2025/01/23 Himalayan caves are full of hermits dressed in sackcloth, who live on wild berries and spend decades practicing difficult yoga positions in silence. Some enjoy comfort they insist comes from beds of nails. They probably are comfortable by comparison to beds we make for ourselves and become obliged to lie in! Nothing in this world is harder than keeping a relationship alive during a tough time or to care, even when a feeling hurts. But then nothing is more rewarding, either.