How My Story Can Help You Win His Love
I’m so happy that you’ve decided to pick yourself up a copy of my book on how to attract and understand the Aries man. Before we get too far into things, I want to tell you a bit about who I am and why I’ve written this book.
I’m sure that some of you are still a little skeptical of astrology, and I totally understand. Believe it or not, I was once a skeptic and had trouble finding the value in gaining a better understanding of people based simply on the placement of their planets and stars.
All that changed, however, after I went through my own rough patch with the man I now consider to be the love of my life and, an eye-opening trip to visit a very special aunt of mine. She opened my eyes to how incredibly valuable this knowledge can be, and how astrology could really help me in gaining a solid understanding of my man and my relationship.
It took going through the heartache of not knowing where I stood with my Taurus man before it really all clicked. After spending some much needed time getting to know my aunt, who is an amazing astrologer, I came to realize that by understanding more about him astrologically, I could learn so much about not just who he was as a person, but how this new level of understanding could help me keep him in my life forever.
Honestly, I have my mother to thank for the long-awaited introduction to my aunt. Thanks to their strong sense of family heritage and staying true to who you are I was able to explore the wonders of astrology and learn more about my partner, as well as myself than I could have ever before imagined. This is where my journey into astrology all began. One year my mother suggested that I get to better understand my own heritage a bit better by traveling to Romania, just outside of Bucharest, to spend some time with my aunt. Unbeknownst to me, she was, and is, a very well known astrologer within her close-knit circle of friends and clients. She had been a practicing astrologer to some pretty high-end clientele for several decades, and she really knew her stuff. Not only that, but she had this crazy kind of connection to, and understanding of, the Universal energies inherent within each of us that I found absolutely fascinating.
As I said, I was skeptical at first, but as it turned out, she really knew how to get to the heart of things just by asking a few simple questions about when my Taurus man was born.
I was floored when she was able to give me so much info and had such insight into the issues we were having without me even telling her the bulk of what was happening. I mean, it really gave me chills. Once we were settled in and I gave her all the info she said she needed to draft my guy’s chart, she more than blew my mind with the things she knew about our situation.
This was the inspiration behind the book you are reading right now. Within these pages, you’ll find the secrets held within the stars that will help you to better understand your Aries man. Using this information, you’ll be able to really connect with him on a level that will help you build the relationship that may, right now, seem to be just outside your reach.
After years of studying and working with my own clients, I’ve been able to glean a great deal of knowledge about each sign and how they relate to one another in relationships. My goal here is to share these secrets with you so that you may benefit from the astrological guidebook to life that we are all born with, yet few of us actually get the chance to read or interpret.
Now that you know a little about me, I want to share with you a quick story with you. This is the story of one of my closest longtime clients and how she gained a better understanding of, and closer relationship with this guy she’d fallen head over heels for— her Aries man.
Since we're talking about Aries men, I'm reminded of one client in particular who came to me a few years back wanting to know how she could save the relationship she was in with her Aries man. She was a Scorpio; we'll call her Felicia. We'll call her Aries man Nick.
Felicia thought she'd found the ideal man of her dreams in Nick. He seemed perfect for her in every possible way, but there were a few things that she just couldn't quite figure out--And there were very few things in life that Felicia didn't understand.
At the beginning of their relationship, Felicia and Nick were hot and heavy together all of the time. There wasn't much these two hadn't done or at least tried together, and they both loved that their partner was adventurous and fearless. Both partners were happy, and things were great for the first few months, then something changed.
You see, Felicia had grown so comfortable and content in their relationship that she started to become a bit jealous and possessive over this amazing man she now loved. Being the assertive Aries man that he was, Nick didn't appreciate being questioned about what he was doing, where he was going, etc...
As the suspicion grew and conflict became the a daily norm for this couple, Nick decided that this was obviously not the relationship for him and that was that.
There stood Felicia, all alone and, to be truthful, she was rather vexed at what had just transpired. She knew he cared for her and she knew there was something to the relationship that required she didn't just let him go, but she wasn't sure what to do to get where she wanted to be. This is when I first met Felicia.
Felicia was looking for insight into why her relationship had turned sour when things were going so well.
Luckily, she had the birth information for Nick with her when we had our first consultation, and pretty immediately after casting their charts I saw exactly what was wrong, as well as some possible solutions that would bring Nick back into her world.
The love they had for one another was real; they both felt it. But, Nick was a man full of pride and his ego just couldn't allow for his partner to question him all of the time. There was a definite need for these two to strike a balance as to who was in control of things between the two of them. Both were dominant, A-type personalities, and both of them were under the impression that, naturally, they were the one in control of the relationship.
Felicia's insecurities had gotten the better of her, and in trying to hold tight to her Aries man, she instead lost contact with him for a bit. Once we went through her chart, his chart, and their chart, Felicia was able to see how strong their bond truly was, as well as what she could do to get Nick to give their relationship another chance.
Aries men are some of the most honest, blunt, guys you'll ever encounter, so she decided to show up at his house and give talking things through a go.
Much to Felicia's surprise, Nick was receptive to discussing things, with a little planning help from his horoscope to see what day would be the best for her to approach him. The two decided to try again, this time respecting each other's boundaries and paying attention to maintaining the balance between the two of them.
Felicia realized that when she stopped asking Nick where he was going and what he was doing he started to invite her along more frequently, and Nick realized that he wanted security in the relationship just as much as she did, but he also needed to maintain his independence.
No relationship is perfect, and these two have their ups and downs, for sure. Felicia still comes to me for yearly and special reports, and we discuss where her relationship is headed. This is one of my favorite stories to recount, simply because I love how Felicia's acceptance of following the advice laid out in the stars was able to produce such a hugely positive transformation in her life.
I could go on forever and share countless stories of how astrology has allowed me to help countless couples find true happiness together. However, I think it is more valuable to share my knowledge with you so that you, too, can benefit from the magic held within your stars.
People are always saying how it is too bad life doesn’t come with an instruction manual, but what most of these people don’t understand is that it does! Astrology is like your own personal guidebook and instruction manual, laying out the true path to happiness and relationship success. All you’ve got to do is learn to decode these secrets and use them.
As you flip through the pages of this book, you’ll learn how to not only attract that Aries man on your mind but also how to connect with him and understand his inner workings.
Using this knowledge, you’ll be equipped to develop a relationship with substance that will last. Who knows, you may even decide to start, or further, your own journey through learning all about astrology!
So, now, let’s get started and get into the headspace of your Aries man so that you may find the relationship success you’ve been longing for and successfully go after it. I wish you all the very best of luck!
First Things First, The Aries Man Basics
Before we delve too deep into the secrets of the Aries man, let’s start by exploring his basic astrological makeup.
Born between March 21st-April 20th, Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and is represented by the ram. This representation of what the Aries psyche is all about is pretty spot on, and you’ll see why as we go through the history of how the first zodiac sign came about.
The constellation Aries is a representation of the ram with the golden fleece. In Greek mythology, the ram was sent by Zeus, as an answer to a mother’s prayers to save her children from the perils of being sacrificed due to trickery on the part of their father’s lover—who was jealous of the two children.
Just as the sacrifice was about to take place, the golden-fleeced ram arrived and was sacrificed in their place. This earned the ram a spot in the heavens as the constellation Aries was created. Aries is actually the Latin word for ram.
Many people confuse Aries, the ram, with Aries, the Roman god of war. This can be a bit tricky considering Mars, Aries ruling planet, is the astrological representation of Ares, the god of war. Really, the ram and the Roman war god do meld together as you go deeper into their origins and as you begin to understand the Aries man a little better.
Each sign in the zodiac has things that it is specifically associated with, and Aries is no different. Aries is a cardinal fire sign ruled by Mars, also co-ruler of Scorpio, a water sign. The influence of Mars gives those born under the sign of the ram energy, assertiveness, and that attitude of “I will win.”
Being ruled by a fiery planet linked to the god of war, Aries personalities are headstrong and go after what they want in life, refusing to take no for an answer. This description of the influence of Mars on your Aires man could not be more appropriate, but we’ll get into this more in a minute.
Being a cardinal sign, Aries likes to get things started and has little patience for things that come along to slow him down. He can be rather forceful in how he goes about getting what he wants out of life, and I’ve yet to meet an Aries man who could claim patience as one of his outstanding virtues.
Being a fire sign, Aries is highly intense and passionate when pursuing a goal, even something small like getting the parking spot he’s set his mind on having. You can imagine how passionate he can be when pursuing a love interest!
Every sign in the zodiac is also connected to a specific stone, Aries is most closely connected to the diamond as this gem brings good luck, love, financial success, and new adventures to the ram. This is rather appropriate to go along with the showy tendency of Aries.
Aries is linked to red, the color of fire, excitement, and passion, just like the Aries man. Red is also the color of intensity, power, aggression, life, vitality, sex, blood, and fire. Being a fire sign, and the first fire sign at that, the Aries man contains all of the same elements of the color red and maintaining his position as the most intense of the fire signs.
Along with symbols, colors, planets, and stones, each Sun sign is also linked to a specific part of the human body. Aries is linked to the head and the eyes and is often found in the charts of surgeons in a place of work or career with Mars representing blood and surgery. Your Aries man may be prone to headaches, especially if the Sun in his chart is negatively aspected. Quite appropriately, Aries also rules over our adrenal glands and our adrenaline response when we go into fight or flight mode.
So, this is all interesting but doesn’t tell you a whole lot about your Aries man and how to get closer to him, right?—Trust me, we’ll get to that—As we go through this book, I’ll explain a little about astrology and how the horoscope works, and a lot about what the Aries man is really like.
Together, we’ll delve deep into the Aries man psyche, allowing you to gain a truly deep understanding of how he works, why he does the things he does, and how you can get closer to him. And, as you come to understand all of this and put the pieces of the puzzle together, you’ll see why knowledge of this basic information is so valuable.
Just as there are countless facets to each individual’s personality, there are as many facets to every horoscope and astrological chart, and we will make our way through many of them here. To begin with, though, let’s explore what gives us our vitality and our driving force. Let’s explore the Sun in astrology and how astrology can provide you with the perfect guide to creating your best possible life.
The Sun, Our Astrological Driving Force
In order to get a good initial idea of what someone is all about based on astrology, we look first and foremost to the placement of the Sun in their natal chart. This is why we refer to the different signs of the zodiac as “Sun signs.”
The Sun’s placement in the skies at the time of your birth is exactly the core element of your main personality traits. Now, there is so much more to a person than simply where the Sun lies in their chart, and this is not to be forgotten, but the Sun is the largest factor in what determines a person’s fundamental astrological disposition. Essentially, this is the starting point of reference when reading a natal chart.
