2023/05/20 You have never been one to blindly conform to the "group," but you certainly do care what people think of you. Its time to help them and yourself out and give them the information they need in order to really know you. You might want to first take a refresher course where YOU are concerned! Do you really know what you do and do not want? Disciplined exercise such as swimming and running give you the time to reflect on these questions while building your strength and self-esteem.