2024/10/19 You might be hearing or understanding on one level what someone is saying or conveying to you but what do they really mean? Might a certain issue be one they - and possibly you - are keen to avoid discussing for the sake of an easier and peaceful life? You appear to want the truth or at least have a firmer understanding of what youre having to apply guesswork to. If youre prepared to ask a tricky question now, then you might receive a simple and delightful answer.