We see the solar system as being a heliocentric system of planets all revolving around, you guessed it, the Sun.Your astrological chart uses the same precedent. This term is derived from the Greek terminology “Helios,” which simply translates to “Sun.”
In astrology, the placement of your Sun is a strong indication of your conscious thoughts and tells a bit about who you are at your core. This explains why people born under the same Sun sign can be very different yet still have a lot of the same fundamental characteristics. In a Freudian sense, the Sun would be your Ego in the whole id and ego theory.
You’ll find as we go through and you learn more about astrology as a whole that there are many theoretical concepts that have molded how we look at modern astrology. There are also a lot of different terminologies used that you’ll become accustomed to, and learn the meanings of, the deeper you get into learning. Of course, this depends on how deep into astrology you intend on going. For now, we’ll keep things relatively simple and stick with just learning the basics, so you aren’t constantly having to Google this or that as you read through this book.
Now, as I’ve said, there are many facets to your horoscope beyond the placement of the Sun. You may have your Sun in Virgo, but your Mercury in Leo, giving you the practicality of a Virgo on the surface, but your mind works and processes information and communication more similarly to a fiery Leo. Your birth chart is full of the specific ingredients that make up your unique personality.
Think of the Sun as being the foundation which the rest of your personality builds upon.
You may be wondering why I’m going into so much detail about all the technical aspects just to find out how to get to the heart of your Aries man, but trust me, there is a good reason. That reason being that you want to be able to understand how his mind works, inside and out, to get the full picture of what he is all about.
To gain this level of understanding you’ve got to be able to decode the different elements of his birth chart and know what these things mean. Just as you can’t judge a book by it’s cover, you can’t judge a person simply by having knowledge of their Sun sign—This is, however, a great start.
Together we will now go through the different parts of the natal chart, and I’ll explain a bit more about how you can get to know your Aries man just by looking at where the planets were positioned in the skies at the time he entered this world.
The Natal Chart—Your Cosmic Fingerprint
When you hear someone say they are having their “chart done” or “casting a natal chart,” this is a reference to the cosmic snapshot of where all of the planets, signs, and houses were positioned at the moment of their birth.
The more information you have, as far as date, location and time of birth, the more accurate your natal chart will be. Just like we all have very different fingerprints and genetic makeup, we all have a natal chart that is specific to our own unique personalities and who we are and will become.
Some people don’t know their exact time of birth, and that’s ok. It isn’t ideal, but it isn’t the end of the world, either. Although this is an important piece of the puzzle, there are ways to get around not knowing your time of birth.
Without the time we simply create a more generic type of chart called a solar chart. This is what is used when you read horoscopes found in newspapers and magazines. This is also why sometimes you may read your daily horoscope and think, “That is totally fitting for me,” and sometimes you think, “Man, was that off or what?”
In casting the solar chart the beginning reference point is the start of your Sun sign rather than the sign and house that were on the horizon at the moment you were born. Hence the term “solar” chart.
With knowledge of the time of birth, the ascendant, or rising sign can be derived. This refers to whatever sign is at the starting point of the natal chart and indicates how others perceive you and what your outward personality is, as seen by those around you. This is your mask or the face you show to people and can be considered to represent your outward personality.
Astrological charts today are comprised of a 360-degree circle with the ten planets (because we count the Sun and Moon as planets) and the twelve signs of the Zodiac. The signs are then designated to certain houses which delineate where the signs, elements and planetary energies are the strongest in your natal chart. And yes, we do still count Pluto as a planet.
To better understand how the natal chart works, think of a wheel within a wheel. These wheels are separated into 12 sections, each one being designated to a specific sign.
The outer rim of the chart shows us where the signs are placed, and the inner wheel shows what houses the signs occupy. Which sign each planet falls in the chart indicate how we relate, act or feel, while the houses show us where these elements of our personality are felt the most.
For instance, if you have Mercury in Leo you will be more outgoing and impulsive in how you communicate your thoughts and ideas to others, and if this falls into your 7th house (where we look for relationships and partnerships) you will be able to most easily express yourself in one-on-one conversations, and you probably do your best thinking when you have someone to bounce ideas off of.
It gets much deeper than that, but this pretty much explains the gist of how to go about creating and decoding a natal chart.
The Difference between Fixed, Cardinal, and Mutable Signs
As I mentioned earlier, your Aries man is one of the four cardinal signs of the zodiac. If you know him very well at all, you likely know him to be a real fire starter. He isn't afraid to take the initiative and make the first move if it will get him closer to his goal and keep him moving.
The cardinal signs include Aries, Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn. You’ll notice that these signs all have a lot in common in that each of these signs embody personalities who tend to be the stronger personalities and who often stand out as the leader in a group. The Zodiac isn’t the only place where the Aries man is first, he will do his best to be first in just about everything he does.
Those born under this quality are assertive and like to take action, sometimes without really thinking it through. There are also fixed and mutable signs in the zodiac. Each quality is a bit different in how they relate to situations and people, allowing for a good sense of balance within the Zodiac.
Being a cardinal fire sign, your Aires man is courageous and exuberant about whatever it is that he’s doing at the moment. He’s impulsive and impatient and doesn’t do well when he’s made to stop or slow down or in dealing with delays.
The houses ruled by Cardinal signs are the 1st, 4th, 7th, and 10th, but we won’t delve too deeply into this aspect of astrology— Not right now, anyway. Just remember that these are the houses of self, home, marriage, and career or life path. Although quite different from one another, the cardinal signs all have in common that they represent the most important, core elements of our lives.
Those ruled by Cardinal signs are the ones out there making waves and giving the more mutable signs a headache!
By now I bet you are starting to see a bit of your Aries man in these descriptions we’ve gone through thus far. It’s exciting, isn’t it?
Just wait, it only gets better and more intriguing from here!
Fiery Bad Boy Of The Zodiac Ruled By The God Of War
Just as each Sun sign is either mutable, fixed, or cardinal, each sign in the zodiac is also connected to a specific element. These elements are earth, air, fire, and water. Some astrologers also include spirit as an elemental influence, but for our purposes, we’ll just be exploring the basic four. And really, we’re going to focus mainly on fire, as this pertains specifically to your Aries man.
The Fire signs include Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius. These are the more impulsive, spur of the moment signs and the ones who are commonly known to be the most passionate and forceful.
Symbolically, fire represents life, passion, vitality and energy. Fire signs aren’t as stable or as steadfast as earth signs, they aren’t quite as flighty or intellectual as air signs, and they don’t have the level of emotional intensity as water signs. Fire signs have a need to continually make progress and stir the pot to keep others around them moving as well.
Mars and fire are synonymous with one another, and this combination of rulership over your Aries man is what gives him his undeniable intensity and larger than life presence. Mars is also synonymous with the ancient god of war, which lends explanation to Aries aggressive side. He is a happy go lucky kind of guy, but with all this fiery energy comes a hot temper, which also corresponds with Mars and fire.
He is well liked by his friends and those he meets, and he is probably known as the life of the party. He’s always got something to say, and his exuberant energy makes the stories he tells burst into life and can be incredibly entertaining, like a warrior returning home to tell stories of the battlefield.
Your Aries man is a leader, he’s highly energetic, and he needs action and adventure in his life to keep him going. It’s hard not to like him, to be honest. His zest for life and his determination to succeed inspires you to be more assertive in your search for ultimate happiness.
Being ruled by Mars, the ram’s way of going about problemsolving is not always well thought out. In fact, most of his decisions are made hastily and without much forethought or consideration of the consequences that may come as a result— Good thing for him Aries has a natural “lucky” energy that often helps to get him out of trouble!
Common Traits Of The Aries Man
In Some cases, the personality of a sign can be easily linked to the physical description given to their constellation. For instance. Taurus, the bull, is described as being stubborn and having generally bullish tendencies.
Leo, the lion, can be described as being regal and having more showy tendencies like that of a lion strutting his stuff and demanding to be the center of attention—Think of a cat who just won’t let you read the newspaper without doing his best to walk all over your reading material—Aries is one of these signs that is well represented by it’s astrological symbol, in that nothing is more fitting to represent your high-spirited, hot-headed Aries man. Like the ram, Aries jumps into every situation head, never accepting the notion that he might fail.
Whatever the problem, your Aries man can usually come up with the quickest solution. He’s a lateral thinker and doesn’t allow himself to get hung up on obstacles, to him blockages are merely inconveniences he has to figure out and work through.
The Aries man is independent and will resist things that threaten his personal freedom or inhibit his ability to move freely through life. He is not known for his patience—If you want to see an Aries lose it, put them in a situation where delays and obstacles hold up progress for very long.
When it comes to forming relationships, there isn’t much gray area as far as first impressions go. An Aries will instantly either like you or he won’t, and he isn’t about to waste time going bak to figure out why the two of you didn’t connect or have chemistry, he just accepts it and moves forward.
The tendency toward being selfish and egocentric comes from your Aries man’s 1st house energy and from the fact that he’s the leader of the zodiac. He won’t always think about the feelings or reactions of others when he’s planning or doing, but it is never with malicious intent that he lets his selfish side come through.
Speaking of his ego, it’s important for you to learn how to manage this part of your Aries man’s personality. He needs to know he’s your number one and that you place your relationship with him above other relationships in your life. He will reward this by focusing his burning, passionate energy on you and your relationship.
He fills his life with adventure and excitement, never missing an opportunity to experience something new and never backing down from a challenge. Challenges are what life is made of and are what keep the Aries man moving forward, ready to face whatever life throws his way head on. His quest for personal success is never ending and will take him in many different directions before he finds a path he wants to stick with.
Due to his habit of jumping from one project, hobby, job, relationship, to another, the Aries man is noted as having trouble sticking with things for the long haul. When interested and wrapped up in something, whatever it may be, he will put all of his energy into this one thing and move forward with it, full steam ahead, until he’s lost interest.
You see, the Aries man is all about the chase; In fact, he loves it. Once he’s caught his prey or reached his goal, whatever that goal may be, it’s very possible that he will lose interest and move on the next conquest in his path. This characteristic trait of the Aries man can make developing a long lasting relationship with him rather difficult, but not impossible.
For the Aries, man boredom is a recipe for disaster. He’s curious and inquisitive, and if there is something to be discovered or experienced he’ll be right there experiencing and discovering. Stale, uneventful situations make him antsy, so it’s important that you can come up with fun, interesting things the two of you can do together if you want him to stick around and stay tuned into you and what you’ve got going on.
Your Aries man is a very action-oriented kind of guy who responds more favorably to actions than he does words alone. He speaks the language of action and of doing. Simply talking about doing things and making plans for the future seem like a waste of time in his mind.
