2024/10/22 Some relationships benefit from tension. Competition, we know, is a healthy thing but when it finds its way into our close interaction with someone else, then we need to ensure it doesnt go beyond a clearly defined level. Your list of reasons why you experience more displeasure than pleasure with a certain person could be growing longer. Yet, tension that exists is at least keeping it at a manageable and predictable level. Soon, it will grow strongerand less tense!