2025/01/19 Promises can be broken. Rules can be bent. When either occurs, disappointment or disapproval ensues. Where rules are concerned, we accept they exist because someone believed they should be applied for everyones benefit. Some, however, are helpful to some people but not to others. You might be able to spot how a certain rule can be tweaked slightly in a way that suits you better. You might need to be clever or imaginative about how you bend it, but it can be bent!