Keep him moving and going, and he’ll maintain interest, but bog him down with all the details of planning and talking about the future and he will quickly lose interest.
The Aries man is known for his sexual prowess and his forceful, masculine qualities that make him a real “man’s man.” He oozes passion and virility and making love to him is always hot and exciting. He likes to push the sexual envelope, so to speak, so he needs a partner who’s willing to explore and embrace their sexuality. The adventures you’ll have together between the sheets are certain to please and delight as long as you keep an open mind have fun with it.
The Aries man places a lot of importance on happiness and living a life full of joy and adventure. His mission is to fill his life with as many new experiences and intense encounters as he can while he’s here. He isn’t one you’ll find reminiscing over the past for very long, and nostalgia can actually get on his nerves if it slows his forward movement for too long. It’s not that he doesn’t have an appreciation for those memories, it’s just that he’s so busy creating new memories and moving forward that he doesn’t have time to stop and look back at what’s already been experienced.
He is fiercely competitive, and his dedication to winning usually leads to his eventual success in whatever he’s doing. He doesn’t do well in situations where he feels dominated or bossed around by someone else. He knows what he’s doing, and if there is someone else calling the shots, he will be convinced that he could run the show better. It’s this unwavering competitive edge that places the Aries man ahead of the pack when it comes to finding professional success in life.
Often Aries men are found in positions of leadership, such as CEOs or other positions where he’s the boss. He needs a profession where things are constantly changing and evolving to stay happy and interested in his job, and he’s got the confidence and go-getter attitude that makes him an excellent lawyer, doctor, entrepreneur, stock broker, or professional athlete. He can excel at anything so long as he can make a game out of it with a definitive win-or-lose string of outcomes and results.
His unwillingness to accept failure or defeat brings success to his life, and with success comes monetary gain. The things about the impulsive Aries mindset, though, is that no matter how much wealth he amasses in his lifetime, he never seems to really figure out how to save and hold on to his fortunes. His tendency toward impulse buying can easily wipe out his earnings in one fail swoop, just for him to lose interest in whatever it was he blew the bank on in the first place.
As with most people, the Aries man will mature as he ages and those tendencies toward overspending and blowing his money on frivolous expenditures will diminish and he will (hopefully) learn to spend in moderation. Incidentally, even before this maturation process takes place, you’ll not often find an Aries who is truly down on their luck, broke and miserable. Truly one of the most optimistic of the Sun signs, Aries can make the most out of any situation. And, despite the lack of proper planning in most things, Aries is one of the most naturally successful zodiac signs, probably due to maintaining a positive outlook and acting on their intuition rather than stopping first to analyze the situation to death before making a move.
He is the golden child of the zodiac, and your Aries man knows this, or at least he understands some equivalent of such. He can be larger than life and impossible to ignore with his outgoing, sometimes over the top, self-expression. He’s always looking out for number one, but once he finds the perfect partner, he’s loyal and fiercely protective of his love. That being said, he isn’t one to beat around the bush when he decides it’s time to move on.
His passions burn hot, but they also burn out quickly.
He will offer you endless excitement and adventure, and as long as you can keep up and keep things interesting, he will stick around. The more of a challenge you can make your relationship or courting period, the more intrigued and interested he’ll be. He can be a fascinating companion and an amazing lover, but we will get more into these aspects of his personality in the next few chapters.
Now, Let’s Look At What Really Makes The Aries Man Tick
Now that you know a bit about how astrology works and a general idea of what the Aries man is all about, we’re going to take a deeper look into what makes him tick. As we dig deeper and reveal the secrets of the Aries man, you’ll begin to understand how your Aries man’s mind works and you’ll have a better idea of how to get into his heart.
Aries are known for their outspoken and friendly nature. Not one to sit around doing nothing, you can usually spot the Aries in a group as being the one getting the conversation started or initiating some activity—Probably something like a heated debate or maybe a lively game of charades.
If you want to get him all riled up and ready to tackle something all you’ve got to do is tell him the task is impossible. To the Aries mindset there is no such thing as an impossible task, and if he can be the first to accomplish said task, he’ll dedicate 100% of himself to making it happen.
The Aries man isn’t always concerned with the relationship status of the one he’s set his sites on. Once he’s decided he wants you there’s not much that he will let get in his way, aside from you telling him you aren’t interested, of course. He’s a romantic at heart and will go all out when it comes to wooing you. This is the guy who will have your name written in the sky for no reason other than to show you he cares.
If you’ve got another suitor pursuing you at the same time as your Aries man, all the better. With his competitive side poised and ready to take over at any moment, for any reason, the Aries man will make it a point to let the other guy know who he’s up against as far as winning your love—This can be a pretty exciting situation for the one being pursued, but don’t expect the love that’s won to be everlasting or anything.
When you think about it, the Aries man truly does embody the qualities of the ram butting heads in the spring vying for the attention and affection of their chosen female counterpart. He is fierce in winning against the other rams, but once he’s won the excitement quickly dissipates until the next round.
He responds well to big gestures and appreciates the effort he can tell you’ve put into special things you do for him. He has a very generous side and whatever he has he will share without worrying about when or where he will come up with more of whatever he's sharing. When you stroke his ego and show him you appreciate and respect him he will easily and naturally reciprocate with the same.
The Role His Personal Moon Sign Plays In His Relationships
The Moon controls many things in our life, from the ocean tides to female reproductive cycles. Our emotions are intrinsically tied to the phases of the Moon and can be strongly affected by the influenced by lunar events as they come and go. For centuries farmers have planned their crops based on the Moon’s phase and placement.
We inherently know that the New Moon is best for starting new things and the Full Moon is the best time for bringing things to completion. We rely heavily on the Moon in our day to day lives, whether we realize it or not, so it makes perfect sense that when evaluating one’s personality through interpretation of the natal chart that we should pay extra close attention to the Moon sign.
As I’ve said before, there is much more to your guy's personality than his Sun sign alone can reveal. Where we look to his Sun to reveal the fundamental core of his personality, the sign that his Moon resides in reveals insights into his emotional side and holds influence over how receptive he is to others, and to romantic relationship in-particular.
If you want to understand how to connect with your Aries man you’ve got to look to his Moon sign to see what elements of his personality lie beneath the surface.
If your Moon happens to be in the same sign as his Sun, in this case, if your Moon is in Aries, you’ll find it easier to relate to your Aires man more naturally because you’re already operating on the same wavelength. This is also true of those with their Moon in fellow fire signs, Leo and Sagittarius.
The best way to get a full on look at the influence of your Aries man’s Moon sign in your relationship is by having his chart drawn up and compared with yours with a compatibility reading. This offers you the opportunity to not only see where his Moon lies, but how your two Moons, and all of your chart’s other planetary energies, work together.
How To Find Out When He Was Born Without Seeming Like A Weird Stalker
It can be a challenge to find out when and where your man was born, especially if astrology isn't something in which he believes. Sometimes it's easy, and you have no trouble at all just coming out and asking him, but some situations make it exceedingly difficult to gather this knowledge without seeming like a stalker or without creating an awkward situation. I've heard just about every story out there for how my clients in the past have gone about determining their crush's birth info, and trust me when I say some of these are incredibly creative and take a lot of effort. I, personally, can appreciate the dedication here!
So, you've met this guy, and you think he's just great. Charming, funny, talkative, handsome, definitely sexy, and you want to see how the two of you match up astrologically before you invest too much of your time in getting to know him. What do you do? Turn to social media, of course.
In this day and age, it's pretty easy to come up with insider intel on just about anyone you come across. Between Facebook, various dating sites and the simple fact that many people are totally willing to put all of their information out there for the world to see, it usually just takes a little detective work to secure your guy's birth date. Getting the birthday is the simple part. You can ask him when his birthday is without it seeming suspicious; it's when you get to the time and location that intel gathering becomes tricky.
Depending on how well you know him, you usually don't want to come out and tell your crush that you're planning on getting an astrological compatibility report on the two of you when he doesn't even know your name yet. So what can you do?
One way to find out the details of when and where he came into this world, you can always start by casually mentioning it to his friends. Seems simple enough, right? Well, it is, which is probably why this method isn't all that often effective.
If you are already friends with him, you could use an opportunity when you are at his house, or otherwise in the company of one of his parents, to use your super sneaky spy abilities to get it out of one of them. One client related to me that she was able to find out her guy's birth info from his mom after she started up a conversation about her sister's recent delivery. She was able to relate to his mom's soft spot for her baby boy by sharing her story of how the day went for her sister, at which time her man's mom went right into the story of the day he was born. I don't think my client even had a sister. What she did have was the ability to connect with and relate to just about anyone she came across; a skill that came in handy in this particular situation.
I've also had clients tell me that they resorted to ordering a copy of their guy's birth certificate (although the levity of doing so for the purposes of making your astrology reading more accurate is questionable). Getting your hands on a copy without him knowing can be difficult if you get hung up by the paperwork and red tape, but if you're lucky and you know at least what state he was born in, this could be a viable option.
Of course, you never want to reveal to him that you have a copy of his birth certificate, and actually, I'd recommend shredding it immediately after you've secured the information you came after. Remember, it's never okay to violate someone's privacy, and when it comes to ordering birth certificate copies, you'll want to check the local and state laws on whether or not you are legally allowed to take this route before you proceed.
Another inventive method of getting him to tell you the details of his birth is to turn it into a game. If you have situations where you might play a game that your Aries man is a part of, such as if you are a part of the same group of friends or something like this, you can create a "getting to know everyone better" game. One client related to me that she put questions written on paper and folded up into a bowl for each person to take the turn pulling questions out to answer. Well, she wanted to make sure that she got her info, so she made every paper in the bowl the same then had her crush go first. Once she got the answers she was looking for, she "accidentally" spilled a drink down into the bowl, thus destroying any evidence of her mildly deceptive game.
Another method of acquiring this extensive knowledge about the day your guy was born is to bring up your recent experiences exploring your natal chart and sharing with him how amazingly accurate your chart or reading was. If you can get him interested in astrology without having to make up any stories to get the info you need, all the better.
In this particular situation, pulling up one of the free chart resources online, such as alabe.com or cafeastrology.com, can come in very handy. If you've already got the website pulled up and your guy wants to see what his stars say, just watch and see what he types in for his birth info, and your mission is complete!
If none of these things will work in your individual situation, or if you just don't know him well enough to approach him at all, remember that it is possible for me to create your compatibility analysis report using only his birthday (month, day, and year). Using this method, we get what's called a solar chart, meaning we use the Sun as our starting point of reference. These reports are just as accurate but are a little less detailed than if we knew the date, time and location of your guy's birth.
