2025/05/07 Is it possible that some people find your "me first" attitude to be a turnoff? If youve been interested in people who havent returned the same sentiment lately, a selfish aura could be the cause. You love to play each moment by ear over the weekend, but its hard to plan a date when you insist on living spontaneously. Dont worry. Making a loose plan will still leave plenty of room for the unknown.