30 Dirty Little Secrets About Your Aquarius Man

Learn How to Capture His Heart Even If You are Not the Perfect Zodiac Match

Hello there!

I see that you have a particular interest in getting to know how Aquarian men operate, maybe you even have an Aquarius man of your own that you want to become closer to.

Whatever the case, you are in exactly the right place!

I have some things I would like to share with you about Aquarius men. First, though, I will give you a brief rundown of how I got here, and why I decided to share my Aquarius Man Secrets program.

Even if you aren't a big believer in the ancient practice of Astrology, this is one astrological reference you'll want to stop and check out. You see, there was once a time when I was skeptical of Astrology, it is true. I changed my tune after a trip to Romania, where my aunt opened my eyes to the amazing secrets held in my stars. Let me backtrack just a bit to give you the full picture of what happened.

I had been in a perfect relationship with this perfect guy (he was, and still is, actually a Taurus) and I thought my life was going along very nicely. At first, I wasn't even going to go to Romania to see my aunt because I didn't want to leave my guy behind. It was that serious.

So, there I am, minding my own business when the Universe decides to get my attention in the worst way when my guy broke things off between us. I was in shock. I hadn't done anything, at least I didn't think I had...Everything had been going so smoothly and we'd been having such great conversations and experiences together, why was he doing this?

Well, regardless of why he was doing it, he was, and I was left feeling totally out in the cold. I went from cloud nine to bottom floor in record time. It was bad.

That's when my mom asked one more time if maybe I'd consider taking that trip to see my aunt and get away from everything. I considered it and decided, what the heck? I had nothing to lose and I needed to busy myself with positive experiences.

Once I got unpacked, my aunt started asking questions (I guess I wasn't doing a very good job at hiding my recent emotional wounds). I told her some of what had happened and said I just wanted not to think about it, or him. Before we closed that topic, however, my aunt asked for mine and my guy’s birth information so she could cast our charts. I didn’t think too much would come of it, but I figured it couldn’t hurt to hear what she had to say.

Let me tell you, I was floored when she began telling me things that were quite private and there was no way she could have known, unless, of course, our charts and stars really were revealing these things to her.

It was amazing, we talked for several hours and by the end of the night, I had a deep fascination and a basic understanding of astrology, as well as a thirst to learn more.

With the tips and information gleaned from mine and my Taurus' charts, I made my move once back in the states.

Turned out my aunt and astrology were totally right and, once I'd applied the methods of communication and understanding that I'd come to understand through our synastry reading, then we were able to work things through and we are still together today, more than 10 years later! This is why I am sharing my knowledge with you.

I have worked with countless personal clients over the years who all have run into a myriad of different problems or issues with their partners.

After I really started to get into learning all about astrology and how it can help people communicate I kind of became obsessed. I never grew tired of learning, speaking with other astrologers, and sometimes even their clients, and reading every book I could get my hands on.

After the incredible impact astrology had on my life and my relationship, I knew I’d found my life’s purpose. This is when it became crystal clear that one of my jobs in this lifetime is to help couples find a positive balance and happy, joyous energy together by exploring their celestial makeup and following the advice held in their stars.

Whether your guy has you completely confused and lost as to how he really feels, or even if you’ve already got a well-balanced relationship, the things my Aquarius Man Secrets program will teach you about his inner psyche will help to strengthen your connection AND help you to understand him better.

Deep down, we all just want someone who gets us. My mission is to make sure that you “get” your Aquarius man.

I want you to have a successful relationship with your Aquarius man, free from drama and problems, and full of love and harmony.

So, when you decide to learn from my Aquarius Man Secrets program, I've included every possible relationship situation and solution you could think of.

I'll go over how to handle long distance relationships, first physical encounters, how to communicate, how to make him fall in love, how to make him want to put a ring on it, and so much more.

But for starters, I wanted to give you a taste of what you'll learn...so I created this list of 30 dirty little secrets to help you better understand your Aquarius man. These are some BASICS just to get you on the right track!

#1 - Aquarius does not jump into settling down and committing to one place or one person. When the right partner comes along they will remain loyal, but the moment Aquarius feels taken for granted is the moment they disappear.

The Aquarius man is a rolling stone and will become restless if he remains in the same place doing the same thing day in and day out.

He will settle down with the one he loves, but taking him for granted is a huge mistake that could altogether cost you his love and affectionate support.

#2 - Aquarius has trouble expressing their feelings and can sometimes come across as being emotionally detached due to having a rational approach to emotionally charged situations.

Being the rational, logical fueled thinker that he is, your Aquarius man often has trouble expressing his feelings so that you can make sense of them.

