2025/07/17 You might understandably be willing to do whatever it takes to avoid involving yourself in a tense or awkward discussion or exchange. However, by giving in quickly or focusing only on placating someone else, you could be taking a proverbial firehose to flames that dont need extinguishing. A little bit of heat or energy can benefit both of you. Be willing to prevent an inferno but dont extinguish embers completely. This is one exchange that needs a bit of shared passion in the form of more than a spark.