to see a glimmer of your Aquarian man in these descriptions. Just wait, it only gets better from here!
Understanding Aquarius, The Water Bearer
Now, some signs can be easily linked to the physical description of their sign. For instance, Taurus, the bull, can be described as being strong, stubborn and generally very “bull-like.” Leo the lion can be described as being very lion-esk with the showy tendencies of a lion strutting his stuff and demanding to be the center of attention-Hence the loud roar of a lion commanding attention of all who are within ear shot. Aquarian men are a bit different, in that it isn’t as easy to describe him as being a water-bearer. Yes, he has a huge humanitarian side and will always fight for the underdog, but describing exactly what is a water bearer is not quite as cut and dry as some of the other signs in the Zodiac.
The sign of the water bearer is a symbol of sharing knowledge and hope for the future with the rest of humanity. If you think of the water as being knowledge and wisdom, the water bearer is pouring this out, sharing his knowledge with us all and hoping for a better, brighter future.
Why is an Air sign made to look like a water sign? Well, because this is the sign of humanity. Aquarians tend to be loners in the sense that they are fiercely independent, however, you will rarely find an Aquarian who hasn't got a darn good idea of just what it would take to solve all the worlds problems. Idealistic and have I mentioned brilliant? This is a general description of Aquarians and it is pretty spot on.
The 11th house represents things like friendship, working together, our biggest dreams and aspirations. This section of an astrological chart shows how we exhibit our humanitarian effort and is also an indication of forward movement through life and learning new things.
The Age of Aquarius is thought to bring a new era of understanding and a new way of thinking to us as a whole. Sure, we’ve all heard the song from the 70’s, but what does it all mean? Well, the references here are talking about the progressive, forward thinking of all those new-age types who revel in the “Age of Aquarius.”
The reason your Aquarian man is so into new-age things is that this is kind of his MO. Aquarian men love anything that’s technologically advanced or cutting edge. If you want to get on his good side, show some interest in new technology and staying up to date with things that are generally unique and interesting.
One huge thing to understand about your Aquarian man is that any hint of wanting a full-on relationship is going to run him off. Friendship is incredibly important to this guy and you will do well to create a strong friendship basis before you ever consider trying to create a strong romantic relationship. In other words, you must become his friend before you can even think of becoming his girlfriend.
Aquarians think big, they are dreamers and idealists who imagine a perfect utopian world where we can all live together peacefully. You probably know your Aquarian man to be someone who makes big plans and is always a step ahead of the rest. With an Aquarian guy, the bottom line is that you’ve got to be able to understand this about him and not try to stifle his ambitious side. Sure, you may know that some of his ideas are simply impossible, but if you want to be by his side, you’ve got to steer clear of bringing him down.
The thing about Aquarians is that while they are the dreamers of the Zodiac and can come up with some incredible plans to solve all the world’s problems, they actually lack the fortitude to out these plans into action. The 11th house represents group efforts- as in, no man is an island. Your Aquarian guy knows this. He also knows that alone he lacks the power to make all those dreams come true, so if you want to get close to him you’ve got to prove to be a good partner and friend.
Because Aquarians are known for their out there attitudes, their eccentticism and sometimes their aloofness, they can be pretty difficult to read. At the core he is unconventional, in fact, he works at being this way, even if only subconsciously so. You see, it is ingrained in the Aquarius man to stand out in a crowd.
An Air Sign with a Uniquely Uranian Feel
In astrology each sign is linked with a specific element. These elements are Air, Earth, Water, Fire, and sometimes Spirit. We are really just focusing on the four basic elements, however, as Spirit isn’t typically used in traditional astrology. The Air signs are Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Symbolically air and wind flows freely and represents the more cerebral signs in astrology. It comes as no surprise, then, that the Aquarian motto is “I know.”
You can’t talk about Air signs without thinking about the more intelligent signs of the Zodiac. This doesn’t necessarily mean that Air signs are smarter than everyone else, but that naturally those born under this element are natural communicators and operate on a level that is more intuitive and intellectual. If you’ve ever been in a relationship with an Air signyou know that they are largely the thinkers of the world and kind of live with their heads in the sky. You’ll see these airy personalities easily go from one conversation to another without skipping a beat, and typically the conversation will be moving quickly from one topic to another.
Air signs cannot stand to be bored. Matter of fact, boredom is something that Aquarians almost fear, right along with normalcy and routine. This is where the Uranian twist comes in- Aquarius is co-ruled by Uranus and Saturn, by history. Most recently astrologers relate Aquarius most closely with Uranus, the first “modern” planet to be discovered through a telescope. In mythology, Uranus is akin to the ancient Greek sky god and ruler of the Universe.
Now, prior to the discovery of Uranus back in 1781, Saturn was thought to be the ruling planet for Aquarius. The discovery of Uranus, however, changed things up quite a bit. Saturn and Uranus are two very different planetary energies, which is where the unique and acutely eccentric Aquarian description comes from. Aquarians are not quite as stoic as someone born under a Capricorn Sun, however, the wisdom that comes along with an Aquarian mind is strongly linked to the Saturn influence in their stars.
With Uranus holding the highest position of influence over Aquarians, we will focus primarily on this weird blue planet and how it fits into the Aquarian equation.
Aquarius is thought of as being the most individualistic and eccentric of all the Zodiac signs. This surely comes from its Uranian influence. In fact, Uranus is so different from all of the other planets that it doesn’t even spin on a normal axis. If you imagine all of the other planets to be tops spinning through the Universe, Uranus is like a ball rolling on its side. Why? Well, astronomers think Uranus’ strange rotation is due to a massive collision with another planetary body billions of years ago which knocked this unique planet onto its side. This cosmic collision gave Uranus an axial tilt of 98 degrees, which means that seasons last for 42 years at a time. Uranus spends about 7 years in each sign as it moves through the Zodiac, making a complete cycle through a chart take 84 years and 7 days, give or take a day or two.
All this considered, someone with a prominent Uranus placement in their natal chart will have strong Aquarian qualities. Idealistic, eccentric, brilliant and perhaps even a touch of genius added in for good measure. One great example of this is Steve Jobs, former co-creator and founder of Apple-Although he had his Sun at 5 degrees Pisces, he had Uranus close to conjunction with Jupiter in his 10th house, which rules career, as well as Mercury, ruling planet of communication, in Aquarius.
All About your Aquarius Man
In this section we’ll take a look into how you can begin to really understand the inner workings of your Aquarius man. Whether you are wanting to snag yourself a hot Aquarius guy, or even if you are just looking to deepen the relationship you already have with an Aquarian, this guide will help you to do just that.
Keep in mind that this is just a glimpse into the psyche of the male water bearer. We will go into much more detail as we make our way through the different sections of this book. You already have a good idea already of how charts work and what gives your Aquarius guy his quirky tendencies, now we will look specifically into the mind the male Aquarius.
When you first meet and interact with your Aquarius guy, he isn’t going to immediately take things to the physical level. Far from it, actually. This is the kind of guy who wants to know that you have your wits about you and he may even test you a bit, just to make sure that you are also on the level-Because he knows that he is.
Being an Air sign, Aquarius men operate on a cerebral level, as we talked about earlier. He wants to get to know your mind before he gets to know your body and build a strong basis of friendship before he will ever offer up his heart to you. This may be frustrating, but have patience. If he is diggin on you, he will let you know in some weird, yet endearing, way.
He doesn’t like the idea of a heavy commitment. In fact, any mention of commitment early on will have him running for the hills. The very idea of having to express his real feelings and emotions make him feel slightly nervous and a little embarrassed because he doesn’t know how to react to shows of affection and emotions right off the bat.
He doesn’t want to hurt your feelings, but he just doesn’t know how to deal when it comes to love notes and all that mushy stuff. One huge thing to realize about your Aquarian man is that he can love you, love you deeply, even, without being “in love” with you.
Impermanence is also something that your Aquarius man thrives on. He won’t be the one to sit down and make plans for 30 years into the future. You are lucky if he makes plans for what the two of you will be doing next week. If you want to snag yourself one of these guys, you’ve got to stay fluid and don’t, I repeat, do NOT be clingy. The clingy chick who just want to be by her boyfriend’s side at all times never had an Aquarian boyfriend!
The best bit of advice I can give when it comes to building a romantic relationship with your Aquarian man is to not fence him in. He lives to grow and to seek out new and exciting things in life. If you can manage to be right there and experience these things on a level that allows you both the freedom to enjoy life and learn while still having each other to depend on, you’ll be golden. The flip side to this is that if you question him about the relationship, it will likely come to a screeching halt.
Freedom is huge to the Aquarian man, and he will offer you the same. You never have to worry about being smothered by him. Once connected, an Aquarian guy will stand by your side and be the best friend/partner you could ever imagine. He isn’t the jealous type, I mean, the way he sees it, he has nothing to worry about because he wouldn’t be in a close relationship with you if you weren’t trustworthy.I mentioned that physical contact is not the first place that your relationship with an Aquarian man will go, but don’t let this make you think that you won’t get there. Aquarian men love excitement; they thrive on it. When it comes to fun between the sheets, things can get a little crazy, so come prepared to try new things and experience pleasure like never before. Every encounter will bring opportunity for a really fun and different sensation, and he wants you to experience them all!
