2025/04/13 Its unlikely anyone is disputing you know whats best for you in a particular area of your world but if you have a chance to draw upon someone elses knowledge or experience, then why not allow them a chance to share either or both? You might believe entering into a certain discussion will lead to a lengthy one that could lead to it being more of a lecture. Give someone a chance to highlight something it really is in your best interests to be aware of.