This cerebral approach does not work for every scenario in life, however, and can lead to frustration and the sense that he doesn’t care.

The truth of the matter is that he cares very deeply, he simply has better control over his emotions than the most of us. All of his life this trait has been both a blessing and a curse.

#3 - Aquarius rarely ever gets jealous in relationships, it’s just not their style.

With an Aquarius man, you’ll never have to worry about being that girl whose boyfriend or husband calls demanding to know where she is every hour on the hour. He doesn’t get jealous because if he didn’t trust you he wouldn't be with you.

Jealousy is really an illogical response to life situations, but your Aquarius man is still a human. If something or someone threatens his happy relationship he will, of course, stand up for what is his.

#4 - Aquarius isn’t your typical Don Juan type. He is an inventive and unique lover, but sex is not his end goal.

Some Aquarian men are awkward while others are champions in the game of seduction, and all of them are definitely unique. Whatever approach your Aquarius man takes, you can rest easy that sex is not his end goal.

Unless it is specified beforehand that you are simply friends with benefits-or whatever-your Aquarius man isn’t the type to use you for a one night stand.

#5 -Friendship is more important to Aquarius than anything else in a relationship. If you can’t be friends, you won’t be lovers.

As far as your Aquarius man is concerned, friendship is a vitally important part of building a romantic connection. A solid friendship is an important part of creating a strong foundation for a relationship that will grow and flourish.

You’ll find that friends are a huge part of your Aquarius man’s life. In fact, a lot of Aquarians actually end up in relationships with someone from their mutual group of friends.

#6 -Aquarius is constantly setting lofty goals and coming up with inventive methods of achieving them. Being a naysayer of these goals and aspirations will only push them away.

Anyone who’s ever encountered an Aquarian personality will tell you that these guys are dreamers to the extreme. And, if you’ve hung around one for long you know that those lofty goals are almost always met.

Your Aquarius man may seem like his head is in the clouds when he decides he’s going to do something and sets it as his goal.

There’s no point in being doubtful of him because he isn’t going to listen. He makes it a point to surround himself with positive people and will separate himself from negative people.

#7 -Aquarius tends to have a chaotic personality and becomes uncomfortable when life becomes mundane or “normal.”

One of the more curious Aquarius traits is their inability to relax and just enjoy peace and quiet. It isn’t that your Aquarius man wants to create and keep the chaos going, but as time goes on you’ll notice that he always seems to have something going on and he isn’t all that great at sitting still.

Where this can come in handy is during emergency type situations. While everyone else is freaking out you’ll find your Aquarian guy cool and composed. Some people just have that quality.

#8 -Aquarius is a loyal friend and partner who expects the same in return. If your loyalty should fall under question, you will see a very different side of him.

Your Aquarius man will be loyal to you for as long as you are loyal to him. He doesn’t believe in being dishonest and he wouldn’t be in a relationship with you if he didn’t intend on being loyal.

Because he has the ability to so easily remove emotion from any situation in life, he is able to move on very quickly when hurt or made to feel like a fool.

#9 -Aquarius is not one for big public displays of affection, but when the mood strikes he can be a beast in the bedroom!

Whatever happens with you and your Aquarius man needs to stay between the two of you-Unless, of course, there are three of you (which we will talk about a little later down this list).

He isn’t one to shower you with hugs and kisses when in the company of others, but when he get’s you alone a very different side comes out! Don’t be afraid to experiment a bit and try new things.

#10 -If you want to get into the heart of an Aquarius man you must first start with his head. Having a mental connection is a top priority.

Being an air sign ruled by Uranus, your Aquarius man is more of an intellectual and a dreamer than anything else. When he falls in love he falls in love with your mind before the rest of you, so if you want to fast track your courtship, start with his head.

#11 -Aquarius is not impressed with superficiality and will not take part in a relationship unless your desires and intentions are 100% genuine.

You won’t get very far with your Aquarius man if you aren’t being genuine. He can spot superficial people and personalities a mile away and he does his best to steer clear.

If you want to be with him you’ve got to mean it and you’ve got to be comfortable showing him the real you. After all, he’s probably one of the most real people you’ll ever meet.

#12 -As much as an Aquarius man loves spending time with friends and peers, there is a very real NEED for time alone to regroup and do weird Aquarius stuff.

We all need time to ourselves, but some need more time alone than others. With your Aquarius man, the amount of time may vacillate depending on how he’s feeling and what’s going on.

That said, nothing would change the fact that he becomes very unpleasant if he’s forced to be in the company of other people non-stop for too long a period. If you want him to choose you, avoid being clingy and give him some space.

#13 -Aquarius is not your average, run-of-the-mill guy. If you are going to make your relationship work, you have to learn to embrace his crazy.