The Upsides to Being with an Aquarian Man
He is Genuine
You’ll never meet anyone who is more real and genuine than your Aquarian guy. So many guys out there try to be something they’re not. Worse yet, a lot of guys will try to meld your personality and his into one. You know the type, controlling and always in your business-Think joint Facebook accounts-Your Aquarian man will never try to make you be anything less than genuinely who you are. He sees your flaws and he loves them because they make him able to let his guard down around you.
Beyond letting you be who you are, he will never be fake or phony. In fact, he will do his dead level best to excite you without trying to entertain you. This is a very specialized skill set that Aquarians are simply born with. While he may be aloof from time to time, he will never step out on you; it’s just not in his DNA to be a two timer. Also, the level of loyalty you’ll get with an Aquarian man is to be admired. If you are lucky enough to get into his heart, you must also be uniquely you. What could be better than that?
He is Simply Brilliant
If you have your eye on an Aquarian man and you intend on making him yours, you have a pretty good head on your shoulders. That being said, Aquarian guys are oh so brilliant it isn’t even funny. He will constantly amaze you with his quick wit and the great conversations will be never ending. Sure, he will have those days, like all of us, where he isn’t down for a four hour conversation, but you can bet when he is that the topics will be fascinating.
Need to figure out a way to make something work? Ask an Aquarian guy, his genius kind of pushes him to be that inventive type of thinker who can work around any problem you throw at him. Now, the solutions he comes up with will definitely not be typical, they may not even seem plausible, but you’ll find his way of inventing solutions to revolutionize the way you consider problem solving.
He is Exciting And The Sex Is Amazing
We’ve all had those relationships where day to day life with your partner becomes about as exciting as watching paint dry on a rainy day. This is something that you never have to worry about when it comes to dating an Aquarian man. He isn’t your typical kind of guy, so you won’t have your typical kind of relationship, it’s as simple as that. There is something about Aquarians that makes them shine in a crowd. That whole dinner at the same restaurant on the same “date night” of the week thing, that will never happen when you are dating an Aquarian. Dinner on top of the Eiffel tower to celebrate your 18 day anniversary, now that is more like what you can expect-the unexpected.
Now, let’s get down to the nitty gritty here and talk about what you’ve been wondering about anyway-Sex. When you reach the level of intimacy that it takes to get down and dirty with an Aquarian man it means that he really does value your companionship. You see, Aquarians don’t want to just have sex with anybody, they respect themselves far more than that. They want to have an amazing orgasmic experience with somebody, by this I mean somebody they hold in a high enough regard to look past their squeamish side and get primal. Sure, Aquarians guys have flings and one night stands, or it is possible. After all, they are only human, but in the grand scheme of things, he wants to have some kinky and amazingly memorable and he wants you to enjoy it as much as he does.
The Downsides to Being with an Aquarian Man
He Can Leave You Feeling Confused
As with everything in life, there are upsides and downsides. Having a relationship with an quartan man is no different, and why should it be? When it comes to the downsides to being with an Aquarian man, his detached sense of self ranks right up there at the top.
He can be totally into you, yet his mind is a million miles away. The odds are he is contemplating ways to solve world hunger with some type of Goldberg device or something that can, at the time, seem infinitely ridiculous when you feel there are pressing relationship matters to discuss. When you run into this, just give him space. Aquarians are loners even though they feel the need to connect us all universally. This paradox is one of the things that makes them both amazing and frustrating at the same time.
He Can Be Indifferent
As I’ve stated, you cannot be clingy and super needy when it comes down to your relationship with an Aquarian guy. You’ll never find an Aquarian in one of hose co-dependent relationships; it simply isn’t going to happen. He is going to do his own thing and he is going to do it whether you like it or not.
Aquarians have the reputation for having a very sharp tongue, as well. Once on his bad side, one of two things will happen: he will either give you the silent treatment, if you are lucky, or he will attack whatever standpoint you have with razor sharp words that can really be hurtful. This is because of his high level of intelligence, as well as his ability to distance himself from the emotional aspect of things.
For those of you who have had the experience of pissing off an Aquarian, you know what I am talking about. Those strong communication skills come out full force when he is hurt and what was once a delightful intellectual exchange can become a war of words and it can come out of nowhere. Yes, there must be a reason for him to act so cold, but with that strong Uranian influence, Aquarians tend to strike unexpectedly.
Really and truly, if you have done something that warrants this kind of reaction from an Aquarian man, you probably shouldn’t be together anyway. He is someone who demands equality in a relationship. You be good to him and he will be good to you. Cross him by being dishonest and he will never, ever forget it.
He Can Be A Disruptive Force
While his rebellious nature can be endearing at times, Aquarian men can be quite disruptive to your nice planned out days. If you are just as chaotic as he is, that’s great, but those of you who like to plan things down to the minute and know what is going to happen next, well, he will bring a level of disorder to your day planner that you could have never imagined was even possible.
One of the symbols that we associate with the sign of Aquarius is the lightening bolt. Actually, if you turn the water symbol on its side it even resembles that of a lightening bolt. As lightening tends to do, your Aquarian guy can strike out of nowhere with a sort of chaotic brilliance that, to the one who likes order and structure, can be maddening. The flip side to this is that if you are someone who likes the idea of adding a splash of chaos to your life to see where it takes you, you won’t mind his disruptiveness. The chaos theory, man, you never know what might happen!
Aquarius is a strong communicator and easily relates to just about everyone. The Aquarian man is someone who holds true to this description, in that Aquarians are highly intelligent and idealistic personalities
The Basic Rules of Attraction
When it comes down to it, there are a few basic things to consider when entering into a relationship with an Aquarian guy. First off, he isn’t going to jump into a relationship without putting real thought into it, and definitely not before he feels that the two of you are compatible. You see, for the Aquarian man a relationship is a way of clipping his wings, so to speak. Aquarians are all about personal freedom and getting into a serious commitment is just not what this revolutionary thinking man is all about.
He will not play games with you, not in the traditional sense anyway. The trivial and often base head games that people play with one another stemming from jealousy or the need to control their partner are not welcome in the Aquarian guys bubble. In fact, trying to snag him by playing silly mind games will only lower his opinion of your personal intelligence. He can see right through anything that isn’t genuine.
Aquarians, both male and female, tend to have the appearance and attitude of being younger than they are. Now, if you are talking about an Aquarian who is 18, I suppose this doesn’t really apply, but as they grow into adulthood and make their way through life, they will definitely maintain an air of youth and vitality that is envied by many. This is, in my opinion, largely because they keep a fresh outlook on just about everything, never allowing themselves to get bogged down or become stagnate for too long.
Aquarian men aren’t shallow, but they do appreciate you to take care of yourself. Honestly, he doesn’t care one bit about whether or not you have the perfect hair, designer clothes or if your makeup is on-point. What he sees when he looks at you goes much deeper than the physical. That being said, you can tell a great deal about a person based on how they present themselves. Trying too hard to “look good” will be off-putting to an Aquarian man and he will see you as being fake. Whatever your style is, keep it. It certainly doesn’t hurt to look hot, but on those days when you are really just feeling like a hot mess, go with it. To the Aquarian appearances are a very small part of the equation of why he’s attracted to you.
Three Tips To Help You Attract An Aquarian Man
1.) Recognize the importance of friendship before romance.
Don’t come at him with an initial expectation of roses and chocolates. Show him that you really care about getting to know him and that you can be a trusted friend and confidant. If you are really just head over heels for an Aquarian guy and wish that you could get to the relationship already, consider the friendship foundation and an introduction to what it is like to be in a relationship with him. Fundamentally he is not all that much different in how he will treat you, as far as how he acts in a relationship vs friendship.
2.) Keep an air of mystery about yourself
One thing that Aquarian men love is to be intrigued by something or someone. The more unique and mysterious you are, the better. Don’t just lay all of your cards on the table and tell him your life story immediately upon meeting him. When it comes to gaining his interest, you’ve got to give him a reason to wonder why you do this or that. I’m not saying don’t be open with him, just don’t give him an entire rundown of your life from kindergarten on in the beginning.
3.) Don’t be afraid to be the odd man out
Aquarian men are attracted to things they aren’t accustomed to, so if you look like everyone else you’ll likely be overlooked by him. He loves the unusual elements of life and things that make him stop and take notice. If you like to wear nice scents, try something different and unique. Something that makes him ask “What is that great smell?” will make for a great conversation starter.
When it comes down to gaining the respect and admiration of an Aquarian man it all starts with his perception of who you are as a person. He appreciates someone who will stick to their guns on any given subject, even if he doesn’t agree with you. You can’t be a softie or a pushover and expect for him to see you as someone he wants to link up with. You see, Aquarian men are stubborn, revolutionary kind of thinkers, and he will basically expect for you to be as well.
