2025/04/20 You could be misinterpreting a situation implying that, to have fun, enjoy yourself or relax, then something needs to be relinquished or sacrificed. It is possible to have the best of both worlds so dont automatically deprive yourself of something you ought to be embracing for the feel-good qualities it offers. Any feelings of guilt that come from doing what brings a certain pleasure are unjustified. You deserve a chance to indulge or even let loose!