25 Ways to Delight Your Virgo Man (and Make him Feel Special)

How do you make someone as well put together as the Virgo man feel like you truly find him special? This is a question I am often asked by my clients who have genuinely tried to get an emotional response out of the ever-analytical and often emotionally detached Virgo man, yet have continually failed to succeed.

The odds are there aren't too many people out there trying so diligently to show this Virgo guy how incredible he really is, so don’t think that your efforts will go unnoticed.

Now, I don’t say that there aren’t many others working toward the same goal of showing him how much he’s appreciated him because he has some crazy amount of faults or anything, not at all.

It’s just that Virgo men tend to keep to themselves and they require a bit of work to break through that analytical shell. He easily sees through any false attempts at gaining his favor and he may come off as cool and detached, leaving other would-be admirers to think he just genuinely isn’t interested.

In the pages that follow I’ll give you the lowdown on how you can cut through the cool exterior of any Virgo man and really let him know how special he is to you. Armed with these 25 tips you will have a surprise for any occasion or situation that pops up and requires something that will be memorable and show him what he means to you.

The Virgo man isn’t one to tout how much he loves surprises, in fact, he will probably say just the opposite. The thing is, Virgos do like to be surprised, as long as the surprise is something that they’ll like-I know, that leaves you some pretty high standards when it comes to planning a surprise for him. That’s the thing with these Virgo guys, though, they have very high standards for everything in their life.

1.) Always be Punctual

There are few things that the Virgo guy hates more than someone who doesn’t show up on time. He is probably one of the most punctual people you will ever meet, in fact, he probably always gets to where he is going early, just in case.

He is always thinking and planning ahead and failure on your part to do the same not only makes him feel that you don’t value his time, but also that you don’t value him as a person. It is truly the little things that matter most to these earthy guys, so make the effort to be on time. Better yet, show up early for dinner, or whatever, and reserve a table for the two of you.

2.) Make Him Feel Needed

Virgos are the caregivers of the Zodiac. Next to Cancer fellows, few can say that they have a need to take care of others more than the Virgo man. When you make him feel needed you show him that you value his presence in your life and that you trust him. It may sound a little odd, but trust me on this one.

Virgo men need to be needed. Without there being a need for them to complete a task they just kind of wander around aimlessly. Don’t take advantage of this, of course. I mean, don’t start to depend on him for every little thing, just find small ways to show him he’s a valued member of your life and that you do, in fact, need him around to keep things running smoothly.

3.) Get Him a Book He Can Learn Something From

Although he is an Earth sign, your Virgo man has Mercury for his ruling planet. This places him at the top of the rungs for intellectual types among his fellow Earth signs. He’s sort of like some weird mixture of Air and Earth in this way and he is always looking to learn new things.

What do intellectual types love more than a good book? You are safe to stick with books related to medicine or better health care, but really any kind of book will do as long as it is non-fiction. I don’t know many Virgos who are all that into fiction, they feel their time would be better spent learning something they can potentially use down the line either in conversation or in real life.

4.) Plan a Date Night Someplace Healthy

Virgos are known for their penchant for keeping their health on point. Rather than invite him out for a burger and fries, invite him someplace that is strictly farm to table eating.

This will not only show him that you also care about your health, as well as his, but that you are smart about the things you put into your body.

Sure, you will eventually make that stop for a good old greasy burger, if this is something you are into, but upon making an impression on him it’s a good idea to stick with things that can benefit the both of you in some way.

You could also consider asking him to accompany you to the farmers market, if you have one, or something similar.

5.) Get Him Something Practical That Can Improve His Day to Day Life

Virgos are all about practicality and a gift that is both practical and smart will be better received than something that he will probably get little to no use out of. If you are in his house of office and realize that his calendar only has a few months left before it runs up, get him a nice calendar. If he is someone who does a lot of writing in his daily life, get him a nice pen. If you notice he waters his plants with an old cup, get him a watering can. You get the picture...anything that he can use daily and will make his life a little bit easier will be very well received. And, bonus, every time he uses your little gift he will think of you.