If you are in a situation where the Aquarian guy you’ve got your eye on isn’t going to be a staple in the background for an extended period of time, you are best to make it known to him that you want to get to know him and enter into his circle of friends. Aquarians in general tend to not stay in one place for too long, so being timid and afraid to talk to him could backfire. If he is a co-worker, you could get to work one day, ready to talk to him socially for the first time, and find that he has moved on to another job. It can get a bit tricky here, but you have to figure out a way to strike while the iron is hot and he is in your presence, but not come on as to make it seem like you want to pin him down into something serious.
If you aren’t sure how to start up a conversation with an Aquarian guy, getting him into a conversation about modern technology is a great go-to conversation starter. Aquarians are always looking to learn about the latest and greatest thing out there, it is all a part of their forward thinking mindsets. Showing an interest in modern science, technology, science, or even astrology is an almost surefire way to get him into an intellectual conversation. What’s pretty awesome about this, too, is that you will almost definitely learn some cool stuff from him when you spark up conversation on one of these topics or something similar.
One other thing to keep in consideration when it comes to snagging yourself an Aquarian man is the fact that he will very likely have more than one person on his mind at any given time. I know what you are thinking, “But what about all that loyalty stuff?” Well, he is loyal, almost to a fault, as he would never tarnish his strong sense of character by engaging in something as base as cheating on a partner.
However, until he is officially yours, his interests may be all over the place. For one, he is going to be quite the catch in many ways and others are going to see this, but above that, he is so friendly and easy to get along with that the Aquarian man you have your eye on is probably someone who just always surrounded by people. He loves good conversation and someone who can make his mind work, so you just have to be able to pique his interest above and beyond the rest.
Learning To Respect His Free Spirited Nature
If you want to be with an Aquarian man, you have got to be able to respect his free spirit and be comfortable to let him roam. As a rule, Aquarians hate to feel boxed in-this will make him feel like he is losing that ability to grow and that is something that can be a real deal breaker when it comes to relationships. If you are the type who needs to know where your guy is all of the time, you want to share a Facebook account or tend to have other “smothering” tendencies in relationships, dating an Aquarian is probably just not for you. This is not to say that there is no chance, but you must learn to give a little when it comes to personal freedoms. As far as the Aquarius mindset goes, it is basically live free or die, and in a relationship smothering will only make him run for the door as fas as his gorgeous legs will allow.
He needs to know that you trust him, because trust is something that is obviously got to be a given if you reach the level of being in a real relationship with an Aquarius guy. He will never demand that you invite him out to every function you go to, although if it is a social function that you are attending or there is a worthy cause you are promoting, the odds are he will want to be there with you.
For some of you this is no problem, but for those of you who can get a little clingy, and you know who you are, it will behoove you to lose the cling and work toward a relationship that is built on personal freedoms and trust. The more you let him do his thing, the more he will want you right there with him, as long as you can keep up with the conversation, of course.
Along with his free spirit will come the tendency to bring about chaos into whatever he touches. The best partner for an Aquarius man, and how you will know if you are really compatible all lies in your ability to find brilliance within the chaos.
This can actually be a lot of fun, just as much as it can be sometimes frustrating. He will be outgoing, yet elusive in who he hands his heart over to. The Aquarian mind works in a manner that can be more than just a little bit hard to understand. Once you come to understand him though, well, who am I kidding? Once you come to understand him he is apt to do a 360 and things could go in a totally different direction! This is the chaos I am talking about.
Honestly, if you can master the ability to understand his quirks and support him in whatever ventures he delves into, however eccentric it may seem, you are almost golden. I say almost because you just never know with these guys. If you are into excitement and developing or enhancing your thirst for life, this is definitely a guy that you can great a great relationship with that will be never-ending in the rewards that can be reaped.
The Dark Side of Aquarius
Despite all of the great things that come along with coupling yourself with an Aquarius man, there're also some not so great traits that these guys possess that can be a real downer. This goes back to balance in all things. I mean, without the darker side the positives wouldn’t seem all that positive, now would they?
So what are the things you need to avoid or watch out for when it comes to a relationship with an Aquarius man? Well, I’ll tell you:
It’s Not What You Say It’s How You Say It All Aquarians have razor sharp wit, in fact, there isn’t much you can slip past an Aquarian mind. When in a verbal altercation, though, this razor sharp wit more often than not will turn into a razor sharp tongue. He can be harsh with his words and feelings will eventually be hurt.
It isn’t that these guys so much mean to make you cry, but the blatant honesty and the way that he articulates his thoughts can send chills down your spine and have you rethinking your whole existence if you get on his bad side.
I guess the answer here is to not get on his bad side, but that isn’t really a practical goal. We’re all human, we all make mistakes, just keep in mind that some mistakes can’t be unmade and if you cross him, he will come at you full force and he results of this can be quite hurtful.
He Can Be An Extremist
Just as you love his unconventional and unique way of looking at things, the Aquarian man will typically be rather extreme in how he goes about life. This includes extremity in how he goes about revenge.
Now, it would take a lot to get him to engage in activities that are centered around revenge and wasting his time on a cause that is not beneficial in some way to his cause, whatever that may be at the time. However, if you end up tangled up with him in some manner that winds up with hatred on both sides, or something extreme like that, he will go all out and he will do so in ways you would have never even considered.
He Can Make You Feel Like He Genuinely Doesn’t Care
It is hard to get into the headspace of the Aquarian man and his aloof tendencies can make you feel like he just genuinely doesn't care whether you exist or not. This can be disheartening if you have been on the track of thinking that things were going well. All of the sudden you just may not hear fro him for days or weeks, even.
The odds are he does still care, if he cared at all to begin with, but when you go from full on talking every day to nothing it can make you question what is wrong with you. The answer to that is nothing-Nothing is wrong with you if he stops calling or texting, so don’t let yourself fall into the way of thinking that you aren’t worthy of his attention or something equally negative. He can still be interested in you, but much like someone who has ADD, he is very easily distracted.
Aquarian Male Attraction From A-Z
He is eccentric, unique and maybe even a little bit on the weird side, but you are diggin him and you want him to feel the same about you. Strong and determined, be it personal or humanitarian, he always is working toward a cause. You want him to work toward developing and building a relationship with you, but how do you go about achieving that? Well, we’ve already gone over a lot of the basics for how to get in tight with one of these brilliantly quixotic men, and now we will look at how to really get under his skin and make it so that he just can’t get you off of his mind.
How An Aquarian Man Will Show He Is Totally Into You
It can be more than just a little bit difficult to tell when that Aquarian guy is into you. This can be frustrating and can sometimes even make you feel like you should just give up and move on to a different Zodiac sign for partnership. Don’t give up so easily. The ways that Aquarian men show they have feelings for you can actually be pretty easily decoded if you know what you are looking for.
Many Aquarian men are the type who will become something resembling an engineer in the professional world. Not to say that they are all engineers, not by a long shot. Aquarians are the thinkers of the world, the dreamers, the inventors and the socalled quacks.
Now, if you have ver been in the company of an engineer you know that they can be very precise and kind of lacking in emotional display. This is what I am talking about. He won’t show that he loves you with roses and chocolates. That will just never happen unless he is trying really hard, and in that case it is likely to be simple infatuation and not a genuine interest.
When an Aquarian guy is really into you he will make it a point to spend some one-on-one time with you. He will share his knowledge with you, but not in the way that he shares his knowledge with everyone else.
He will have patience with you and he won’t be quite so critical of your every move on the surface. Sure, he may do this with others in his circle of friends, but once you are on the same wavelength as one another it will become obvious that he is spending extra time to show you what he knows.
While he won’t bring you chocolates or have flowers sent to your work, he will find unique little gadgets that he thinks could somehow improve your life. The weirder the better when it comes down to this scenario. So, if your Aquarius man stops by your work to bring you something that leaves you thinking, “What the heck am I supposed to do with this?” You know he has a thing for you.
He wants you to realize his genius. He wants you to be able to become a partner in crime, so to speak, and someone who he feels he can achieve his goals with. Not that he will become codependent and need you to achieve his goals, but he wants you to be on the same general track as him when it comes to those things you work together to achieve in life.
If he comes to you for advice and actually takes what you say to heart you will know that he trusts and values what you have to say. Now, it isn’t that it is such a big feat for an Aquarian to ask for advice, in fact, he likes to get the standpoint of others. Typically this is so that he can either make the best possible judgement, or simply because he wants to better understand how your mind works and how you arrive at the choices and decisions you, yourself, make.
That being said, if he starts to come to you for advice on personal matters and shows that he genuinely thinks you have a good approach to life then he is developing a soft place for you deep down and he actually cares what you think about his choices. At this stage he feels you have developed a good friendship and the further you go into sharing your thoughts and viewpoints with him, especially at his request, the closer you are becoming to developing a relationship bond with your Aquarian man.
Aside from sharing knowledge with you, bringing you weird gifts and valuing your opinions, if you reach a point where he makes the effort to share his emotional side with you, you will know that he is smitten with you. By now it comes as no surprise to you that gaining the level of trust with an Aquarian that is required to get him to be emotional is a pretty big deal.
