2025/01/03 Try not to see determination youre showing in a particular way in particular area as selfishness. You could be inclined to believe youre going to greater lengths than are necessary to get your way or defend a point you believe needs defending. If anything, your efforts appear to be taking into account the needs of at least one other person and they stand to benefit from them. Thats reason enough to stand your ground and not feel a need to compromise.