The same applies to your birth details. If you simply can't find out the place and time, don't stress it. A compatibility report created using solar charts is better than no report at all! And actually, I have many, many clients who choose to use this method for one reason or another.
Once you've got all of your details or as many as you can come up with, you'll be ready to move forward with your compatibility report. With an extensive, in-depth analysis of how you and your man relate to one another, you'll learn how to speak his language and communicate with him in a manner that he understands and that will garner a positive response. You'll know what things are a turn on for your particular Aries man, and you'll be better equipped and prepared to pave the path that leads to the two of you having a positive, mutually beneficial relationship with one another.
Some Amazing Things About Being With An Aries Man
As with everything in life, there are both upsides and downsides to being with a hot blooded Aries man. Here we’ll go over the best and worst parts of partnering up with one of these pioneering and adventurous fire signs to give you the full picture of what to expect when you intertwine your life with his.
He is true to himself and he will be true to you
Your Aries man is a lot of things, but a liar is not one of them. He lives his life at full speed ahead, never considering that he should try to be someone that he’s not. There is a genuine sort of innocence within him that lets you know he is who he says he is— I mean, why would he want to try and be anyone else?
You’ll never be bored when you are in his company
Your Aries man can’t stand the thought of being bored. He heard once that you spine shrinks when you allow yourself to succumb to boredom, and that sounds just awful! Just one more reason to keep himself constantly entertained and engaged in whatever he’s doing at the moment.
He’s a risk taker and has no problem putting himself out there for a good thrill. Danger doesn’t so much concern him, but he does value his life, so he will usually exercise at least some caution when things get too risky. It’s probably a good thing that he has such a longstanding lucky streak or who knows where some of his antics would have landed him by now!
To appeal to this side of his personality, you’ve got to be willing and ready to put yourself out there and engage in some adventures with your Aries man. Timid personalities are a turn-off for him and, truly, he has trouble understanding how someone can live in fear of doing when his entire life revolves around seeking out new experiences and things to “do.”
He does everything with passion in his heart and a twinkle in his eye
Being ruled by Mars, the planets if passion and lost desire, your Aries man has a primal need to engage in passionate love making with the right person. When he makes that connection and the attraction is mutual, he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you, and the results can be electrifying. He is all about physical contact and will find ways to work this in even before you reach “relationship” status.
Whether he’s making sure he gets in a hug before you go or making sure he gets a seat next to you at some venue, your Aries man will spare no time letting you know he’s into you by his actions. The closer and more intimate your connection grows, the more passionate his interactions with you will become.
He is fiercely loyal and will fight for you
Your Aries man is one of the most loyal signs in all of the zodiac. He will fight too and nail to defend your honor, and he won’t stand for anyone causing ripples in your life on his watch.
He’s always poised for battle, ready to get out there and fight for what he believes in. Some of the things he believes strongly in include love at first sight, the right to find happiness in life and the need to explore the world around him, making the most out of the life we’re given. He will act as your protector and defender against anyone or anything that tries to take these things from you.
Having the love of an Aries man is much like having your own personal warrior ready to go to battle to protect you at all costs.
Now Let’s Talk About Some Of The Not So Amazing Things About Being With An Aries Man
Aries guys are pretty great, but they are by no means perfect. They have their flaws, as do we all. Now, to help you understand all aspects of him, we’re going to look at some of the not so amazing aspects of being in a relationship with an Aries guy.
He can be selfish and downright arrogant
As we’ve discussed, Aries is the very first sign of the zodiac, and it can be difficult to explain that the world does not revolve around him alone. You’ll find as you get to know him a little better that your Aries man will do whatever it takes to be the first, the best, the most noticed and the most intense in whatever it is he’s doing.
His energy is intense and forceful, but can create an ego-centered view of the world around him—Of course, this is all here for him, what other possible reason would things happen besides for his personal entertainment?
He tends to focus on himself and his own goals more so than he does anything else. He can seem especially selfish or selfcentered if he becomes bored with the relationship he’s in, looking outward beyond the relationship to fulfill his compulsion for excitement and adventure in his life.
His personal goals sometimes get in the way of your relationship
The Aries man has omitted “failure” from his personal dictionary, and if ignoring his personal life and relationship for a time is what it takes to be successful in other areas of his life, such as his career, he won’t give it a second thought to put the attainment of his professional goals above his romantic relationship until his goals have been met with satisfaction.
It isn’t that he’s a workaholic, it’s just that he can’t stand the idea of failure. His ambitions are huge, and he has no intention of not living up to his full potential.
He can be quick to lose his temper
As you might imagine, and probably are already aware of, your Aries man has a temper that is unmatched by most mildmannered individuals. When he gets angry everyone knows it.
Mars being the planet of aggression, competition, war and intensity, it comes as no surprise that those born under this fiery Sun sign are apt to bouts of explosive anger when he feels he’s been wronged. Infidelity is one thing that will quickly propel your Aries man into an absolute tizzy.
Even when he’s in a great mood the Aries man is poised for battle and ready to fight. He can go from relaxed and happy to firefueled and aggressive in a matter of seconds.
The thing about his hot-headed temperament is that some of it is a facade he puts up to maintain the image of being a “tough guy.” If the Aries man isn’t careful, he can easily fall into playing the part of the hostile, angry tough guy all the time. This is what people sometimes expect from him simply because of his intimidating demeanor, but there really is a softer side of his personality hidden deep down.
He may become envious of the attention you give to others
Going back to the tendency for the Aries man to be a bit selfcentered, you’ll find as your relationship progresses that he can be quite envious of the attention you give others. He’s so used to being number one that he doesn’t always understand why you’d give so much of your precious attention to anyone but him.
He can be a bit of an attention whore in this way, and the only real way to resolve this problem is to make sure that you give him adequate attention in comparison to the other people in your life. He needs your validation and praise more than he’s willing to admit.
After all, he is the “newborn” of the zodiac, which, when you think about it does explain a LOT about his tendency to be so independent, yet dependent on your reaction to him, all at the same time.
Five Ways You Can Attract An Aries Man
Now That You Have Some insight into the pros and cons that come along with these guys, and given that the cons didn’t scare you off, I’ve got some secrets to share with you on how you can attract that sexy Aries man on your mind.
There are many things that the Aries man finds attractive, so getting his attention isn't all that difficult. Keeping his attention and his attraction, however, can sometimes prove to be kind of difficult.
Unless we’re talking about a love at first sight kind of situation, he will be rather quick to move on to other things that interest him. If this happens, know that it isn’t you so much as it’s his natural disposition to move quickly from one thing, or one person, to another, exploring unchartered water with each new experience. This all changes when he’s settled on one partner, but until then it’s all up for grabs in his eyes.
The Aries man isn’t known for having a lot of patience...for anything. For this reason, it’s important to make a move whenever you feel that initial vibe of attraction between the two of you. It can be something simple like suggesting the two of you catch a movie or something exciting like inviting him on a skydiving adventure. He’s always down for new experiences, so it’s a pretty safe bet that he’ll be willing to try anything you suggest at least once—Just don’t suggest anything that sounds boring; he hates boring.
That being said, it’s pretty standard for him to make the first move unless there’s something blocking him from doing so. He likes a partner who has the guts to go for what they want, though, so if you feel so inclined to make the first move with him, go for it!
Anyway, back to how you can attract that sexy Aries man:
There are a few basic things that will stop just about every Aries guy in his tracks, and we’ll go over these now.
1.) Show him you can be fearless
Your Aries man is a bit of an adrenaline junkie and needs excitement in his life to feel content and happy with his current position in life. Taking that into consideration, you’ll be sure to catch his attention when he sees that you are kindred spirits, both attracted to living life to the fullest and experiencing all that you can while you’re here for this lifetime.
2.) Don't be afraid to show a little skin, but keep it classy
The Aries man responds best visual cues and actions, and he’s made up almost completely of raw passion and lusty energy, so showing him a little bit of what you’re working with can’t hurt when trying to attract him. However, you want to keep it classy, not trashy. Show just enough to get his blood boiling.
3.) Up the cat and mouse game to level—expert
For the Aries man, the most exciting part of a relationship is the game of cat and mouse that’s played before the two of you ever get together at all. He loves a challenge, and in fact, the more challenging you make it for him to get to you, the better.
As soon as the conquest has been achieved and he’s got you where he wanted you, the relationship suddenly becomes less exciting, and you risk losing his attention. To avoid this, you’ll need to find ways to keep it interesting and maintain the level of excitement that drew him to you in the first place. Always keep him guessing and find new and inventive ways to surprise him.
By maintaining some level of distance and mystery, you can extend his interest in the chase.
4.) Be direct and blunt
Beating around the bush will get you nowhere with an Aries man. He, himself, is blunt and straightforward in how he approaches situations in life, and he appreciates this quality in others. Whatever it is that allows some of us to pick up on subtleties is missing in the Aries personality, so relying on him picking up those hints you’ve been dropping is truly a futile effort.
Avoid making yourself too readily available, but do let him know you are interested with a little shameless flirting. Once you’ve got him hooked and he’s responding to your advances, stand back and wait for him to make the next move. If you’ve successfully captured his attention, he will definitely step up his game and set out to start in on seducing you!—A nice little bit of reverse psychology there.
5.) Use your femininity to draw him in closer
Aries is drawn to female energy, which makes sense considering he, himself, is the embodiment of the male archetype and a masculine quality. Wearing dresses or skirts will catch his attention and the more you can showcase your feminine girly side, the more intensely he will want you.
Aries attraction to female energy is kind of similar to the way that pheromones work. It’s a primal urge that pushes your our bodies to seek out what we are naturally compatible with and meant to become a part of. Role playing and embellishing on the whole über male and über female energy can produce intensely erotic results.
The Art of Determining Compatibility With Astrology
As I mentioned earlier, there are many astrological elements that we look at when comparing the compatibility of two people. The best ways to determine your level of compatibility are with a synastry or composite chart reading.
With these astrological techniques, it becomes easy to tell how two people communicate with one another, where they will rub each other the wrong way, and can even indicate things like whether marriage is favored or not.
The difference between these two types of charts, synastry vs. composite, is that with a synastry reading we look at the two individual’s charts and how they relate to one another, while a composite chart actually creates a chart for the relationship itself. Both of these are useful and effective ways of mapping out important elements of a relationship, and both are valuable tools of the trade.
Before you get into a full compatibility reading, your astrologer will want to gain a good sense of how you operate and what makes you tick by fully exploring your own natal chart first. After all, before you can ever even begin to understand someone else or how you will be able to relate to this other person you’ve got to first understand yourself.
Astrology can help you to learn things about yourself and help you figure out how to handle certain situations in your life as they come up. Really, astrology is pretty amazing, which is probably why so many people still put a lot of faith in this age-old practice of using the stars as a roadmap to the best life possible.