He exists in a different plane than those who live with their hearts on there sleeve. If he runs into a situation that brings out the emotions full force and you are who he comes to, he is into you on a level that warrants the closeness of a relationship. He doesn’t easily let his guard down, so in doing so he is showing you that you are someone he can be emotional with, and that is a pretty big deal.
You see, the Aquarian man is a weird mix of self confidence and also insecurity that lies deep within. He is strong and fierce, yet on the inside he has emotions just like the rest of us. The key here is getting to the point to where he is comfortable sharing this side of himself with you. The side of him that goes beyond friendship and into the realm of love will to come out in the first few days of knowing him, but with time and when you know what to look for, you will see that if you are truly a match for an Aquarian guy he will show you in offhanded ways. He won’t come out and say “I like you and I want to develop a relationship,” that just isn’t going to happen. But if you do start to pick up on these behaviors and if you reciprocate, you’ll be that much closer to snagging yourself an Aquarian boyfriend, which is why you are reading this book, yeah?
Tips And Tricks
Tip 1: Suggest a Date Night That is Different
When going on a date with an Aquarian guy you’ll want to do something that is different and outside the real of “normal.” In other words, the typical dinner and a movie isn’t going to cut it. Think outside the box and suggest that the two of you do something that is fun yet educational. Perhaps a trip to your local planetarium or even a night with friends to play charades and maybe have a few drinks. Afterwards the two of you could go to a nice quiet restaurant or bar where the atmosphere is not that of your typical chain restaurant. Somewhere unique and off the beaten path where you can find topics of conversation without much effort, just in case you run out of things to talk about.
Tip 2: Be Confident and Stand by What You Believe
If you want to get to the heart of an Aquarian man you have got to stand for something. It is kind of like that old saying that if you don’t stand for something you will fall for anything, this is how his mind thinks. He knows where he stands on just about every topic, and if he doesn’t yet know he is carefully contemplating the right choice. He uses his mind and is confident in stating his opinions, even if others don’t agree with him. If you let yourself be easily swayed from your points of view just because you think it will appease him and he will like you more for it, you are on the wrong track. Don’t be afraid to debate with him. He will appreciate your strong mind and your confidence in standing by what you believe. Also, he can’t begin to consider you as someone who could be the counterpart in a power-couple if you let him take your power.
Tip 3: Appreciate Growth and Don’t Get Stuck in the Past
Aquarian guys are all about moving forward and progressing in life. This is not just in his personal life, but progression in humanity as a whole. You can’t get all hung up on the old ways of doing things or be narrow or close minded and expect for him to fall for you.
Keep up with the changing times but have respect for the wisdom of some of the old ways of thinking. Finding that middle ground between moving forward and considering the thoughts and ideas of those before you can sometimes be difficult, but if you can master this you will gain a level of respect with him that is integral to relationship development.
Tip 4: Never Stop Being Friends
It can sometimes be easy to let the friendship side of things fall by the wayside when you are getting into the depths of a relationship. This is not an option with an Aquarian man. He will always, always focus first on building a basis of friendship and trust before moving to the next level of emotional involvement. If you ever lose that feeling of being friends you will very likely lose the feeling of a romantic relationship quickly thereafter.
Astrology and Compatibility
There are many articles out there that espouse there are strictly compatible and strictly incompatible Sun signs. This is wildly inaccurate, as there is really no such things as two signs that just don’t stand a chance based solely on their Sun placement in their natal charts.
While those articles are helpful, and even fun to read, there are many elements of one’s chart that help to determine the level of compatibility that stands between two people. Yes, there are things about certain signs that make them more compatible right off the bat, but if someone tells you that you couldn’t possibly make it work with someone all based upon their Sun sign you need to move on and talk to someone who is a bit more educated on the topic of zodiac compatibility.
That being said, some relationships definitely take more effort and understanding than others to make things work. That’s one of the great things about astrology, though, is that you can pretty much read the two charts, or have them read for you, and figure out where your strong and weak points are in any given relationship. Beyond just looking at a natal chart, there are also what we call synastry charts where you basically overlay your chart and that of your partner and look at how your planets all work together. This acts as a sort of roadmap for relationships and is a very handy tool to have at your disposal! We can get more into this later.
Many people believe that signs with like elements work best together, and on a superficial level this can be true. In other words, Earth signs with Earth signs-Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Air signs with Air signs-Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Water signs with Water signs-Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces. And lastly, Fire signs with Fire signs-Aries, Leo and Sagittarius.
The reason these like minded signs work well together is that, generally speaking, they operate fundamentally on the same wavelength. For instance, a Gemini and an Aquarius will automatically have in common that they are more cerebral in their approach to life and relationships, making their conversations flow rather easily. This in no way means that someone who is a Virgo can’t have great conversations and develop an amazing relationship with an Aquarius, though. Really, it all boils down to how your planets interact, as well as your personalities, of course!
The Art of Determining Compatibility With Astrology
As I mentioned earlier, there are many astrological elements that we look at when comparing the compatibility of two people. The best ways to determine your level of compatibility are with a synastry or composite chart. With these astrological techniques it becomes easy to tell how two people communicate with one another, where they will rub each other the wrong way, and can even indicate things like whether marriage is favored or not. The difference between these two types of charts, synastry vs composite, is that with a synastry reading we look at the two individual’s charts and how they relate to one another, while a composite chart actually melds the two people into one chart. Both are useful and effective ways of decoding points in a relationship.
Before you get into a full compatibility reading, your astrologer will want to gain a good sense of how you operate and what makes you tick by fully exploring your own natal chart first. After all, before you can ever even begin to understand someone else or how you will be able to relate to this other person you’ve got to first understand yourself. Astrology can help you to learn things about yourself and help you in figuring out how to handle certain situations in life that come up. Really, astrology is pretty amazing, which is probably why so many people still put a lot of faith in this age old practice of using the stars as a roadmap to the best life possible.
Once you’ve gone through your own chart and have an understanding of what all of your planets and aspects mean it’s time to see how well your chart meshes with that of your partner. To accurately complete compatibility charts it is always best to have each person’s full birth information, to include the time of birth. The reason being that only with the time of birth included can the houses of one’s chart be determined. This plays a pretty important role in seeing where two people connect. Aspects between planets and sign/element placement can show how you relate to a partner, but having that added information of where adds depth to your compatibility reading, which is pretty important.
I definitely recommend that all couples, whether they are just getting into a relationship or have been married for fifty years, have compatibility charts drawn up. You’d be amazed at the things you can learn from your partners planetary placements. If you think of all these charts as roadmaps for life, the compatibility charts offer you the chance to decode your partner and figure out how to be the best partner you can be in the relationship. It can be a real help, too, for those times when things get rocky and you just don’t know how to handle problems that arise.
We won’t get too much deeper into compatibility charts and all that, not in this book anyway. For now, let’s take a look at the basics of Sun sign compatibility to help you relate to and wow your Aquarius man.
Aquarius and Aries
When it comes to relationships, Aquarius and Aries make a pretty good match, although it doesn’t always last. Both of these signs are bold and lack fear of going out and getting what they want. If you are an Aries with eyes for an Aquarian you have probably already felt the energy that comes when you mix Air with Fire! Aries likes fresh, new and exciting things in life just as much as Aquarius and this can lead to some pretty great times this pair will have together.
There can be some frustration found with this match, however, but this is true of all relationships, now isn’t it?
As an Aries, you have a lot of drive and passion for all that you do. You are high energy and want to get things done right now. Aquarius is also pretty high energy, but can spend long moments deep in contemplation of things that your Aries and just can’t wrap around why anyone would stop moving for such an extended period to just sit and think. The thing is, Aquarius is all about forward movement, he’s just a bit more detached than you are when it comes to putting things into motion.
One huge thing that you and your Aquarius have in common is determination to get what you want out of life. Both of you are dynamic in your actions and your approach to life, both can see the future and have no problem reaching for the stars because you each believe firmly that you will actually be able to grab a handful of them. The difference in your approach to life, though, is that your Aries personality will jump into a new situation and totally commit yourself to this-whatever it takes, you will succeed. Aquarius, on the other hand, is rather squeamish about that whole commitment thing and, while he will work tirelessly to reach his goals, he will do so in a more detached manner.
Being linked to the Ram, your Aries personality is going to be more headstrong as far as just coming out and stating what you want with your Aquarius man. He, on the other hand, won’t be so willing to move so quickly into a relationship. This can be a source of confusion and frustration and is where understanding how his Aquarian mind works will come into play and become quite important. Aquarius has a certain kind of detached and aloof way of entering into relationships. He won’t show you all of the affection that you may think he should, and this can leave you feeling like he just doesn’t care, even though that is’t at all the case.
The tricky part to this relationship is really just making it work for the long term. Neither Aries nor Aquarius are great when it comes to compromise. Aquarians are more likely to be the ones heading a protest about war, while Aries will be the General leading the troops into battle. If you can make it work with an Aquarius man, you could potentially rule the world, just so long as you don’t set each other aflame in the process. It bears mentioning that when Mars and Uranus meet up in the skies something notable and explosive almost always happens out of the blue, although it isn’t always positive. Hiroshima occurred under the influence of a Mars-Uranus conjunction, if that tells you anything of how these two energies tend to mix.
