2025/01/09 It can be amazing sometimes how we take comfort from a belief we have no choice. We see a situation in a particular way and believe more comfort can be drawn from accepting it as it is, even if it falls short of what we wish it was. There can be something reassuring about how we feel our hands are tied. With imagination and effort, more comfort can be enjoyed from deciding youre no longer going to be restricted in a particular way than by accepting the alternative.