Once you’ve gone through your own chart and have an understanding of what all of your planets and aspects mean, it’s time to see how well your chart meshes with that of your partner. To accurately complete compatibility charts it is always best to have each person’s full birth information, to include the time of birth. The reason being that only with the time of birth included can the houses of one’s chart be determined. This plays a pretty important role in seeing where two people connect.
Aspects between planets and sign/element placement can show how you relate to a partner, but having that added information of where adds depth to your compatibility reading, which is pretty important.
I definitely recommend that all couples, whether they are just getting into a relationship or have been married for fifty years, have compatibility charts drawn up.
You’d be amazed at the things you can learn from your partner's planetary placements and how they relate to your own. If you think of all these charts as roadmaps for life, the compatibility charts offer you the chance to decode your partner and figure out how to be the best partner you can be in the relationship. It can be a real help, too, for those times when things get rocky, and you just don’t know how to handle problems that arise.
We won’t get too much deeper into compatibility charts and all that, not in this book anyway. For now, let’s take a look at the basics of Sun sign compatibility to help you relate to and wow your Aries man.
Sun Sign Compatibility, Aries With The Other Signs
Aries Man and Aries Woman
Two Aries personalities together create an incredible kind of energy that permeates into every angle of their relationship. Both driven by passion and a desire to achieve, this is a match that could burn out if there aren’t other grounding and stabilizing influences in the charts of these two fire-starters.
As an Aries, you understand your Aries man, and you can feel that you’re on the same wavelength from the very start. There won’t be much beating around the bush leading up to sharing your true feelings and your desires to get to know one another better. Actually, this is likely to be one of, if not the most intense courtships you’ve ever been in.
As time goes on two Aries can become bored with one another, a problem that has a pretty easy remedy—Keep life interesting and exciting! You’ve got to remember that with an Aries man you’ve finally got a partner who’s as enthusiastic as you are about adventure and living life to the fullest, so sitting at home every weekend isn’t really a viable option.
The temper tantrums that can be thrown by two Aries who are equally upset can turn into a war zone in the blink of an eye. That being said, learning to manage your anger and your reactions to things your partner does that makes you mad are high up on the list of things to do for this couple. While onlookers may think these two fiery Aries have a real hatred or disdain for one another, the reality is neither partner is the type to hold a grudge, and most issues can be moved beyond within a few hours or days.
In a relationship between two Aries, somebody’s got to step down and take the roll of co-pilot. In outside situations, both are used to getting heir ways and of being the dominant force in any given situation. When faced with sharing life with a fellow Aries, however, there’s just no getting around running into times and situations that call for one Aries or the other to stand down. Learning to help one another lead is important to the success of this relationship.
Sexually this pair is dynamite. There are literally fireworks going off in their bedroom; it’s that intense. They share the tendency to move quickly into sexual relationships, but as long as everyone is on the same page about where the relationship stands this can actually be a very beneficial and satisfying connection for both partners. Makeup sex is a favorite of this couple as a follow up to give the occasional outbursts from either of them a happy ending.
Overall, as long as there are at least a few aspects between their two charts that help to ground this fiery couple, two Aries can make an excellent match. The raw energy between these two is passion filled and can propel this couple into creating a lot of success when they work together. The best tip I can give you when entering into a relationship with an Aries man is to let him play the “manly” role more often than not. He really gets off on being the dominating force, and he’ll make you feel like a queen if you let him feel like the man.
Aries Man and Taurus Woman
Aries and Taurus are one couple who really do kind of complete one another. With Aries being ruled by Mars and Taurus being ruled by Venus, together thee two create the perfect blend of love and passion.
As a Taurus, you move at a much slower pace than your Aries man, but that is ok. There’s no need to rush into a relationship and if your Aries man really does care he will respect your wishes to take things slow. He may not be the best at sweet seduction, something most Taurus just go crazy for, but his self-confidence and his larger than life persona make your Aries man impossible to ignore.
When he wants something, he puts all of his energy into getting it, and quite often he is driven by passion and lust. Aries relentless attempts at getting Taurus to consider going out with him eventually wear on Taurus and a great love could begin right then and there.
Aries is full of masculine energy while Taurus is ruled by Venus and is full of feminine energy. Taurus brings a softness and sensuality to the relationship that the Aries digs and he brings a sexy, devil may care kind of thing that Taurus is drawn to. The sensual Yin and Yang of this relationship helps this couple strike the perfect balance of love and passion.
Your relationship with your Aries man will either be a learning experience, or it will be one that feels entirely natural and like you just fit together. When you combine your talents, drive and find your balance together, you and your Aries man can become the ultimate power couple.
There are things the Aries man does that you can’t wrap your Taurus mind around, and there are things about how you operate that he just doesn’t get. That’s totally ok, in fact, it’s perfect. You teach one another how to become better versions of yourselves, and nine times out of ten Aries/Taurus connections produce positive changes in both partner’s lives.
Aries adds some spice to the well planned day of earthy Taurus, and Taurus brings some semblance of order to the chaos of his life. The great thing about you dating an Aries guy is the way he can draw you out of your shell. As a Taurus, you can be kind of reserved, but with him, you gain some confidence and more of a voice. You almost have to if you want to keep up with your Aries guy.
Sexually these two are a perfect match. Taurus makes Aries slow down and enjoy the moment. Taurus stops Aries from moving through the steps so fast, persuading him to slow down and enjoy the moment. When there is truly love between them, Aries and Taurus almost make the perfect couple.
Aries Man and Gemini Woman
Aries and Gemini get along famously from the very beginning, as both admire and are intrigued by the other. Both signs are outgoing and like to show off their best features, be it their looks, their intellect, or their new ride, this couple can have fun for hours showing off for one another and flirting shamelessly.
Being a Gemini, you need a partner you can communicate with and who can meet you on an intellectual level, as well as a physical level. Your Aries man makes a perfect match, and is someone you know will always be up for trying something new or taking an adventure together. One thing is for certain, with your Aries man you will never be bored! Both of these signs have a curious nature, and neither of them likes to sit still for too long or become stagnant.
In the beginning stages of this relationship, things are exciting, passionate, and lively, and both Gemini and Aries may feel like they’ve found “the one.” After some time passes, however, the constant need to talk and discuss pretty much everything in great detail will wear on Aries' nerves.
This is a relationship where Gemini will need to reel it in a bit when it comes down to that flirtatious nature. Given the fiery, sometimes jealous nature of Aries personalities, there is a lot of potential for there to be some arguments and disagreements about why the Gemini was chatting up that guy at the coffee shop, and right under Aries' nose, at that! When in a relationship, the Aries man is incredibly loyal and can easily lose his temper at the idea of his partner flirting with or being with someone other than him.
Despite the issues these two share, there is a definite sense of mutual attraction and admiration for the qualities that both Aries and Gemini possess. Aries admires Gemini’s ability to talk to anyone about anything and sort of wishes they had that ability to so eloquently articulate themselves.
Conversely, Gemini admires Aries drive and action-oriented nature and the fearlessness found within the Ram. When these two aren’t arguing things can run pretty smoothly, and there can be a pretty good sense of yin and yang, and when they work together there is little that can stop them from achieving a mutual goal.
Between the sheets, there is lots of fun to be had! Gemini is down to experience new things and can find ways to broaden Aries sexual horizons, while Aries passionate nature really gets Gemini’s pulse going. When you mix fire with air you often get an explosion, which is exactly what can happen with these two between the sheets. Aries isn’t as into talking about getting down and dirty as Gemini is, though, and likes to get straight to it, sans sexy talk.
All in all, this is a coupling that makes for a good matchup only if both partners can come to a great level of understanding about what makes one another tick. Compromise is required, but compromise isn’t always possible with these two. More often than not you’ll find that Aries and Gemini make much better friends than they do lovers.
Aries Man and Cancer Woman
Aries and Cancer are kind of an unlikely match, being that Cancer is a water sign and Aries is born of fire. However, in this case, the water/fire combination has a chance of working out and providing each partner with that one thing that’s been missing from their lives.
Being a Cancer, you tend to stick close to home when Aries wants to go out and see what’s out there beyond the yard. This can cause feelings of insecurity to pop up and leave you questioning the stability of your relationship. Your Aries man is fiercely loyal and protective over those he lobes, so you really don’t need to worry that he will step out on your relationship.
Aries temper tantrums and outbursts can be a cause of concern for Cancer and can bring on worry and fear for the future. With both Aries and Cancer being cardinal signs, neither is likely to back down when they feel strongly about a situation or subject, so, as you might imagine, arguments between these two are inevitable.
The Aries man is drawn to Cancer’s feminine energy, and the Cancer feels safe with her Aries warrior around for protection. This combination of masculine and feminine energy creates a perfectly passionate background for love to develop within. There is a very classic quality to the relationship and bond that is formed between Aries and Cancer, and if these two can maintain a good sense of balance together, the relationship could last the long haul.
Where you run into problems is with Aries ability to cut someone down so easily with his words. His impulsive nature doesn’t always, or even frequently, give him time to think about the consequences of his actions and, if provoked or feeling threatened he might verbally attack sensitive Cancer.
Resentments build up between these two if Cancer is too controlling or Aries is too aggressive. Should this happen, Cancer knows how to get to Aries using emotional warfare, something Aries isn’t very well trained in.
Sexually, this couple gets on very well in the bedroom in the beginning, but after the initial fascination with each other has come to an end, the spark can die out if both partners don’t make an effort. Cancer shows Aries the softer side of love, revving up his testosterone fueled desires to conquer his lover.
When both partners have genuine love for one another, it is quite possible to overcome the challenges that come with this romantic match. The effort it takes to be mindful of one another's needs and desires is little in comparison to the satisfaction that can come from a successful Aries/Cancer connection.
Aries Man and Leo Woman
Aries and Leo make the perfect couple. These two genuinely love and care for one another, and their bright and bubbly personalities mesh really well. With both being fire signs, the relationship between Aries and Leo is exciting, fun and full of energy.
Being a Leo, you need a good amount of attention from your mate, something Aries has no problem offering you. Where you might run into a snag is when it comes to who’s ego is bigger and who gets the final say in situations that affect you both. If one of you are raised to higher fame than the other, there can be issues of jealousy over who deserves the most attention.
Neither Leo nor Aries are known for their tremendous amounts of patience, and you both tend toward making decisions on a whim. Impulsive and optimistic Aries and Leo can find themselves in some pretty interesting situations if they aren’t careful. A simple night out could turn into breakfast in Paris, leaving whoever picked up the tab to worry with the consequences another day.
