2024/10/12 You might feel detached or excluded in some way. However, before you point a finger of blame or assess whos at fault for this, consider how your actions might be the cause of it. If youve sent a clear message you wanted to do something your way or felt more comfortable as an observer, then you cant blame others for granting your wish. If you know you have a valuable contribution to make, then its not too late to do so.