Ok, so it isn’t that he is exactly “crazy,” but sometimes you may wonder what the heck your Aquarius man is thinking… When this happens it’s important that you don’t make him feel like you think he’s nuts. He is a creative genius and if you are going to make a romance with him work, you have got to learn to embrace his crazy.

#14 -Aquarius is attracted to intellect more so than physical attractiveness. He won’t give a relationship a second thought if he doesn’t find you intellectually stimulating.

No matter how hot and sexy you are, if you aren’t an intellectual match there isn’t a whole lot of hope of getting a relationship with your Aquarius man off the ground. He is a left-brain kind of guy and he needs a partner who makes him think.

If you want to show your Aquarius man your intellect, you can try focusing on technological topics and things having to do with futuristic world goals.

And, even if this isn’t your thing and you aren’t a huge brainiac you can still stay afloat by just not adding anything incorrect to the conversation.

#15 -Aquarius has no interest in fake or shallow relationships. If you plan to grow a romantic connection with him, you better come prepared to show your truest colors.

There is no room in Aquarius’ life for things that are fake or phony, least of all relationships. He intends to surround himself with those who can and will lift him up to his highest expectation and who genuinely demonstrate their intentions in any partnership that is formed. Anything less than this is seen as a waste of precious time.

#16 -Aquarius will not be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect their privacy.

One of the biggest and most important things to remember when you are with an Aquarius man is to respect his privacy.

Some couples seriously invade one another’s space simply because of insecurity or trust issues-A relationship habit that is totally unhealthy as well as uncalled for.

If your Aquarius man feels his privacy or personal space no longer exists, he will not give a second thought to moving on. To him, a breach of privacy is a signal of having no respect for him, something he won’t hang around for.

#17 -Aquarius is a loving partner and friend who would do just about anything for you, unless, of course, you aren’t willing to do the same for yourself.

Your Aquarius man may not be the most romantic guy you’ve ever been with, but he is likely the most loyal friend you have. When an Aquarius guy loves you he will go far out of his way to help you and support your dreams.

What he will not do is make all of those dreams happen FOR you. He’s all about team work and working together to achieve a goal. When you work together with him you’d be amazed what all you can accomplish.

#18 - Aquarius has the habit of making major life choices that are driven by impulse, making it seem like they’re stuck in a perpetual mid-life crisis loop.

Being with an Aquarius man is like riding a roller coaster powered by a craps table. You just never know what he’s going to come up with next. What you do know is that he probably won’t think it through completely before he dives in head first.

The magnitude of some of the things he hastily decides on can be mind baffling sometimes, but in the end, things do almost always work out.

Even so, the never-ending cycle of mayhem and mind changing can be too much for some partners to handle. It helps if you are a bit chaotic yourself.

#19 -An Aquarius man will be honest about his feelings, even if that means hurting yours.

Aquarian men are not the type to beat around the bush, in fact, they hate it. That said, they almost always have a hard time opening up to anyone on an emotional level.

There might be times when you have to coax your Aquarius man’s feelings or opinions out of him, but you never have to question whether or not he's being honest.

#20 -Aquarius needs a partner who provides emotional stability without restricting their freedom. A harmonious relationship helps to keep Aquarius well balanced.

As I’ve already mentioned, and can’t stress enough, freedom is super important when you’re dealing with an Aquarius man.

What I may not stress enough is how important is also is to be there and support him on an emotional level.

Aquarius men are not known for their stability, emotional or otherwise. They are loaners who, when in the right company, will open up and share the depths of their thoughts.

This helps Aquarius to learn to be more emotionally available while they return the favor by showing their partner (possibly you) how to think more logically.

#21 -If Aquarius is not in the mood to talk about something, you won’t be talking about it.

Your Aquarius man is genuine and transparent, but also kind of mysterious. He has no problem closing himself off from the people around him If he’s decided that he doesn’t want to talk about or deal with something.

If your Aquarius man shuts you down every time you mention something specific, have patience. He’s an air sign, he’ll start talking again before too long.

The worst thing you can do in that situation is to become overly emotional. Play it cool and he’ll come around.

#22 -Aquarius isn’t looking to settle down early in life, in fact, most Aquarians don’t settle into a serious relationship until they’ve passed the midway point, and usually it's a close friend they choose.

Settling down and committing to one person for the whole rest of forever is a terrifying thought to a young Aquarian.

Sure, young Aquarius guys fall into puppy love, but they aren't really capable of commitment until they are a little older and more mature.

If you’re interested in an Aquarius guy who’s just not ready for a relationship yet, your best plan of action is to build your friendship and be ready to pounce the moment he declares his readiness for a partner, or just keep doing what you do and try to forget him for the time being.

