2025/01/19 When we were small, we were generally happy for grown-ups to do everything for us. The absence of a need for us to think for ourselves was balanced with restriction we grew to accept. Later, we grew to resent certain restrictions, believing ourselves capable in ways we werent credited for being previously. It might be time for you to exert some independence. Youre no longer as dependent on someone or something as youve had to be.