2025/01/17 Its easy to create a list of what we wish others in our lives would do to make our lives easier or more comfortable. This tends to be something we do when we sense imbalance in terms of what were doing for others and what we believe were getting in return. You might understandably believe such an imbalance exists in your world. Dont believe focusing on or satisfying a need yourself is a selfish act. It might serve as a helpful reminder of your importance in others worlds.