2025/01/23 When we struggle to understand someone elses mixed messages or signals, its usually because were seeing ways in which theyre being inconsistent. One minute, we believe we have accurate measure of their attitude, and then find ourselves scratching our heads wondering why theyre behaving differently the next. You might believe youre being consistent in terms of what youre conveying to someone else. They appear to have other ideas. A chance exists to put this right.