2024/11/28 When were defensive or priming ourselves in some way, it can be very easy to ignore or overlook certain situations or scenarios. We become so focused on what we think will happen or why we ought to be prepared for tension or confrontation that we fail to see something positive, heartwarming and helpful. If youre willing to drop a defensive barrier even briefly now, then you stand to identify a very pleasing reason why you ought to be more accommodating.