2025/03/06 Theres nothing selfish about wanting to be in a proverbial spotlight. We all have physiological needs and a strong need to feel love and belonging. Were born with a need to be loved and never, during our lifetimes, do we outgrow it. So, enjoy attention coming your way. You deserve to embrace feelings of love coming your way and are right to reciprocate these wherever possible, in any way you can.