6.) Just Come out and Tell Him...You Think He’s Special

Virgo men like things to be pretty cut and dry, and they aren’t much for beating around the bush. If you’ve done some nice things for him but he seems oblivious to the fact that you are smitten with him, just come out and tell him how you feel, but be careful to avoid doing this an overly emotional way that makes him uncomfortable.

The Virgo man values honesty above all else, so just letting him know you really dig him will make him feel special without you having to put too much time into it.

Now, when you do this, one of two things will happen. He will either smile from ear to ear and tell you that he also finds you to be one of those special snowflakes, or he will freeze and not know what to say. In the event that the latter is what you are left to deal with, just go with it. He will retreat to his safe place and ponder on what just happened. Odds are, and this is almost a certainty if he feels the same way, he will find a nice way to let you know how he feels about you in the very near future. Sometimes he simply needs to think on what’s just happened, especially if it doesn't happen a lot.

7.) Ask His Advice on Something Important

Virgos are known for their analytical approach to life and, even though it may take them a little while to arrive at a decision, for making good choices. When you stop to ask his advice on something of importance in your life this shows him that you really value what he’s got to say.

It can be something as simple as what neighborhoods he thinks are best for you to find an apartment in, or something as important as who is the best doctor in town. He may not have an answer for you right away, but he will take the time to do the research and get back to you and he will feel that you respect his opinions.

Really, it’s a win-win for you because these guys really do give the best advice.

8.) Leave a Sweet Note for Him on His Car or Maybe at His Work

Virgos are adept at using words to get their point across. Some prefer actions, but this guy is a sucker for communication, both verbal and written.

When you leave him a nice note, it shouldn’t be too mushy or too demanding, just a simple “Have a nice day,” or “See you tonight” will suffice. This shows him that you are thinking of him, that he is special to you, and it offers him a nice little momento. Add a touch of his favorite scent that you wear and he’ll be putty in your hands.

9.) Invite Him to be Your Workout Buddy

Virgos are known for being one of the most health-conscious signs in the Zodiac. That being said, if you are in need of a workout buddy, look no further. You can really get to know someone when you work out with them, and there is a bond of trust that develops when you have someone spotting you that’s tough to break. Inviting him to work out with you has a few major advantages:

• You can get to know your Virgo guy and what kinds of things run through his head, giving insight into his psyche.

• He will know that you, too, are serious about your health, and that you care about his health, as well.

• Who doesn’t look great when they are giving it their all at the gym? This gives you a nice opportunity to discreetly check out his nice figure, as well as show off yours.

10.) Get Him a Really Nifty New Watch

This kind of goes back to getting him something that’s practical, as well as making certain that you stay on point with punctuality.

You won’t often see a Virgo guy without a watch, unless, of course, he uses his phone in place of one.

When you get him something like a watch, you know he will not only use it every day, but also think of you when he does. Also, as an added bonus, this is an indicator that punctuality is important to you, just as it is for him. It sort of sets the tone that you hope he is on time for your future dates, which, trust me, he will appreciate.

11.) Get a Treat For His favorite pet

While it is true that not all Virgo men have an affinity for animals, it’s a safe bet that your Virgo man has a dog or a cat, or even a fish, that means the world to him.

When you take the time to stop and get Fido, Fluffy, or whoever his beloved pet is, a small treat you are showing him that you also like animals and that you care about what he cares about.

If he doesn’t have a pet, skip this one and look to one of the other 24 options to make your Virgo man feel special.

12.) Connect With Him Over Good Conversation

The Virgo man places a high level of importance on the ability to connect with you on an intellectual level. Having Mercury as his ruler, communication is just a part of who he is and you’ll soon notice that it’s through good conversation that you learn the most about his inner workings.

