2025/05/23 A relationship matter could grow in intensity and, by seeing it as complex, your first reaction could be to seize control and dictate terms. However, this is likely to be a defense mechanism on your part and one unlikely to prove helpful or beneficial. A conversation or exchange needs to be more two-way than you appear willing to allow it to be. You have a valid viewpoint that deserves a voice. Convey it and then step back to see how closely it matches someone elses!