2024/10/15 Receiving second-hand information is better than receiving none at all. However, you might feel youre someones secondary option when it comes to communicating and are further down the list than you wish you were regarding receiving certain information. If you want to be put into the picture sooner or in a more detailed way, then you might need to show more interest. Your laissez-faire attitude could be causing you to be seen as uninterested.