2024/10/21 We tend to see a need to spell something out to someone as a last resort. We give them a chance to draw the conclusion we want them to draw by giving enough clues and, when they still dont get the message, we then feel it necessary to step in and point it out. If youre feeling a similar need now, dont be too quick to lose your patience. Its possible a certain person is seeing something youre not seeingand you might be grateful to have it pointed out to you!