#23 -Never try to manipulate an Aquarius personality. He detests mind games and will quickly exit your life if you try to draw him into such.

Aquarius men are not naive to the art of manipulation, after all, we are talking about an air sign. As clever and witty as these guys are, most Aquarius guys could talk an Eskimo into buying ice, and they can see the manipulative efforts of others coming from a mile away.

#24 -Although Aquarius may seem flighty or a little “out there,” they possess a mind that is brilliantly sharp, perhaps even bordering on genius.

If there is something different about your Aquarius man that makes them seem a little off, don’t worry, you aren’t alone. Being a little weird is Aquarius’ claim to fame, but so is being absolutely brilliant.

More often than not, if you look up the natal chart of someone thought to be a genius you’ll find that these are Aquarian minds. These guys don’t just think outside the box, they don’t even know where the box is, nor do they care to find it.

#25 -Aquarius is always up for a new and exciting adventure. If you get lost along the way, all the better!

If you want to appeal to your Aquarius man’s sense of adventure, suggest the two of you spontaneously go exploring someplace neither of you has ever been to.

He will love your fearless attitude, and the time you spend figuring out what’s next along the way will bring you closer overall. Hiking, boating, exploring ancient ruins, or maybe just trying a new coffee shop-Whatever you do together make it count and make it fun.

#26 -The Aquarius man is not shy when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom. From trying new toys to inviting a third person into his bed, by the time he’s reached full maturity he’s probably tried just about everything.

You may not realize it yet, but your Aquarius guy can be a real freak in the sheets when he wants to be. His open- minded approach to living life has allowed him to explore parts of himself that a lot of people never even acknowledge exists.

He’ll never make you feel like you have to do anything that goes beyond your comfort level, but overall your Aquarius man will be the happiest with a partner who’s open to exploring new sexual experiences together.

#27 -Aquarius does not try to be the center of attention, but has a presence that others can’t seem to ignore.

Rarely will an Aquarius man intentionally try to steal the spotlight, but his natural high-energy vibration just seems to attract the attention of those around him. Usually, this isn't a problem, he even enjoys the attention from his friends and peers.

Then there are times when he definitely does not want any attention at all but has a hard time letting whoever is pestering him down-If you help him out of a jam by deflecting attention so he can move along, he will be forever grateful.

#28 -The love of an Aquarius man can come on strong and feel almost electric when you finally connect. However, the habit of popping in and out of the picture is a trait that will push many potential partners away.

Aquarius men are predictably unpredictable and have this habit of coming in and out of life situations, including relationships like it's no big deal at all. And, to them, it’s not. A lot of issues come up as a result of this.

It isn't that their loyalty goes out the window, even though it can seem that way. It's good to set boundaries as your relationship with an Aquarius man becomes more and more serious. If you can't handle his popping in and out, tell him.

#29 -Aquarius is a dreamer and is not impressed by the thought patterns of close minded people.

By now you’ve probably already realized that your Aquarius man is about as open minded as they come. He doesn't understand people who have self-limiting thought processes or small life goals.

If you want to get and keep the attention of your special Aquarius, you will need to rid yourself of any narrow- minded beliefs.

He may strike up a debate over these things but linking up romantically with someone who can't see the bigger picture is definitely not on his list of life goals.

#30 -Aquarius isn’t afraid to tell you exactly what he wants. He is upfront and honest, leaving no need for you to try and read between the lines.

As I said a little earlier in this list, your Aquarius man is not the type to beat around the bush. Whether it’s something great or something devastating that he has to say, he’ll suck it up and come right out and say it before he will lie to you about it.

When you try to read between the lines, things will always get all mixed up and confused. When he says something to you, take it at face value. He hasn't got the time nor the desire to play mind games.

And, to be honest, he’s either into something or he’s not, and he’ll let you know as simply as that. That being said, don’t be surprised if he is into something one day and not the next. He likes to keep his peers guessing, never wanting to become predictable or “typical.”

Now that we’ve gone through these 30 little secrets, you may be wondering what else you need to know to get into your Aquarius man’s head and heart.

Well, there is a LOT left to learn about these sensual, sexy Air signs, but don’t worry, I’ve got you covered!

If, and only IF you are serious about this Aquarius guy... you want to attract and KEEP him interested in you-then my Aquarius Man Secrets program is just the right thing for you. 

I wish you all the very best in life and love, and I hope to be able to assist you along the path you’ve chosen, exploring the nature of the Aquarius man.

May the stars be ever on your side,

Your Friend & Relationship Astrologer,

MJSEO TEAM