If you can keep the conversation going and keep him engaged and interested this will speak volumes of your compatibility and the chances that you will be someone he can be with long term.

He’ll love that you have a good head on your shoulders and you’ll get the opportunity to get to know him much better than if you didn’t approach him on a cerebral level.

13.) Be Willing to Compromise and Make Small Sacrifices for Him

Virgos tend to live their lives making sacrifices for other people and being malleable when it comes to making things work for the greater good.

When someone else is willing to do the same for them, especially without him having to ask, this really shows him that you truly to care about his well-being.

Don’t go over the top with it, I’m not saying to donate a kidney to the guy, just something small that shows you care and that you are willing to bend to make his day a little but easier.

14.) Introduce Him to Your Friends and Family

This is something that is most appropriate after you’ve gone on a date or two, and shouldn’t be done in a manner that can overwhelm your Virgo guy.

Bear in mind that he is usually rather shy and introverted when meeting new people. Keep things low-key, but offer the chance for him to meet the people closest to you. This will show him that he’s not only an important part of your life, but also that you plan on keeping him around.

He is sure to arrive on time and to look the part for whatever occasion you choose to use as a point of introduction. He may be shy at first, or he may not. At any rate, he’s sure to feel comfortable in no time, given that your friends and family are willing to give him a chance. Before you know it he’ll be chatting them up and he will definitely feel like a special person in your eyes if you are willing to indoctrinate him into your closest inner circle.

15.) Make Him a Home Cooked Meal

Virgo men tend to be homebodies and appreciate an intimate setting where it can be just the two of you. By making him a home cooked meal you allow him to avoid the crowds, while showing him that you care.

It isn’t necessarily a hard and fast rule that the way to his heart is through his stomach, but what man doesn’t enjoy a meal prepared for him with love? You can make it even more special by doing this for a special occasion like his birthday or your anniversary.

16.) Get Him the Gift of a Charming Box

This may sound a little crazy, but for whatever reason, Virgos like to collect boxes-The more unique and charming, the better. It could be because of the way they tend to compartmentalize and organize everything in their lives, or it could just be one of those inexplicable traits shared by Sun signs, but these guys like boxes.

He can use it to store things in or just for ornamentation. Either way, he will very likely feel quite special that you know this about him, and he will probably wonder how you got into his head.

17.) Avoid Extravagant Displays of Affection

The Virgo man isn’t much for public displays of affection, in fat, it is something that he very likely hates. It isn’t because he doesn’t care for you, but PDA can be embarrassing and he doesn’t know how to handle it.

This can be an issue for some who feel that mushy emotional exchanges are the only way to express your feelings for one another, but boundaries and respecting them are another biggie for the Virgo man.

By not putting him in the uncomfortable position of not knowing how to reciprocate these things you are showing him that you respect his underlying needs.

Don’t worry, there are other ways that you can fulfill the emotional needs of the relationship that will satisfy you both.

18.) Get Him a New Pair of Running Shoes

While it isn’t just a given that all Virgo men will be runners, it is true that, for the most part, Virgos are pretty healthy and like to stay in shape. That being said, the odds are good that your Virgo man would appreciate a new pair of kicks to go running or jogging in.

Of course, if you know that he isn’t into running or jogging you won’t want to go with this option, so feel the situation out. If you are to the point of buying him shoes then you should have a good idea by now if it’s something he would like.

If running is his thing, it’ll go over quite well that you care about his health and he’ll know that you pay attention to his hobbies and what he likes.

19.) Respect His Personal Space

No matter how close you and your Virgo man get, it will always be important to him that you respect his personal space. He needs to have that little spot carved out in the world where he can go to be alone and decompress, free from required conversation or the expectation of socializing. This is true of most people, actually, and is a good rule to follow in general. For Earth signs this is more often than not something that he legitimately needs in his life to stay sane.

