2024/12/17 It might be convenient and comfortable to put a proverbial ball in someone elses court and wait for them to respond or take action in some way before deciding what your plan of action needs to be. What if they responded or acted in a way that surprised you and caused a plan to go off in a completely different and potentially unhelpful direction? Save yourself hassle and stress by making clear what you want and need from someone. Remove guesswork on their part.