2024/11/13 The dictionary definition of selfish reads something like someone lacking consideration for others and concerned mainly with their own personal profit or pleasure. Do you think that sounds like you? Neither do I! Yet, by choosing to focus on your own needs in some way for a change, it appears youre being seen as selfish by at least one er, selfish person! Youre doing whats necessary and what youre entitled to do. If this puts someone elses nose out of joint, then tough!