When it comes down to sex, things can get quite exhilarating with an Aquarius man. You both crave new experiences and excitement, and you both want for the other person to be as into it as you are. You will probably be the one to dominate the situation, but your Aquarius man will have plenty to add between the sheets. Your Aries personality, being ruled by Mars and your Aquarius man, ruled by Uranus, may actually shock yourselves with how many sparks will fly once you get going. The combination of passion and the element of surprise has all the makings for
best sex you’ve ever had. There can definitely be a kinky side to you both
Aquarius and Taurus
Not many will look at the combination of Taurus and Aquarius and see a match made in heaven. In fact, these two signs are just about as different as you could get. Taurus is a particularly earthy Earth sign, while Aquarius, well, here you have one of the airiest of the Air signs. Both of you are stubborn as can be, and both looking at the world through completely different lenses. If you are a Taurus and have your sights set on an Aquarian man, you certainly have your work cut out for you.
There are several things that these two signs have in common, with loyalty to a friend, partner, or a cause being at the top of the list. Both are fixed signs, which we learned earlier related to their more stubborn side, and neither will be willing to move an inch when it comes to making a stance for something that they believe in. The all sounds pretty good so far, but there is a lot more to these two Zodiac signs when it comes to romantic compatibility than just loyalty and refusal to give up on making their dreams come true.
You like to spend time at home, this is your safe haven and where you place all of the treasures collected throughout life. Aquarius likes to feel able to roam free and not be tied down. For these reasons, you will often be left feeling like you are always waiting at home for your Aquarius man to return. The feeling of being constrained to just one spot can be overwhelming for Aquarius and, although he is fiercely loyal, he may decide to bail if things get too humdrum in your day to day life together. Aquarius values freedom above all else and would rather lose a relationship that lose their sense of independence and personal freedoms.
Taurus is also a sign known for practicality and precise planning. The Aquarius man could not be farther from this description if he tried. You won’t find many traits about an Aquarius that come anywhere near resembling practicality, and this can make you feel a bit uneasy when it comes down to planning for the future. If you can find a good balance of practicality and general weirdness, then there might be some hope for the two of you, but generally speaking this is a relationship that will drive the Bull to feeling left behind and as though the relationship is just not sturdy or stable enough to work out in the long run.
Now, the Aquarian man will pique your interest, no doubt of that. He is intelligent, witty, and someone who has great plans for the future. He may not know exactly where he is going, but he does know that he will get there. This is very admirable and his footloose and fancy free approach to life is something you find yourself in envy of.
You don’t envy this for too long, though, as once you realize how far out there he can get you start to reel it in a bit and reevaluate whether or not you are really equipped for his quixotic and rebellious adventures that will probably take place far from the comforts of your home base. If you are able to get past your differences and settle on a common relationship goal, your respective tenacity can make for something like a super power-couple. Also, when it comes to fun between the sheets, your sultry side and his adventuresome side can make for some exciting rendezvous. You may be a little put off by some of the things he proposes, but if you are willing to give it a try you just might be in for the night, or nights, of your life!
Aquarius and Gemini
When you mix an Aquarius and Gemini in the hopes of creating a romantic partnership, the odds are pretty good that things will work out for all involved. There is something about the “fixed” part of the Aquarian equation that provides the touch of stability that his fellow Air sign has been missing all along. These two can happily travel the world together and talk well into the night about everything and nothing all at once. This is one of the best matches for an Aquarian man, really, and the Gemini here will be quite happy, too.
The thing about the relationship between an Aquarian man and a Gemini is that these two are really on each other's level. This pair has an unspoken understanding of one another and their minds work much in the same way. Gemini loves new thoughts and ideas and being the visionary and dreamer that Aquarius guys are, these two can come up with some amazing plans that will both delight and entertain all involved.
If you have ever been close with an Aquarian man then you know that he doesn’t easily back down from anything if he believes strongly enough in the cause. Being the Gemini in this equation you may find yourself at odds with one another when the Gemini tendency to change your mind gets in the way of standing your ground in a joint effort.
Honestly, when you, the Gemini, link up with an Aquarian guy, you can expect to be able to finally settle down in an unsettled and unconventional way. You won’t find yourself settling down quickly and building a white picket fence kind of life, but you do stand a chance of building a long lasting and ever-rewarding relationship.
One thing that stands true when you couple yourself with an Aquarian is that you can actually make the whole long distance relationship thing work better than almost any other couple out there. You both love to learn and see new things and when you do get back into the same place again you’ll be able to exchange stories of the things you have experienced. On the other hand, your Aquarian guy will actually have kind of a grounding effect on those Gemini desires to be everywhere at once. There can be problems, but you will work through them together because you both just want that cerebral connection and the desire for harmony is there, while jealousy is lacking.
Now, I know you are wondering how the sex is if the other parts of this love match are so great. Let me tell you-It can be amazing! You like to try new things and your Aquarius man will never disappoint when it comes to excitement between the sheets. You can open his eyes to fresh ideas and he...well, he will open your eyes to inventive ways to get down and dirty. Overall, this just might be a match made in heaven.
Aquarius and Cancer
As a Cancer, you want to care for and settle down with someone you can build a nice stable life with. Aquarian guys aren't really all that into the idea of settling down, so this can present a bit of a problem when it comes to creating a long lasting relationship. The problem here is that, being a Cancer, you tend to put yourself out there emotionally and you need your partner to reciprocate. With an Aquarian this isn’t impossible, but it will require a little work.
While you are busy worrying about what is happening in the lives of your closest family members, your Aquarian counterpart is busy worrying with the current state of humanity as a whole. Now, your Aquarian will have a great appreciation of how much you genuinely care for others. Even though, as a Cancer, you tend to be a little on the shy, quiet side, your Aquarius man will be intrigued by your ability to intuitively connect with others. As an Air sign, Aquarians are intellectuals who approach life’s situations and problems from a more analytical place than you. This is ok, though. The mixture of Air and Water creates a nice balance where you can benefit from one another. With an Aquarian man you can help him to open up emotionally and he can help you to lighten up a bit and look look at the facts of a situation rather than just make decisions based on how you are feeling.
If you want to make a relationship with an Aquarian guy work you will have to not be clingy and not express the need for him to be home with you all of the time. Aquarians are free-spirited and relatively care free and you’ve got to let him do his thing. While you have been dreaming of making a safe and cozy home for the two of you to nest in, your Aquarian man has his own ideas about what dreams are made of. He craves freedom, but he also craves a partner who is reliable and intellectual, and you can check both of these boxes-As long as you can learn to let loose a little and have some fun.
When it comes down to doing the dirty deed, the Aquarius/Cancer mixture can be exciting. He will help you to come out of your shell, and in the dark of the night you will give him a truly close and passionate experience that is not what he is accustomed to. You each have something to bring to the table here, or, um, bring to the bedroom. Long term, this is not the best match and unless your Aquarian man has already sown his wild oats and feels like settling down, there isn’t a whole lot of hope for longevity here. As a Cancer you need a mate who is more stable and, to be honest, a little more predictable. There is a lot that you can learn from one another, however, and this could become a great friendship.
Aquarius and Leo
Aquarius and Leo can get off to a pretty exciting start and it would seem that these two signs are drawn to one another. The Aquarian here loves Leo’s fiery and passionate side and Leo loves that Aquarius is a strong and independent co-pilot. In many ways you are similar to one another and you can usually see where the other person is coming from.
When you mix Air and Fire signs things tend to get hot very quickly. Fire needs Air to live and to grow and Air can help the Fire to spread and reach new horizons. Both Aquarius and Leo are fiercely loyal and would never intentionally do anything to hurt the other. Theses are signs that are what we call polarities, though, and although this can help to add balance to the relationship, it can also add tension to the union.
As a Leo you are incredibly creative and also very warm and loving and Aquarians are drawn to your charm and fierce determination to make things happen. You see, Aquarius is just full of innovative ideas and loves to make plans and you have the ability to bring these plans into fruition. For this reason, and many others, the relationship between Aquarius and Leo can be very fruitful and mutually beneficial.
Where these two signs don’t see eye-to-eye so much is when Leo gets to acting TOO regal. Aquarius has great admiration for Leo’s charming ways, I mean, who isn’t charmed by you Leo types? But charm sometimes turns into arrogance on the part of Leo and this is where Aquarius can get a little turned off by the relationship. If the Leo in this relationship gets too demanding, as you royalty type lions tend to do from time to time, Aquarius may decide to head for the hills. It isn’t because the Aquarian man doesn’t care, but because he doesn’t understand the lion’s way of thinking here. All that aside, Aquarius and Leo actually make one of the strongest couples out there. You both have a zest for life and are willing to reach for the stars. The passion and warmth that you have to offer helps to warm Aquarius up and brings out more emotion than most people have the ability to get from an Aquarian man. There is a strong need in this relationship for friendship to be the basis of the relationship and if you can master this you can make it work.
