2025/01/06 Adopting a contrary view to someone else will continue to sustain tension that has existed for some time already. Is that something youre not growing tired of? Wouldnt you prefer to see progress in an arrangement or relationship rather than adding fuel an argument or disagreement? Dont believe youre at risk of losing face by choosing to focus on common ground that exists between you and a certain person. That might be something the two of you agree upon!