2025/08/14 Whats good for the goose is, we understand, good for the gander. Much depends on how much the gander sees what the goose has as suitable or appropriate. We can all be guilty of believing what someone else has is something we need or could benefit from. You might be making such a comparison in an area of your world now. Its unhealthy and unnecessary. Cut yourself some slack and cease comparing your situation to someone elses. Yours really is fine as it is.