20.) Follow Through on With any Personal Commitments You Make With Him

Being able to depend on his partner is something that Virgo men take pretty seriously. If you say you’ll do something, come Hell or high water, make sure that you stay true to your word.

If you simply can’t, for whatever reason, let him know in advance so that he can make other arrangements. This will show him that you care for him and that you are a reliable co-pilot he can place his trust in. The More he trusts you, the better your relationship will be all around.

21.) Show a Genuine Interest in the Things He’s Into

When you show a genuine interest in the things that are important to your Virgo man it shows him that you care.

Sure, this is true of most people, but to the Virgo shared interests help to create that bond and raises levels of trust. This gives you a variety of things you can discuss and offers opportunity for you to forge new connections.

Don’t go out and force yourself pretend you like sports if he does and you hate it, that isn’t what I’m saying. Just look for ways you can connect and things that you share in common, and what better way to do this than by at least sowing interest in the things that interest him. Most Virgo men will reciprocate this and you’ll have someone to share your interests with, as well.

22.) Ask Him How His Day Was

I told you, it’s the little things that really show the Virgo man you care. Something as simple as asking how his day was, and then really listening to what he’s got to say, will make him feel special.

He will be happy to share his day with you, and odds are, over time this will become a part of his day that he looks forward to. You’ll also enjoy having someone to share your daily events with.

23.) Dress Nice for Whatever Occasion He Invites You to

Appearances aren’t everything, but when it comes to making an appearance, the Virgo man likes to make sure that he is dressed appropriately for whatever occasion he’s been invited to or is a part of. He holds himself to high standards and expects you to, as well.

Whether he’s invited you to a work function, a family affair, or out to dinner with his circle of friends, your appearance is, in a way, a reflection of him. This is how he perceives things, anyway. You don’t have to be super fancy here, just dress appropriately and make sure that your ensemble fits properly and matches.

24.) Create Something Together That is Your “Thing”

As cool as the Virgo man can sometimes be, he really is a sentimental type at heart. By developing a “thing,” you can strengthen your bond together and work your way into his heart.

Something like always stopping for photo booths or only watching a favorite show when you are together are great ways to develop your personal “thing.” You can also create inside jokes together that only the two of you get or give each other pet names that nobody else knows. All are good options for developing something that is exclusive to your bond.

25.) Be Giving in the Bedroom

This last tip may be the most fun and exciting, but it won’t be the most important to your Virgo man. Sex is not the pinnacle of a relationship with a Virgo man, he actually values your mental connection above your physical one.

That being said, once you do get to the point where you are intimate and get down to doing the deed you’ll be shocked at his abilities and the things he can do between the sheets.

Don’t be fooled by the whole Virgo/Virgin thing, he is actually a very sensual and giving lover. The Virgo man strives for perfection and he wants to please.

This extends into your bedroom affairs. The stronger your bonds of trust, the more he will be willing to open up and share this part of his personality with you.

The more giving you are, the more giving he will be. Work together toward finding new and exciting ways to please one another. Perhaps suggest a little role playing fun.

As proper as he can be to the outside world, you’d be surprised at what he can come up with when he indulges in making his fantasies a reality with someone he loves and trusts!

There are countless other ways you can impress and delight your Virgo man beyond what we’ve gone over here. These ideas are great, but you know your Virgo better than I, so take some time to tweak these things to fit your specific situation. Think of this list as a jumping off point for you to find even more things that make your Virgo man feel special and happy in your relationship. The more you get to know him, the more you’ll come to realize just how special he is to you and you’ll keep finding better and better ways to let him know it. Now, what are you waiting for? Get out there and go have some fun with your Virgo guy!

May the stars be on your side,

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

MJSEO TEAM

P.S. Hey, when I say friend, I mean it. Feel free to get in touch if you've got any extra questions... email me at contact@horoscopesocialnetwork.com (just don't forget to mention your guy's sign) and I'll try to help you out as soon as I grab some free time. I can't promise I can reply to every message, but email me and we'll try.