2025/01/08 People want support from us in many different ways and there are times when we can see very clearly how negative their reasons are for wanting us on their side. If you can see how youre expected to take sides in some way now, then its likely someones need for you to do so isnt entirely without negative motivation. A battle or dispute isnt as much your business as someone believes it to be. That gives you a very good reason to avoid getting drawn into it!