2024/11/05 Its time to get specific. How can your friends help you find your soul mate if they dont have any idea what youre looking for? You dont like to be pinned down to just one type, but surely you can give some clues as to the kind of person you find most attractive. You arent at your best when you run into someone you have a crush on over the weekend, but chat anyway. Winging it can have surprisingly good results.