One of the reasons Leo and Aries get in so well together is that Leo is the ruler of Aries 5th house of love, happiness, creativity and affection. Leo’s bright Sun brings a warm and loving energy to Aries fast paced life and makes the ram want to slow down for a moment and get to know his beautiful lioness.
Both have a temper to be wary of, and when there’s a fight or disagreement these two have no problem letting each other know how they feel. To more mild-mannered outsiders these disruptions in the peace probably look much more serious than they actually are.
There is a great balance that’s struck when Aries and Leo hook up, wherein each person has something they can offer the other to help resolve small issues. Leo teaches Aries how to stick with things he starts and see them through to the end, and Aries teaches Leo how to be more forceful and dominating when going after a goal.
Both partners are full of charm and share a love for parties and social situations, and for this reason, they’re really well liked by their friends who see them as the perfect couple.
Aside from their general compatibility, these two are fire between the sheets. Leo loves the gracious praise and appreciation that Aries so freely gives and Aries loves Leo’s fearlessness when it comes to trying new things. This makes for a sexual relationship between Aries and Leo that is hot, steamy, passionate, and, from what I’ve heard, amazing.
Leo brings romance to the union while Aries brings raw, unbridled passion and desire. Both are extremely energetic and genuinely enjoy the sexual experiences they share, creating the opportunity for there to be more than just a few passionate nights. With this couple, the fire never seems to burn out. All in all, this is one pairing with a great deal of potential for success.
Aries Man and Virgo Woman
The relationship between Aries and Virgo is one that might have you shaking your head, at least at first. It would seem that these two signs couldn’t be more different if they tried, but actually, they share more in common that you’d think.
Sure, Virgo isn’t as overtly exuberant or domineering as her Aries counterpart, but she doesn’t need to be for the relationship to be fulfilling and beneficial to both partner. Aries is so quick to act, always getting into something new, most assuredly without having given much thought to what comes next, that Virgo can become frustrated with him and confused by his lack of planning and considering options.
Being a Virgo, a lot of your life probably revolves around serving others and helping people resolve their problems. Your Aries man probably spends an equal amount of time working on things for himself, but he doesn’t mind doing things to help you. All you’ve got to do is ask, which, I know is weird for you, Virgo, but you really should try it.
When you first meet your Aries man, he may seem a bit intimidating or too “in your face” for your tastes. Don’t let this initial first impression skew your opinion of who he is as a person. Your lack of forcefulness and self-confidence make him feel instantly protective over you, but after spending some time together he’ll make it his duty to help boost these areas of your personality in a positive way.
Virgo ends up being the one in this relationship who cleans up the messes and picks up the pieces when things fall apart. Aries is great at getting things started but always seems to disappear when the party’s over and it’s time to clean up. This can be a source of frustration for Virgo, who has a high regard for cleanliness and organization, but you can actually use instances like this to teach your Aries man responsibility and followthrough.
Virgo, not so much the innocent virgin, is delighted by the vigor with which Aries approaches sex and intimacy. Virgo has a very sensual side, and Aries brings this out full force, making for a night neither partner will forget. Virgo may not be able to keep up with Aries sex drive on a day to day basis once the newness has worn off, but keeping things fresh and exciting is just the thing to keep these two smoking in the bedroom.
Overall, Aries and Virgo make a smart, but perhaps unlikely match. As with all couples, there is a definite need for compromise and delegation of specific things in the relationship to one person or the other due to their very different ways of approaching life.
Aries Man and Libra Woman
Aries and Libra are polarities, meaning they directly oppose one another in the zodiac wheel. The initial attraction between Aries and Libra is instant and will last until one or both of them get bored and move on. There are some happy long term relationships out there between Aries/Libra couples, so there is hope, it will just require a great deal of compromising to strike a good balance—And Libra is all about balance.
As a Libra, you are happiest and most content when you’ve got a partner and a relationship you can count on. When that Aries man catches your attention, it’s pretty much impossible to ignore him, like the chemistry between the two of you just permeates your surroundings when you are close to each other.
Aries ruling planet is Mars whereas Libra’s ruling planet is Venus. These two planetary energies are where love and desire begin, being that these are the “love planets.”
Libra is usually more polished than Aries, but both put effort into looking their best. As a result, Aries and Libra make a very attractive couple, like the kind of couples who’s pictures you get with a new frame. What physical or fashion flaws Aries has are usually pretty easy to overlook.
Where these two start to run into trouble is when it comes down to decision making and management of finances. Both are quite adept at spending money, and both are pretty good at making money, but the potential for excess expenditures is high with Aries not thinking twice about offering Libra some of the finer things in life. He makes choices on the fly, whereas Libra wants to sit down and weigh all the options to make the best decisions possible.
Good thing Aries has a pretty reliable lucky streak and his gut feeling choices work out more times than not.
Libra is a dreamer, and Aries is sure that any plan they start on will result in total success, all they have to do is try. In reality, these two are not winning any awards for their stick-to-itiveness, although they have only the best of intentions. Neither of you are the type to get all hung up on the past or hold a grudge, so you get over disagreements rather quickly. This is a huge plus considering the ups and downs that polarity signs always have together.
When it comes to intimacy and sexual experiences together, Aries and Libra start out with sparks but if Aries gets too overzealous and tries to move too quickly things could come to a screeching halt. Once together and in the moment, these two can share a very sensual and passionate affair. This isn’t a great combination for a lengthy relationship, but looking at the actual birth charts of both partners is the only way to really understand see if there’s hope for this couple to go the distance.
Aries Man and Scorpio Woman
Aries and Scorpio share their passion for life and a need to dominate their situation and surroundings, making this a tricky partnership, to say the least. Both are intensely passionate and willing to push the boundaries set in place by day to day life and social expectations and go after what they want with little regard for the nay sayers.
Back before Pluto was discovered and became a planet, Mars was the ruler of both Aries and Scorpio, giving this fire/water combination an interesting starting point for their compatibility. Pluto being in the mix adds a layer of intensity and depth of feeling to this Sun sign connection that makes these two the epitome of what a power couple should be. That being said, there is a distinctive destructive quality found in Aries/Scorpio relationships that will either strengthen their relationship or bring it to the ground.
The thing about all of this Mars energy is that there’s bound to be conflicts just as much as there will be passion; it’s a given. The way Scorpio gets to the heart of Aries in these situations is by failing to react. You see, Aries wants to fight it out and move past the issue at hand, but Scorpio clams up and simply refuses to give the ram the satisfaction of closure through an argument. This drives Aries mad but places the ball in Scorpio’s court completely.
Being a Scorpio, your emotional well runs deeper than your Aries man, and this can be at the root of some of your more serious issues. Both you and your Aries man have a jealous side, but the Scorpio jealousy is what usually comes out in this pairing. Aries is constantly exploring and learning, so naturally he has lots of interests that extend beyond your relationship. Much to his surprise, these interests he’s always had are now something that brings insecurity and jealousy to his relationship with you.
The difference is that when you fall in love, you dedicate 100% of yourself to the relationship and this very special other person. Your Aries man is dedicated, don’t get me wrong, but his world doesn’t shift because of the relationship, but rather he simply adds the relationship to his world and keeps on moving. Compromise and understanding in this area is needed to combat the tendency to fall into this jealousy trap. You see, Aries hates to feel like he’s being held back and having a possessive, jealous partner isn’t something he will stick around with for very long.
Sexually these two score a 12 out of 10. The heavy Mars influence topped with the deep, primal energy from Pluto, there isn’t much these two won’t do behind closed doors. Aries is excited to try new things and push the boundaries with Scorpio and doesn’t feel the least little bit awkward the next morning. Aries adds a lighter feeling to the sexual experiences shared by these two, while Scorpio takes making fantasies into a reality to a whole new level with such an adventuresome partner as daring the daring Aries man.
While Aries/Scorpio relationships aren’t known for their longevity if you can make it work you and your Aries man can become an unstoppable force to be reckoned with. It is important for Aries to remember to give Scorpio a good bit of reassurance and that Scorpio makes it a point to not attack Aries with jealous accusations for having a life outside of your connection.
Aries Man and Sagittarius Woman
Aries and Sagittarius make a lively couple who complement one another nicely and get along just famously. There’s no lack of excitement when Aries and Sagittarius get together and the adventures shared are certain to create great memories for both partners.
Being a Sagittarius, you need a partner who is willing to let you go out and explore the world while you’ve still got time. Aries needs very much the same. There’s nothing Aries and Sagittarius can’t accomplish when they put their energy into it. Optimism and a thirst for happiness and success are what drives this couple, and you’ll rarely find them in any type of a serious argument or disagreement. Sagittarius seems to know how to work around Aries fiery temper and most disagreements, even if voices are raised (because let’s face it...fire signs), are gotten over quickly. Onward and upward should be the catch phrase for these two.
Both Aries and Sagittarius seem to be blessed with a lucky streak that helps get them through life relatively unscathed. This double dose of good fortune makes the Aries/Sagittarius couple one of the best match ups in the whole zodiac.
The spark between Aries and Sagittarius never completely fizzles out, making this one of the most, if not the most, passion filled romantic connections. Sagittarius typically won’t be the one to propose settling down or taking the relationship to the next level— I mean, things seem to be working out quite well the way they are, why overcomplicate the great relationship you already have?— But, after being together for a while and seeing that the worry of having a partner who wants to control you is a non-issue with your Aries man, the idea of leveling up your relationship seems much less intimidating. Over time it begins to seem like connecting on a more serious level is the logical thing to do.
Sagittarius is a free spirited kind of lover, willing to try anything once, a quality of the relationship that Aries really digs. Inhibitions are low with this pair, making the level of satisfaction through the roof. There are no expectations, so no disappointments. Sex isn’t limited to the bedroom, either. These two are apt to make a game out how seeing how many daring places they can explore their sexuality.
For Aries and Sagittarius love really is like a drug. It’s easy to become addicted to the good feelings you have when you’re together and the mutual encouragement to engage in risky behavior creates a constant stream of adrenaline that both of you want to keep going, pushing you to take on bigger and bigger risks. Take caution to avoid letting your quest for adventure take you down a reckless path.
Aries Man and Capricorn Woman
Aries and Capricorn share respect for one another, as well as a mutual attraction, but may have a tough time getting their relationship off the ground until they figure out how to best relate to one another without causing the other to shudder in distaste for the way the other person approaches life.
As a Capricorn, you’re more conservative than your innovative Aries counterpart. Your Aries man is always looking for new and better ways to tackle old problems, but you would really prefer he stop approaching you with these crazy pipe dream plans and stick to the more tried and true ways of going about things.