In the bedroom things can get rather kinky and you will both absolutely love it! The Aquarius man likes to experiment and you love to be in the spotlight. Sex with the lights on is something that neither of you will back away from and you both are into trying new things between the sheets. With your powers of intellect and intuition combined, along with the Leo’s propensity toward making things happen, the two of you could very well rule the world and have a tremendous time doing so.
Aquarius and Virgo
With Aquarius and Virgo we find these two to have a lot in common, but there are some elements of this match that could make for a deal breaker when it comes to building a lasting romance. Honestly,, here it will depend a lot on the other elements in the natal and synastry charts of this pair to really know which way things will go. Virgo seeks out stability and someone who can be relied upon for day to day things, as well as the big-deal aspects of life.
As a Virgo you are unique in your Earthy nature. You are one of the more intellectual signs, being ruled by Mercury, and if there is one quality that an Aquarian man looks for in a mate it is intellect and the ability to connect on a mental level. If intellect was all you are looking for in a relationship an Aquarius man would be a perfect match, but you need more than just a smart guy. Both Aquarius and Virgo are signs that make great efforts to leave a positive mark on the world. Virgo wants to help and heal while Aquarius wants to spread his vast wisdom and knowledge so that others may advance and make real progress in life.
You need stability in life and to be able to plan for the future, both long term and immediate. I mean, you plan for what time you eat dinner, take a shower, and probably even what time you will check the mail. Aquarius, although also a very analytical sign, tends to plan for more grandiose things. Virgo is a rule follower, Aquarius is a rebel with little regard for those rules that he finds to be superfluous and routines can be seen as a hinderance to progress.
You will, at some point, undeniably find yourself in absolute shock at his rogue way of going about things. On the other hand, you can learn a lot from one another. The Aquarius man tends to live with his head in the clouds and you can, in some instances, actually bring him back to earth. This is mutually beneficial when the Aquarian man in your life has so many things in his head that he doesn’t know where to begin. This is where your sense of practicality and your ability to streamline efficiency comes into play. He teaches you to see the larger picture and you help to show him the value in approaching a project with the intent to methodically work until you reach completion.
The potential for friction in your day to day lives is definitely there, but you can work through the things that irk you about one another. For you, this means letting loose and for the Aquarian man this means he may have to buckle down a bit and live in reality, at least from time to time. You fascinate one another, though, and the initial spark will be there. If you are a Virgo who absolutely needs a mate who can offer you stability each and every day, this may not be the best match. However, if you can bend a little and give your Aquarius man the freedom to roam the world and not judge him on his effusive habits, you could get on quite well. Both Virgo and Aquarius tend to be kind of reserved and play it cool when it comes to shows of emotion. You’ll have to work to bring out the softer side of one another and not make the relationship too cool or you run the risk of losing the initial sparks that attracted you to one another.
Now, when we get to talking about the sexual relationship between Virgo and Aquarius things can be just great. Virgo is often misunderstood as being prudish in the bedroom, being named after the virgin and all, but this actually couldn’t be further from the truth. C’mon, you know what I’m talking about. Virgo is a sensual sign when you get down to doing the deed, but you may be a little shocked at the intensity Aquarius brings to your bed. Then again, you just might be in for the ride of your life, no pun intended.
Aquarius and Libra
Aquarius and Libra are each Air signs and for this reason will almost automatically get along and be able to relate to one another right off the bat. Where things can get hairy is with the difference in your approach to relationships. As a Libra you need to have a partnership, you need a mate, probably more so than any of the other signs. Aquarius, being the independent type who could take it or leave it when it comes to getting super involved in a real relationship can get bogged down with the co-dependency issues that pop up with this pair. So how is it that two Air signs can be so different? Well, it all comes down to the most basic and primal needs of each sign. Aquarius is aloof and can be seen as cold or ungiving, whereas Libra is anything but. Being ruled by the lovely Venus, Libra is all about love and affection. Aquarius just isn't convinced that love and affection is all that important. This can cause Libra to feel uneasy and unloved, which is not a good place for you Libra folks to be.
There are many elements of this relationship match that are great, so please don’t get me wrong talking about all of the co-dependency issues that may arise. The thing is, once the Aquarius man offers love and the reassurance that you need things can go tremendously well. You both have the need to be socially active and Libra isn’t typically the jealous type, so with you the Aquarius man gets freedom to socialize and generally do his thing and you both equally enjoy the social scene. Libra may enjoy it a bit more than Aquarius, but together you make a great team. As friends you can be the ultimate wing-man for each other.
Libra has this innate ability to solve problems with diplomacy and to keep the peace. This allows Libra to work through the more stubborn side of Aquarius. Arguments between these two are few and far between, just the way you both like it.
Neither of you take life or yourselves all that seriously, which makes for a really fun and imaginative union that many others will envy. Being the natural egalitarians that you are, you can work though just about any problems that arise. This is, as we all know, of paramount importance in any relationship, but especially within the confines of a real-deal romantic relationship.
When it comes to your sexual compatibility, both Libra and Aquarius know what they are doing between the sheets. Libra, like Tau-rus, is a very sensual sign who is intrigued by the Aquarian man’s imaginative sexual exploits. Unlike Taurus, however, Libra is a bit more adventuresome and is known to be down for anything, or almost anything. The Aquarius man has all sorts of erotic tricks in his bag that will make Libra squeal with delight. Overall, this is an excellent romantic match with great compatibility. The only caveat between these two is the fact that one, or ideally both, of you will have to eventually settle down if you want to build a long lasting romance.
Aquarius and Scorpio
When it comes down to romantic compatibility, Aquarius and Scorpio can create quite the intense couple. Scorpio is deep, mysterious and magnetic and the Aquarian man just can’t seem to help from being drawn into the web of seduction that you Scorpios weave so easily. The problem, however, comes with the natural Scorpio proclivity toward jealousy and assumption of power and dominance in relationships. No doubt, Scorpio is one hot catch and any man would be lucky to have you. However, the Aquarian man, no matter how enamored with your mystique he is, will be willing to have his wings clipped to the extent that you may require in a mate.
As a Scorpio your emotions run deep-very deep. Being the aloof personality that the Aquarius man is, and the fact that shows of emotion are not his strong suit, this can become an issue. Scorpio is, for the most part, an all-or-nothing kind of lover. Either the Aquarian man commits completely or Scorpio will want nothing to do with him. Well, you may still want him, but attempts to dominate the relationship will not turn out well for this pair. His indifference drives Scorpio mad, and nobody wants to deal with an angry Scorpio! There are some elements of this relationship match that aren’t so daunting, so don’t fret if you are a Scorpio dead set on an Aquarian man. Lines need to be drawn in the sand very early on for this relationship to work out. You must each let the other know what you expect and hold one another to that.
It will take some work and a lot of give and take, but if your Aquarius man can offer the commitment and emotional stability that you definitely need and if you can allow him his personal freedom without needing to know where he is and what he is doing then you could create a pretty powerful bond. Without each of your expectations for the relationship outlined in the beginning, though, you should keep looking for a partner that is more suitable to your needs.
The sex will be pretty amazing. Scorpio is the more erotic and sexually explorative and will treat the Aquarian man to a night he will not soon forget. In this instance, Aquarius may actually be the one who is shocked or surprised by what his partner brings to the bedroom. You know how Aquarius likes to explore and try new things, so this romp in the sack will be erotic and amazing. The hitch comes after the post-coital bliss when Scorpio expects for Aquarius to stick around. That’s when the intensely jealous and possessive nature of Scorpio is unleashed. Overall, this could be an interesting fling, as long as Scorpio knows that it is just a fling, but the success rates are nothing to write home about between Aquarius and Scorpio.
Aquarius and Sagittarius
Aquarius and Sagittarius are two of the most free-spirited signs of the Zodiac and are quite compatible, both romantically and in just about any other kind of relationship these two forge. You each possess passionate personalities and you understand very well the concept of personal freedom. While this is apt to be a relationship connection that doesn’t follow the rules of “traditional” relationships, not much that the Aquarius man does is thought of as traditional, so finding a mate who fits into that can feel like a dream come true.
You and to look at life through the same proverbial lens as the Aquarian man, which makes the initial connection rather easy to solidify. You, being a Sagittarius, thirst for knowledge and you value justice and doing the “right thing” above all else. You’ve both got that wanderlust that makes it impossible to settle down into one spot for too terribly long and you seem to both understand and appreciate this about your mate.
Eventually you will settle down together and build a life, but this is a situation where long distance relationships can actually stand a chance. There is the possibility of infidelity, but this is largely because neither of you really lay any guidelines for what you expect of the other person. You are comfortable enough within yourself to allow each other to sow those wild oats before you would ever expect one another to do anything crazy like buy a house and get a boring 9-5 job.
In the Aquarius man you find a fellow visionary. You never cease to amaze one another and you offer one another a great deal of support. You relate to one another on unintellectual level and love just sort of grows throughout time. There isn’t a whole lot of stability here at first, but as long as neither of you are seeking something stable then neither of you will be disappointed.
So you are wondering where the negatives lie in this relationship match, and you are right, nothing is perfect and there are some disadvantages here. The not so fantastic elements of this romantic match are pretty negligible in the grand scheme of things, though, making this one of the best match-ups in the Zodiac. Because neither of you every really learned how to create a stable household, through no fault of your own, mind you. You just aren’t geared toward domestic living; you leave that sort of thing to those like Virgo and Taurus. Well, what happens here, more often than, not is that a Sagittarius and an Aquarius make happy home and it turns into utter chaos. Disorganization runs rampant, bills are forgotten and maybe the lights get shut off even when there is ample money in the bank. Maybe consider re-taking home-ec together before getting a place to share.
Sexually you are delighted to explore one another’s bodies. Getting down and dirty turns into the things that people see in movies and want in their own lives. You are both open to new things, you are inventive in your lovemaking and you just really love making love to your mate. Having more liberal ideals on both sides you are both up for anything and this lack of inhibitions makes for an incredibly satisfying sex life.
Aquarius and Capricorn
The relationship that forms between Aquarius and Capricorn is definitely interesting. It may not be all that successful in the long run, but there is potential for success if these two can get past their totally different viewpoints on life, love and money. If you remember, earlier in the book we talked briefly about the planetary rulers of Aquarius being not only Uranus, but back in the day Saturn. Now, Saturn rules Capricorn, so you would think that these two would work out splendidly. Ironically this is an inaccurate assumption.
Aquarius is all about the latest and greatest, the things that are cutting edge, unique and anything that breaks the mold. Capricorn is thought of as being more traditional and cautious. I know, I know, you are wondering how in the world these two planets can co-rule the same sign. Well, it's kinda weird, but they just do. In mythology, Uranus was the father of Saturn, yet Saturn stole his throne and title of king of the gods. This is kind of what it is like when you have an Aquarian and a Capricorn together in a relationship.
You Capricorns are wise, methodical, and tend to be a bit controlling. You value tradition and hard work above all else and you have your feet planted firmly on the ground. As you know, Aquarius has his head in the clouds, and in case you didn’t realize, his feet are nowhere near the ground!
You are both very strong willed, but the Aquarius man just can’t seem to satisfy the Capricorn need to create stability and just slow down for a minute, or a lifetime. You see the way that Aquarius acts and you just can’t seem to wrap your head around him. You just don’t get it-How can he be so frivolous and carefree and not worry with creating a cushion of material security? But this intrigues you and you don’t quite understand that either. Conversely, the Aquarius man is a little bit amazed at your ability to complete tasks and make it look so effortless. There’s a lot that you can learn from one another if you both just take the time to listen and pay attention.
Neither Aquarius nor Capricorn are impressed with mushy displays of emotion. Aquarius finds romantic displays like flowers or a box of chocolates to be tacky and overdone, which works out because Capricorn sees things like that as being a huge waste of money. It’s funny because you can relate well on a lot of levels and despite what some think, there is potential for a long standing relationship to develop between Aquarius and Capricorn. Sexually this is a pair that can go either way. Believe it or not, Capricorn is a very sensual sign. Well, you Capricorns out there already know that, but some think of Capricorn as being stodgy and cold. This is not the case, believe me. While this may not be the hottest sex you’ve ever had, it will be satisfying to both you and your Aquarius man. Over time it will get better as you learn how to love one another and come out of your respective shells.
Aquarius and Aquarius
What you get when you couple one Uranian mind with another is a couple of weirdos who really make a great match. With this Aquarian/Aquarian combo things will always be interesting and unusual and neither partner will ever feel they are completely misunderstood. The most important part of this relationship is that strong foundation of friendship that will undeniably be there if two Aquarians decide to give romance a chance with one another.
This coupling works so well because when you are an Aquarian and you are relating to another Aquarian it can be something reminiscent of how identical twins create their own languages before they even learn to speak. To be truthful, it is both entertaining and fascinating to watch as an outsider looking in. For the Aquarians themselves this relationship offers a comforting sense of unstable stability. What I mean by this is that two Aquarians can create a home-base with one another where they can each retreat to, either together or alone, that doesn’t actually exist-not in reality anyway.
When you are in a romantic relationship with another Aquarian the worry of jealousy or judgment from your mate is just not there. Aquarius, as you know, holds massive levels of respect for freedom and individuality above all else. So then, what results when two Aquarians get together is a wonderful mixture of mutual respect, personal freedom and incredible conversations that stimulate both the mind and soul.
In this relationship there isn’t a whole lot of emotional display. In fact, there is hardly any at all. You don’t have to worry what is wrong when your Aquarian man just leaves for work without saying a word-this would drive some other signs to the brink of madness, to think that your mate would just leave like that, no goodbye kiss or anything!-Well, two Aquarians can operate like this and just know that they will see their partner later. No big deal.
You Aquarians are the dreamers and the innovators of the world. You love to be social and to feel like you are making a difference in the way the world thinks or operates. You make wonderful partners for one another, period. With this being the case it does stand to question why all Aquarians don't just hook up with like signs and be done with it. Well we all know love isn’t as simple as that, but if you do get the chance to get with a fellow Aquarian, give it a try at least. You’ll be happy you did.
Worst case scenario here is that the relationship fizzles out and you are left with a long standing close friendship with someone just as quirky and brilliant as you. Really, this is a win-win. Sexually speaking, two Aquarians can have an absolute blast. Seriously though, there may be fireworks involved, so come prepared. It may even become something of a contest to see who can come up with the most weirdly erotic scenario out of the two of you. Trust me, it will be amazing and you will enjoy every kinky little moment you share between the sheets, or in the park, or on a train. You see where I’m going with this.
Aquarius and Pisces
Aquarius and Pisces have an unusual, multi-faceted kind of relationship potential that you don’t really find with any of the other signs we have discussed thus far. Being a Pisces Water sign you operate on an emotional level that Aquarius just can’t relate to, but there is something about this upon that has a feeling of magical wonder that can keep you both holding on. This comes from the dreamy and mystical energy from your ruler, Neptune and the unpredictability and imaginatively brilliant energy that comes from Aquarius’ ruler, Uranus.
As a Pisces, your emotional needs may not feel completely met by your Aquarian man, but there is more to this relationship than emotional bonds. That being said, you actually stand a better chance than most at getting the Aquarius man to embrace his more emotional side. You have a way of showing him affection and tender loving care without making him feel uncomfortable or annoyed. Actually, Aquarius finds this rather endearing and when the stars align he will do his very best to reciprocate.
Now, don’t get me wrong, there can be instances in which the waters get a little stormy for this pair. Pisces naturally leans toward co-dependent relationships, which is something that Aquarius is basically allergic to. This can put a lot of strain on the relationship if you aren’t careful. The remedy is to simply not fall into that pit of needing and demanding something of the Aquarius man that is simply not there. Let him be him and he will let you be you, you can meet somewhere in the middle and things can be just marvelous.
One of the biggest positives for this union, and honestly a huge part of what keeps Pisces and Aquarius together, is the way that Pisces is able to soften the tougher edges of the Aquarian man. Neptune is a dreamy, creative, caring kind of planetary energy that comes through in the actions of Pisces. You have a way of adding depth and madness to the brilliance Aquarius already has, and vice versa. You are good for one another and help each other to grow and explore parts of your souls that you wouldn’t typically share with anyone.
Sexually speaking, Pisces has an erotic charm that intoxicates and seduces Aquarius. Pisces feels things so deeply and is such a sensual being that the sex can be quite meaningful. As always, Aquarius will be the more detached part of this pair, but with Pisces willing and ready to try whatever Aquarius throws out there the end result can be very satisfying. As long as Pisces is willing to loosen the reins and allow Aquarius his freedom and independence this could develop into a long term relationship. If, however, Aquarius starts to make a habit out of making Pisces feel unloved and underappreciated or if Pisces makes Aquarius feel suffocated the relationship will quickly dissolve and Pisces will be left wondering where that Aquarian went and how did he get away so quickly?
How to Seal the Deal With an Aquarius Man
By now you know just about all there is to know about the Aquarius man and how to attract him. We’ve gone over compatibility and how Aquarius relates to each of the Zodiac signs and we’ve looked at what to do vs what not to do if you want to find yourself on a hot date with a sexy Aquarian man. Now, let’s take a look at how you can build a relationship with an Aquarian man that can stand the test of time.
This can be a bit tricky, all things considered. Aquarian men give off this energy that is so independent and aloof that you may think he will never settle down for the long term, but it is possible. In fact, it is very possible as long as you know what you are doing. And, of course, as long as the emotional and spiritual connection is there between the two of you.
It’s true, he won’t be planning for your 50th anniversary early on in the relationship, far from it actually. The thing to remember here is that he isn’t planning to end things, either. There isn;t any pre-determined expiration date that comes with romantic relationships that Aquarian men try to stick with. They live life to the fullest, not really planning for the major events that will happen, such as marriage, death and child birth. You can enjoy and explore this life with him once you build a strong relationship that stems from an equally strong friendship foundation.
Mental Before Physical
As I’ve stated earlier in this book, the Aquarian man will connect with you on an intellectual level before he will ever connect with you on a physical level. If you want to make this relationship something that will last forever you’ve got to respect this fact in the very beginning. He doesn’t want to just settle down with anybody, you have got to be the right somebody and the only way the Aquarian man can fully determine this is through getting to know you and understanding how your mind works.