Both natural born leaders, Aries and Capricorn, can butt heads over who’s running the show in their relationship. With Capricorn, Aries can’t get away with being the boss. In fact, Capricorn can’t stand the lack of planning and fly by the seat of the pants approach Aries takes in life...even when making important decisions! Capricorn needs security to stay in a relationship, and between these two Capricorn will be the one who provides the security, not the hot-headed Aries guy over there arguing with the vending machine—He has his redeeming qualities, but creating stability is not typically one of them.
Aries, being the first in the zodiac, trails behind most Capricorns when it comes to maturity. Secretly Capricorn enjoys being in the company of someone so full of life and determined to succeed, even if he is constantly surrounded by a burning ring of chaos. Sometimes, however, Aries reckless behavior can be a catalyst that pushes the goat over the edge.
Often Aries/Capricorn couples fall into a pattern where the Capricorn person fills the role of the “adult” in the relationship. Considering their individual personality traits, this can actually be the best solution to the frustrations that come up between Aries and Capricorn. As long as Capricorn doesn’t get tired of having to toe the line for the eternal youthful Aries—Should your Aries man take advantage of the fact that Capricorn always cleans up whatever messes are made the relationship dynamic would change drastically, and not for the better.
Capricorn isn’t one to jump into a relationship on a whim, giving Aries the chance to really get into the chase. The more difficult Capricorn makes it for Aries to win her affections the harder he’ll try—As long as he’s interested, of course.
Capricorn has a deeply sensual side that will surprise and delight the Aries man, he’s just got to get her to open up enough to get to that moment. The time Capricorn makes Aries wait adds to the anticipation and desire that he’s already driven by—The more pushy Aries is the less likely Capricorn is to succumb to his advances, so it will do the ram some good to slow his roll a bit and take a more concentrated approach to seducing his Capricorn mate.
Aries Man and Aquarius Woman
Aries and Aquarius make a great match, possibly one of the best. Both Aries and Aquarius live their lives in a quest for new experiences and knowledge that can be used to improve their respective futures. Aquarius’ idealistic view of what the world should be makes sense to Aries, who also has some bug dreams and visions for his future.
These two live in the moment, and they do it together. They are each mindful of the other and give one another the freedom and independence that they each need to feel free and unencumbered by the relationship.
The relationship between Aries and Aquarius his likely to begin without either really putting too much thought into what’s next. Impulsive and kind of erratic, Aquarius is willing to give it a go with Aries as a mate. Who better to experience life with than someone who remains in perpetual motion?
Unfortunately, relationships forged between Aries and Aquarius aren’t known to have a great deal of staying power. It’s not because they have a falling out or they lack compatibility; it’s more that after a time these two rolling stone type personalities drift apart. It’s easy for these two to remain friends who periodically catch up and share their latest conquests and adventures with one another.
Having Uranus as our ruling planet, gives you a touch of eccentricity and a quirkiness that your Aries man is drawn to. Your idealistic views on the world, however, differ greatly from the views held by your Aries man. Aries is a warrior, whereas Aquarius is the visionary of the Zodiac and will forever remain diametrically opposed to all thing war related. Aquarius sees the value in everyone and sees Aries warrior attitude as being rather petty and unnecessary.
Where Aquarius and Aries differ, the most intensely is their emotional maturity. Aries is hot headed and invests himself 150% in whatever he’s doing, to include being emotionally available for his mate. Aquarius comes off as being detached and even cold, placing intellect above emotional availability. Conversely, Aries intensity and expectation of his partner being as enthusiastic about the relationship puts too much pressure on Aquarius to conform to these expectations, something that most Aquarians aren’t willing to do. Compromise is needed, as well as a healthy understanding of what each partner needs to feel loved and secure in the relationship.
When it comes down to getting dirty, Aries and Aquarius make up for the areas of incompatibility with shared passion and a desire to explore new areas of their own sexuality with a partner who’s not afraid to explore uncharted waters in the bedroom. Aquarius is always down to try new positions, locations and toys with her excitable Aries man, and with this guy there’s never a shortage of burning desire and chemistry.
The Aquarius tendency to come off as cool and detached does sometimes extend into the bedroom, which can spark bouts of jealousy in the Aries man. The way he sees it, if his partner isn’t as into the experience as he is there must be something wrong when in reality Aquarius just has a different way of expressing passionate desires.
Aries Man and Pisces Woman
Aries and Pisces share a complex connection that, on the surface, seems to be rather impossible to maintain. Once these two get into a groove together, however, both partners usually find something in this unlikely pairing that just kind of works and allows both partners to express themselves honestly and completely without reservation.
The Aries man likes to be in charge and typically is the dominant force in his relationships. Pisces is more reserved and shies away from taking the lead in relationships, rather preferring to have a partner who’s willing to fill the role of someone who will stand up for the her and act as a protector.
As a Pisces, you have an innate ability to know and understand your Aries man, probably even better than he understands himself. You can see past his abrasive nature to the emotionally fragile man behind the facade. This allows Aries to open up and allow himself to be vulnerable, you know, whenever the mood strikes. It’s this ability to see beyond his the strong hero persona the Aries man projects that really makes Pisces fall for him. It’s the imperfections that go unnoticed by others that Pisces immediately picks up on that makes this connection special.
Your Aries man is drawn into the enchanting nature and piercing gaze of his Pisces lover, and who could blame him? Those born under the Sun sign Pisces are just as hard to resist as they are to figure out, making this mysterious lover a captivating puzzle that Aries can’t quite figure out. Pisces loves to be pursued and chased after. It usually takes time for these two to actually solidify their relationship, but if anyone is up for the challenge of seducing Pisces, it’s Aries.
The softer side of Aries can come out when he’s with his watery Pisces partner. You help him to discover a softer, gentler side of himself that he sometimes forgets there. Aries optimistic energy and attitude can bring Pisces out of the deepest depths of emotional turmoil that sometimes is the result of being so connected and feeling things so deeply. Aries is also capable of putting her there when something Pisces has done gets him all worked up into a tizzy. He never means for his words or actions to cause this reaction, but it does happen.
Where Aries and Pisces run into trouble is when neediness and codependency come into play. Like all water signs, Pisces can easily start to feel insecure when things get rocky, especially in the early stages of the relationship. While Pisces is less demanding than, say, Scorpio, there is still potential for issues to arise from Pisces codependent nature. Your Aries man will love you with all he’s got and commit to the relationship 100%, but the moment he starts to feel stifled or smothered is the moment things can start to go south for this pair.
Sexually these two ignite something within one another that’s hard to find in a partner. Sex extends beyond the physical realm and can be a very spiritual experience for both Aries and Pisces. His unbridled passion allows dreamy Pisces to play out her wildest fantasies and lose herself in his strong warm embrace. Aries is insanely attracted and drawn to Pisces softer feminine energy. Their encounters make him feel virile, manly and strong— All of the things he wants to be for her.
All in all Aries and Pisces can build and grow a relationship that will stand the test of time, but, as with all relationships, there is a need for lots of compromise and understanding. These two have a lot to learn from one another and find that the relationship helps them both to grow as individuals, as well as a couple. Pisces getsher daring prince charming, and Aries gets to play the part of the hero, a role he never tires of.
How To Make Him Fall In Love With You
Ok, so now that you know just about everything there is to know about these guys, from what they like, what to expect when you interact with them, and even how compatible they are with each individual Sun sign, I’m going to show you how you can seal the deal with him and make him yours for keeps.
It’s time to put what you’ve learned thus far to use and start working on building a real relationship with your sexy Aries man!
Most of us spend a lot of our lives looking for that one perfect love that transcends all else. We search and search for our soulmate or our twin flame, hoping that we get to be the kind of old people who are still laughing, kissing, and holding hands in our golden years. It is entirely possible to achieve this and reach the pinnacle of love and happiness with someone else, but first things first— You’ve got to love yourself.
As I’ve said, it isn’t all that difficult to attract an Aries man. He likes lots of things, and if you play your cards right, he’ll like you too. Attracting him is only the beginning in your quest to finding true love with your Aries man, but how will you know when he really starts to have feelings for you, too?
How You’ll Know He’s Really Into You
He asks your opinion on things he’s planning or doing-
Aries is fiercely independent and completely capable of figuring out what he wants and how to go about getting it on his own. Where his selfish side comes in, he spends a good amount of time focusing on himself, not giving much thought to the opinions or input of others. Why should he? As far as he’s concerned, it’s his life and he’s the one living it, and anyone who feels they should voice criticisms of his personal choices should keep their thoughts and opinions to themselves.
Taking that into account, it’s a pretty big deal when your Aries man begins to not only consider how his actions will affect you but actually asking for your input as to what you think he should do. Remember that Aries leads, he doesn’t stop to ask permission, so involving you in any personal decision making process of his is pretty huge.
You overhear him telling friends or coworkers about you-
Aries is a bit of a bragger, and he tends to brag about things that make him happy and make him feel accomplished. When he brags about you or your relationship, you’ll know without a shadow of a doubt that this man has real love for you. He’s building you up to his peers, family members, or whomever, and showing them all how much you mean to him.
There’s a part of the Aries man who really wishes that he had a trophy wife to make other men he knows jealous and realize that he wins when it comes to women. Everything in life is a competition, even if nobody is really competing besides him. So, when he gets to the point where he starts to brag on you more than he does himself, this is a huge indication of his growing love for you.
He lets you see his sensitive side-
On the surface Aries is intense, high energy, and fueled by testosterone mixed with a little gun powder. He rarely, if ever, lets anyone catch him with his guard down, so when you begin to notice your Aries warrior is opening up to you and showing his sensitive and leaving himself emotionally vulnerable, you know that you’ve gotten into his head AND his heart.
It takes time to get to this point with one another, but the time you put into becoming friends and getting to know one another better will lay a solid foundation for love and romance. If you skipped the friendship phase with your Aries man and went straight to the lovers phase it will be more beneficial than you could imagine to create and nurture a friendship along with your romantic ties.
Do’s and Don’ts Of Dating An Aries Man
Date night is always an engaging experience when you and your Aries man go out. He puts living life to the fullest at the top of his list if important things in life and he never misses an opportunity to make some memories sharing experiences with those he cares for and enjoys spending time with.
There are a few things to know before, or when, you date an Aries man. We’ll go over some of the more important do’s and don’ts now.
Try to always keep your Aries man guessing, and find things to surprise him with randomly to hold his interest and keep him coming back for more. Aries is a doer, not a thinker, and more often than not he won’t spend more than 30 seconds pondering major life decisions. Sounds a tad risky, yeah, but it works really well for Aries. His impulsive nature and rather short attention span doesn’t do well with excessive planning.