In the beginning it can be difficult to get into his headspace. The Aquarian man is chaos and eccentricity, genius and madness, and getting through this mental maze to the core of who he is can be quite the chore. Honestly though, the odds are that he set this maze up just to see if you could make it through and get to the cheese. Determination will play a part here.
Once you’ve established that cerebral connection and he lets you in it isn’t all that difficult to stay there. Do your best to maintain lively and stimulating conversation throughout the entirety of your relationship with an Aquarius man and he will become increasingly interested and even excited to find out what is on the table today and what adventures the two of you can embark on all by sharing your thoughts and dreams with one another. The flip side to this is, and I am certain that you have already figured this part out, but if your communication starts to lose its spark and you just run out of things to talk about, the relationship will also start to fizzle out.
Freedom and Independence, Always
If you want to have a forever kind of love with an Aquarius man you have got to always, always respect his freedom and independence. He isn’t the kind of man who will eventually grow out of his ways, after all, he is a Fixed sign. To create the kind of loving environment that will keep him wanting you and wanting to have you forever you must allow for personal space. Even when you are in your 70’s he will have a craving and a need for independence. This is not to say that he will spend all of his time away from you and you’ll never see one another, far from it, actually. The key here is never making him feel as though you are forcing him or pressuring him to be someone he is not. Trust is huge to the Aquarian man and he will never marry or spend the rest of his life with someone he can’t trust or with someone he feels doesn’t trust him.
Embrace his Crazy
In order to create a wonderful lifelong relationship with an Aquarian man you’ve got to learn to embrace his crazy. Aquarians are mad and your Aquarian always will be. This can be a turnoff for some, however, it can really be a lot of fun when he isn’t driving you to a point of madness with his far fetched ideals and plans to revolutionize the world.
True love is knowing without a shadow of a doubt that you can be yourself with the one you love. If you judge him or point out that he is crazy and his ideas could never possibly come true he will do several things-First, he will prove you wrong by making whatever you dismissed as impossible a reality. Second, he will lose the feeling of being able to be open and share his true dreams and plans with you. I mean, if you are just going to dismiss him as a crackpot and stare with judgmental eyes, why would he continue to invite you into his world? And believe me when I say that Aquarians live in their own little world.
Instead of scoffing at the things his visionary mind comes up with try helping him with his various different projects or causes. Odds are he will soon have moved on to another idealistic endeavor anyway, and like I said, this can really be so much fun. Every Aquarian has quirks, and this will be true for the rest of his life. Just embrace them as you would any other “normal” habits and things will sail along smoothly.
Never, Ever Stop Being Friends
This is one of the most important ingredients to having a relationship with an Aquarian man that will stand the test of time. You started your relationship based on a friendship, but as you progress and life goes on that friendship can sometimes get lost in the mix. When this happens you wind up left with only the romantic side of the love you share, which is great and all but it is not enough to sustain a forever connection with an Aquarian man.
It is so very important that you always show him that you are still, and always will be, friends. Look at it this way-When you are in a romantic relationship you are going to have arguments, it is just human nature. If you are sitting there and at him and you have nothing to fall back on, as far as remembering why you value him so much as a partner AND a best friend, it makes getting past the hurts that go along with arguments all that much more difficult.
He needs to know that you will always be there for him and he will always be there for you as a lover and a friend. You can have the friendship without the love but you can’t have it the other way around with an Aquarian man. Truly, this is an awesome quality in a relationship. I can guarantee you that if more people worked to maintain friendships with their lifelong partners, divorce rates would drop significantly.
Aquarians as Parents
If you are going to be in a relationship with an Aquarian man forever the odds are good that you will have children together. Of course not all couples have kids, and that is a personal choice wherein neither decision is right or wrong. If you do have children together, however, you can expect for the Aquarian man to be a pretty incredible father.
Aquarians make the kind of parents who are a little bit different from the other parents. They are up to date on the current slang kids are using, they take a real interest in their children's lives and they care oh-so deeply for their offspring and would do anything to protect them from harm. Where things can get a little shaken up is when Uranus transits come through and wreak havoc.
Aquarians are unpredictable creatures and this stands true for parenting methods, as well as every other aspect of their life. Stability is good for developing children, and, really for kids in general, so the unpredictability can sometimes be the root of behavior problems in the child of an Aquarian. The way to remedy this is to stack on extra layers of reassurance that there is a stable foundation for your kids to rely on. When they are older you can explain that dad is a free spirit and all that. By this time, though, they will probably have already figured that one out.
Kids who have Aquarian parents will sometimes be embarrassed by the eccentric habits of their parental figure. All kids go through this in some form, though, Aquarians just seem to have a knack for paving that road to the child screaming, “I cannot believe you wore that to my school!” (cue slamming of bedroom door) Don’t worry too much about this, the kids will get over it and someday they will look back on those little instances and laugh.
The family home where you live with your Aquarius man and your children will very likely become the “it” house where all the kids like to hang out. This comes as no surprise when you consider how much Aquarians enjoy the company of those they care for, and even those they don’t particularly care for. This can be very rewarding and also adds a layer of safety as your kids turn into pre-teens and teenagers. I mean, if they are at home how much trouble could they possibly get into, right? The Aquarian dad is clever and is usually well liked by the peers of his children, which can either be a source of bonding and closeness or it can become a source of annoyance when your kids friends all want to hang out with their dad more than they do your kids. Enjoy this, as many parents are so out of touch with what is happening in their kids lives that they drift apart.
One important thing to point out is that often times Aquarian parents treat their children more as equals rather than as children. It is important to establish your roles early on and provide rules and some structure for the kids to adhere to. Respect is an all-important element in the parent-child relationship and you may have to reel your Aquarian man in from time to time and remind him that he is the parent and they are the children.
There is the issue of emotional detachment with Aquarians that can be a bit of an issue when it comes to raising children. Kids like to feel that warm and fuzzy kind of love from a parent that is unconditional, and they deserve that. It does happen from time to time that the Aquarian parent will feel too bogged down with all the emotions that come along with children and feel a need to run. This is possible with any sign, though, and isn’t something to worry yourself with all that much.-If you have reached the point of having kids with an Aquarian man, odds are you know him well enough to know if he will be a loving parental figure or not, so follow your gut on that one.
Overall, Aquarians make for great parents. The manner in which their kids are raised is usually unconventional, but this is, more often than not, actually the best approach to child rearing you can take. An Aquarian parent will never teach their child to conform tosocietal norms or encourage their child to build a life that fits nicely into the neat little box that society likes to stuff people into. In fact, the Aquarian parent will probably teach a lesson or two in how to set that box aflame and blaze their own trails as strong, independent individuals. Now, if that isn’t excellent parenting I don’t know what is.
Putting It All Together
If you can come to understand the Uranian influence held within the Aquarian man you stand a pretty good chance of understanding how to have a relationship with one of these guys. Uranus is a planet that some fear in astrology, simply because it brings change and sudden upsets to the status quo. This energy is not something to be feared, however, but rather something to be revered and admired.
He is going to be weird and quirky and his idealistic outlook on life and love may sometimes have you wondering if you will ever truly “get” him. Chances are you’ll never fully understand him, but if you can come to grips with the fact that you don't HAVE to fully understand him to love him, trust him and build a lasting relationship with him this will put you ahead of the Aquarius love game.
Sure, it can be difficult to deal with his avant garde ways of approaching life sometimes. This is especially true when you are feeling that the situation is being handled in a manner that is just too unorthodox and perhaps requires a more traditional approach. Have faith that there is a method to his madness and more often than not you will see the desired end result come to fruition.
Aquarians are likened to gods in a way, or maybe aliens. The fact is they aren’t like the rest of the populous. They look at life through a lens that others only dream of. Many US presidents have been Aquarians, as well as inventors, creators and those who have had a profound impact on the world as a whole. They are the ones who revolutionize society and bring change and improvements to humanity as a whole. This should come as no surprise when you consider that the symbol of the water bearer is representative of the sharing of knowledge with humanity.
If you are lucky enough to snag yourself an Aquarian man and find that the two of you are a good match, if you can relate on an intellectual level and help one another to grow and prosper, only then will you be able to appreciate the most brilliant signs of the zodiac. Aquarian men are fiercely loyal and will always treat you with the respect that you very much deserve.
Now, I know that relationships don’t always go as planned, which is why this is not all I have to share with you about the Aquarius man. If you’ve had him and lost him, whatever the reason, there may be a way to mend your broken relationship, and you can find the secrets to doing so in my bonus book How To Get Back Your Aquarius Man. This, along with the other special bonus books included in the Aquarius man series, will help you to become even more in-tuned with your own Aquarius man and give you the knowledge and he tools you need to handle anything that comes up in your relationship.
I wish you all the very best in life and love, and I always love to hear from my readers, so please, never hesitate to be in touch if you’ve got questions about things we didn’t cover.
Now, what are you waiting for? Get out there and create the relationship you’ve always dreamt of with your Aquarius man!
May the stars be on your side,
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