Look your best when you go out together-
Aries has a great appreciation for beauty and feminine features. He’s turned on and attracted by women who have more of a feminine vibe than he is by someone who’s more of a tomboy. When Aries finds you to be particularly beautiful he will go out of his way to comment on whatever you are wearing. Classic beauty style is always the way to go when looking to land yourself a sexy Aries man. If you really want to drive him mad with desire show just enough skin to keep him from taking his eyes off of you, but still keeping it classy.
Use your body language to communicate with him-
Aries is a highly physical sign and he communicates best through visual cues rather than through verbal and written communication alone. And, when you use your entire body to communicate, and flirt with him, you make much more of an impression than if you’d used only your words. Talking and making gestures with your hands, touching his arm when talking to him about something exciting, and making it a point to angle your body either toward him or away from him, depending on your particular goal with him at that time, are all important methods of using body language with your Aries man.
Stand up for yourself and your beliefs-
Aries has no problem at all standing up for himself, for you, for his neighbor, whoever needs protecting, he’s there to protect. His mentality is sweet and genuine when he’s putting himself out there for others and being protective (sometimes overly-so). He can become aggressive quickly and won’t stand for anyone treating him less than how he deserves to be treated, and he wants a mate who’s capable and willing to stand up for herself rather than wait for him to do it for her. Such a dominant man has to have a strong parter, plus Aries is insanely attracted to women who emanate confidence and capability.
Always leave him wanting more-
Aries is unmatched in passion and intensity and most of these guys have the libido of a teenager in a strip club, but if you give it all to him at once there’ll be nothing new for him to look forward to and think about in-between times you spend together. By teasing him and bringing him right to the edge but making him wait just a touch longer will drive him wild with desire for you. The longer you are together the more creative you may have to be. So long as he leaves with the desire to return, your Aries man will stick around and never stray.
Don’t come across to him as being all codependent or excessively needy-
There’s nothing Aries hates more than having to deal with someone who didn’t get the memo that he can’t handle a needy, suffocating partner. Once in a while is ok, everyone needs ashoulder to cry on or someone to vent to once in a while. However, if codependency and an inability to function without your Aries man being right there, or otherwise somehow tethered to you, starts to become the norm, you’ll soon see your Aries man heading down the road and onto his next adventure.
Don’t make it too easy for him to get a date with you in the first place-
Aries favorite part about romance and love, aside from the sex, is the chase. He is the hunter and you are his prey, but the moment you give in things start to change. The relationship seems less exciting once he’s gotten you, so make him work for it and build up some anticipation as to what it’s like to be intimate and physical with you. Keep him guessing and play hard to get by being indifferent or aloof with him. If he’s interested your Aries man will, at this point, make it his mission to change your mind and persuade you to go out with him—When really that was your plan the whole time!
Don’t chase after him, ever-
Being that Aries holds the designation of the hunter in this romantic wooing scenario, getting him to chase you to become closer to one another is not something that goes the other way. If you were to approach your Aries man and take on the role of hunter yourself there is a very good chance that he’ll lose interest and you’ll lose your chance to be with him. This is not to say that he doesn’t want your affection, trust me he does. What he doesn’t want is to switch roles and become the prey, as the switch would remove any excitement or challenge from the whole situation.
Don’t submit to him completely-
Your Aries man is a dominating force, regardless of his environment or who’s company he’s in, and he truly wants to be the one in control. If you can find a good compromise and work out who’s in charge of what, I’ve found that is usually the best way to go. That being said, it’s important to remember that it’s good to bend when the situation calls fir that, but never fully submit to an Aries or he will never see you in the same light again. He wants a mate who can be his co-pilot and second in command and you’ve got to have a strong personality to be able to keep up with an Aries man. Full on submissiveness is not something that will make him like you any more, in fact, it can be a huge turn off for the warrior of the zodiac.
Aries Men And Long Term Relationships
The Aries man is a bit of a rolling stone and not someone who goes out looking for someone to settle down with just for the sake of settling down. That would be boring and if there’s anything Aries is not it’s boring. This is not to say that these guys never settle down, obviously they do; but it takes a special kind of partner to land one of these eternally optimistic, ambitious, successful and passionate men.
Aries is a hopeless romantic at heart. He believes in love at first sight, soul mates, magick and a whole host of other things some would say are more fantasy than reality, but those naysayers are never as happy as Aries typically is, so I leave it up to you to determine who’s right and who’s less right in that scenario.
Being a fire sign, Aries lives a life guided by his spirituality and trusting his gut. If a relationship and connection feels right and he’s deep in love, the Aries man won’t hesitate to make a commitment to a long term relationship. It all seems quite simple when he’s feeling the warm embrace of really being in love.
If the chemistry isn't right and the spark just isn’t there, there’s not much that can be done to “fix” it. In this type of situation the Aries man won't even entertain the idea of settling down with a commitment, not even a little bit. The determining factor for whether or not an Aries man will make a commitment is simply the presence or absence of true love.
How To Get That Aries Man Into Bed
To be honest, it’s not that difficult to seduce Aries men and get one into your bed. I mean, they’re literally ruled by raw passion, desire and, of course, testosterone laden masculinity, so it’d be more surprising if your Aries boyfriend didn’t end up in your bed.
Aries is relatively easy to seduce with some tight clothes, short skirts and ample breasts and sweet smiles, but there’s something different about how he approaches sex with someone special from sex with someone he knows he isn’t going to be continually seeing or develop an emotional connection with.
Don’t be afraid to flirt with him shamelessly to get his attention and let him know where your thoughts are headed. After you’ve done this and he begins to respond with a little, or a lot of, flirting himself, this is where you draw back and play it cool, letting him take the lead and do his best to work his way into your life. The more of a challenge you offer him, while maintaining that sexy smile and seductive gaze every now and again, the harder he will work at making your connection a real thing.
You can go back and forth like this for a matter of days, maybe even weeks, and when all is said and done the chances are very good that you’ll have gotten what you were after, and that it was incredibly satisfying on a multitude of levels.
What To Expect When Making Love To An Aries Man
The Aries man is fueled by his lusty desires and he knows how to make his woman feel like a queen behind closed doors. His sexual prowess is through the roof, even if he’s not got a whole lot of personal experience, and you won’t find many who’ve made love to one of these guys and didn’t reach climax.
He knows how to love you and what your body wants and needs better than you do, and he is giving to his partner as long as you’re giving with him. Hot, sweaty, pulse pounding sex that makes your neighbors ask, “Are you two ok in there?” is what he’s all about.
A Few Words Of Advice On How To Make Your Relationship Last
It takes a special kind of woman to land one of these amazing men, but it takes an even more amazing woman to figure out how to make the relationship with an Aries man last. Here I’ve listed the biggest things I hear from my clients who have Aries partners, and I think there’s even a few bits of advice from an Aries man himself on creating an atmosphere that makes him stick around and an energy that keeps him there because he’s happy.
Maintain some level of healthy competition between you and your Aries man-
Aries is one of the most competitive signs in the zodiac, and this competitive edge is what keeps him interested in some things he’s got to maintain but may not really want to—Daily chores, tasks and whatnot—He finds some kind of competition in just about everything he does, and if you can throw out a little friendly wager and engage in some activity that’s competitive yet fun your Aries man will begin to see you, not just as a friend and lover, but as a game mate and someone who pushes him to be his best self. Plus, competition keeps you on your toes.
If you want something to last forever you’ve got to make it fun
If you aren’t already, make it a point to become close friends and really get to know one another well-
Any relationship will be improved by the foundation being build and growing from a strong friendship. Even if you and your Aries man didn’t start out as friends you can start right now and work on strengthening that area of you relationship and connection. This is not only a strengthening exercise to improve the longevity of your relationship, it provides you with a more objective view of your partner should you get into a major blowout.
Be available for him and for the relationship-
Aries men and women both require a lot of attention and time from their mate, and problems can arise if enough time isn’t available or given.
Love can be all consuming for the ram, and once he’s decided he is going to bond and connect with a partner, he gives the other person and the relationship 110%. After being so dedicated the Aries man can’t quite understand why his partner isn’t giving the same 110% to the union. Did he make a mistake?—No, and once his bout of insecurity has passed he will see that it isn't a mistake, he’s just a bit more needy than some, which is a tad ironic considering how much he despises neediness in others.
When we get right down to it, the Aries man needs to know that he’s needed & appreciated and that he is an important part of your life.
You’ve Now Graduated to Aries Man Level— Expert
On the surface, Aries is intense, high energy, and fueled by testosterone mixed with a little gun powder. He rarely, if ever, lets anyone catch him with his guard down, so when you begin to notice your Aries warrior is opening up to you and showing his sensitive and leaving himself emotionally vulnerable, you know that you’ve gotten into his head AND his heart.
It takes time to get to this point with one another, but the time you put into becoming friends and getting to know one another better will lay a solid foundation for love and romance. If you skipped the friendship phase with your Aries man and went straight to the lover's phase, it will be more beneficial than you could imagine to create and nurture a friendship along with your romantic ties. Congratulations! You’ve now mastered understanding the Aries man and how he works. With all that we’ve gone over you will be able to not only attract your Aries, but also keep him. You also have a good head start on realizing the potential issues that you may run into, depending on your own Sun sign, as well as the things that make you a great match for one another.
If you can refrain from being controlling or too demanding of your Aries man, and if he can be more mindful of his temper and angry outbursts, you stand a decent chance of developing the relationship you’ve always wanted with your very special Aries man. He isn’t always easy to live with, and he is by no means perfect, but he is more interesting than most, and he’ll definitely add some spice to your life.
He’s charismatic, charming, bold, maybe a little hedonistic, impatient, lucky, ambitious, carefree, and lots of other admirable adjectives. He has a jealous side, but he would never try to clip his partner's wings. He, himself, knows how important it is to maintain independence, even when in a relationship—Aries would tell you how important it is, especially when in a relationship.
Now, I know that relationships don’t always go as planned, which is why this is not all I have to share with you about the Aries man. If you’ve had him and lost him, whatever the reason, there may be a way to mend your broken relationship, and you can find the secrets to doing so in my bonus book How To Get an Aries Man Back. This, along with the other special bonus books included in the Aries man series, will help you to become even more in-tuned with your own Aries man while providing you with the tools and the knowledge you need to handle anything that comes up in your relationship.
I wish you all the very best in life and love, and I always love to hear from my readers, so please, never hesitate to be in touch if you’ve got questions about things we didn’t cover.
Now, what are you waiting for? Get out there and create the relationship you’ve always dreamt of with your Aries man!
May the stars be on your side,
P.S. I'd love to hear from you! If you've got any questions or need some extra help with your specific situation, feel free to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org — that's your platinum consulting line I'll be happy to help you out as soon as I grab some time.